I m about to enter university life, how to get along with the people around me in harmony?

When interacting with people, be careful about politeness. Be broad-minded, be generous, and not too narrow-minded. Take the initiative to introduce yourself and get acquainted with the people around you. Be honest with your friends, don't cheat, or you'll be isolated.

You should keep yourself in a good mood every day, and then get along with the people around you, solve problems together, and don't complain about each other, so that your university life will be very fulfilling.

First of all, let your personality become lively and cheerful, and at the same time respect your classmates, understand each other, don't put your own strength on your classmates, and don't just lose your temper.

First of all, you have to learn to be tolerant of others, not to worry about some small things, to do a good job of collective living habits, and not always want others to adapt to you.

In this collective environment, don't be too selfish, think about problems for others from the perspective of others, learn to empathize, and you can integrate well into the surrounding environment.

First of all, the things you need to consider are to control your temper, to be calm and objective when dealing with others, and then to be friendly to others, etc.

We have to bring more money, because as long as you borrow enough money, the people next to you will be happy to get along with you and be happy to be with you, which is a very important thing.

If each other's three views are the same, they will naturally live in harmony. But if the three views don't match, don't forcibly blend, why bother, the most important thing is to be happy, and the Tao is not the same.

When we go to university, we will start to live in a group, and we should tolerate each other, understand each other, help each other, and manage the relationship between roommates.

Now that you have entered the university, there are many things that you need to face by yourself, you have to learn to integrate into the university as a collective, maybe you will have a lot of things that you are not used to, and you have to choose to tolerate.

1.When borrowing something, remember to say thank you. Don't use your roommate's stuff for your own sake, it's really annoying.

2.If you wake up early and your roommate hasn't gotten up yet, remember to go down the stairs, wash up, etc. gently, don't crackle, the dormitory is not for one person.

3.Don't tell everything to your roommates. Not everyone will keep your affairs secret for you, and your roommate may not be as nice to you as you seem, and maybe one day you will see his face because of one thing.

4.Stay away from people who are constantly pumping bad emotions into you. Something will affect you subtly.

I experienced something like this, roommate 1 got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom because he flushed the water. The next day, roommate 2 said that roommate 1 had made a noise to her when she flushed the toilet last night. I said, maybe roommate 1 is older.

Roommate 2 said that it was impossible, and she went on for more than 30 seconds. I was ...... in my heart

Roommate 2 belongs to the kind of person who is too sensitive in her heart, because she can't sleep and has insomnia, she will blame her roommate for arguing with her.

Speechless. 5.Have your own opinions.

If you don't want others to do it, you can do it, and have your own opinions. If you want to finish your homework before you go to dinner and shopping, there is no need to go to dinner and shopping with them first. It's really bad to blindly cater to others like this, and it will make you lose a lot of things.

Sometimes relationships aren't very important.

6.Don't be in small groups and isolated. Some dormitories may have three or four groups in one dormitory, and I've really come across them. It's really low-quality socializing, it's better to work hard to improve yourself.

To live in harmony, university life should be done: 1. Respect others and establish friendships; 2. Respect each other and respect individual differences; 3. Abide by school rules and discipline and learn to abide by discipline; 4. Be tolerant of others and respect civilization; 5. Respect dormitory classmates and learn to be considerate of others; 6. Create a friendly environment and maintain unity and harmony; 7. Reflect problems in a timely manner and protect their own rights and interests.

As college students, how do we get along with people?

Interpersonal relationships are very important in the university, the university itself is a small human society, at this time, if you do not deal with interpersonal relationships, it can be said that many things will be more troublesome in the future, interpersonal relationships are the psychological state that people need in society. Pay attention to the principle of altruism, in any human-machine relationship, we must be good at discovering the benefits of others, so as to maintain the psychological relationship between each other to keep close, otherwise it will gradually become estranged, a degree of mutual need.

The most important thing to get along with people is sincerity, treat people with sincerity, pay attention to faith is the guarantee of deepening interpersonal relations, only if both sides have a sincere and kind attitude, the relationship will go further, and we also need to understand each other, trust, accept and respect each other.

And don't worry about it, people who care about everything will slowly alienate him, such as going out together, because some small things are careful, and the originally happy things will sweep everyone's interest, and over time friends will be farther and farther away from you.

There is also learning to keep a distance, distance produces beauty, no matter how good a friend is, don't stick to it all the time to disturb, which will only make the other party feel very annoying; No matter how good the relationship is, some things he will dislike should be avoided, and don't say hurtful things.

Interpersonal interactions should be intimate and moderate.

1.Respect the national habits of different nationalities, because the students in the university are basically students from all over the world, so in the university will come into contact with people of various nationalities, students of different nationalities will definitely have cultural differences, so we can not be dissatisfied with others because of different ethnic customs.

2.With a positive and optimistic attitude, treat life kindly, help each other in getting along with classmates, be helpful, and help students when they are in trouble, within our ability.

