Come on, come on. If you take the initiative, we ll have a story

In life, most people are passive. Passive learning in school, waiting for others to talk to you when making friends, everyone knows the phrase "take the initiative and we will have a story", but few people can do it, which is one of the reasons why you didn't get into your favorite school and didn't talk about your favorite friends.

What you want to do, you must take the initiative to fight for it.

When you were young, the family sat at the dinner table, and before you waited for you to shout and scream for something, Mom and Dad would put something delicious in your bowl. Growing up, anyone who can add food to your bowl must be someone who loves you. When you first started going out, you couldn't open your face, and you couldn't eat well outside.

Later, you will definitely let yourself eat well and be full, and you know that if you want to eat, you must turn the table and pick up the dishes by yourself.

When making friends and falling in love, I believe you must have lived like this: open the other party's chat window, type a paragraph and delete it. It's either that you've just been together, or you're about to break up.

You hesitate, wander, and be the passive