3.Good personal hygiene is also important, especially in the dormitory, where the dormitory is a big family. We're all part of the dormitory. A good dormitory environment is also good for our physical and mental health.

It is very important to deal with the relationship in the dormitory in college, when you are resting, people will automatically keep quiet, the four years in college, the four years that make us grow the fastest, the four years in the dormitory and the four years with our roommates, are our good memories, come and see how we get along with our roommates?

1. Smile welcome: When reporting in the dormitory, greet the roommate in the dormitory with a smile, a smile can leave a good impression, and at the same time will make the roommate think that you are particularly easy to get along with and polite, so be sure to remember to smile.

2. Help your roommates: If your roommates are in trouble in the dormitory, you must do your best to help.

3. Be tolerant of others: Everyone has their own faults, so we can't ask everyone to be perfect, we must have a tolerant heart to tolerate others, so that others can tolerate us, so that we can get along with our roommates more harmoniously.

4. Care about roommates: When we get along with our roommates, we should carefully observe the preferences of our roommates and take the initiative to care about our roommates, which will make the roommates' bedroom life more comfortable, and at the same time, the relationship between us and our roommates will become intimate.

5. Treat people sincerely: We must get along with our roommates from the heart, so that our roommates can feel our sincerity, see our quality, trust us more, and then become real friends with us.

6. Be honest with each other.

Sometimes people in the dormitory don't get along well together.

Because after a long time, you will find the shortcomings of the other party, and sometimes you will not like it.

But the dormitories should be united.

Your sincere actions will impress others to be honest.

Sometimes don't get too intimate because it's going to get tired.

And even if some of the fire is bigger, remember to press it in the dormitory first, or you will be a little cold to your roommates.

I'm sure other people won't be able to stand it when I meet disgusting roommates.

Don't let others affect you too much!

College students need to insist on being a responsible, patient, and wise person to manage their feelings. We should practice ourselves more, learn to regulate our emotions, and at the same time develop more real friends and establish real friendships. It is also necessary to overcome fears, have the courage to accept challenges, and strive to cultivate the ability to communicate and understand, build trust, and make the relationship healthier and more stable.

The social circle of college students is nothing more than the people in the dormitory, the people in the student union of the club, and the people in the class.

First of all, I think it's important to reject ineffective socializing. Don't socialize with people who don't make sense of getting along in the first place, because it will only waste time and feelings. In the end, it's all a failure.

You must be in a comfortable environment, if you socialize, communicate and communicate between friends, and make yourself feel uncomfortable, you must stop socializing, stop socializing (refuse ineffective socializing) and don't do thankless things, because it doesn't matter, because college is your own life, it is enough to live your own life, and you must integrate into a circle that does not belong to you, It will only make your college life more troublesome (really unnecessary family), and it is good to have a happy college life! This is your own life, what others say and think, it is their own thoughts, and it has nothing to do with you. It's really enough to live your own life seriously, college students.

(1) Lack of close friends with classmates.

A college student in a certain college felt lonely and depressed because of his dull interaction with his classmates, so he ran away from school with no news. The school sent people to search everywhere to no avail, so they had no choice but to call the police and notify his family. The university student did not leave the city, but spent several days in an Internet café talking to people on the Internet.

Exhausted, he returned to school. The news spread, and the parents who had come to look for their children for many days were so excited that they burst into tears. In a fit of rage, the school ordered him to drop out of school.

Like the one in the above example, the protagonist has many college students with similar problems, they can interact with people, but most of them are nodding friends, and they always feel that they lack influence and have no close friends, so they feel empty, lost and lost.

2) It is difficult to get along with individual people.

A college student's roommate was a competitive person who was difficult to get along with, which made him distressed. This roommate has a lot of problems. For example, I often don't flush after going to the toilet, I often hit ** in the middle of the night, I like to use other people's things indiscriminately, etc., but I can't tolerate others to say, not only do I not admit my mistakes, but I also quarrel with others.

The college student was conflicted and didn't know whether to argue with this roommate: if he fought hard, he would definitely quarrel; If you don't fight, you feel very angry.

Many college students are like the protagonists in this example, they have good relationships with most people, but it is difficult to get along with a few people, which often affects their emotions and feels like they are stuck in their throats. This individual could be a roommate, a classmate, a teacher, or a parent.

3) Feeling that it is difficult to socialize.

A girl has always been pampered at home, and all the housework is done by her parents, so her self-care ability is very poor. When you enter the university, you don't fold quilts, do laundry, sweep the floor, etc. Life is full of difficulties and study is very intense, which makes her very psychologically stressed.

Her roommates in the same dormitory also despised her. So she began to live alone, depressed all day, not interested in anything, her academic performance was getting worse and worse, and she wanted to drop out of school and go home at one point.

This kind of college students are eager to socialize and have close friends, but due to various reasons such as personality defects, psychological barriers or limited communication skills, and improper methods, interpersonal relationships are not handled well and are not very popular. As a result, they often feel distressed and frustrated.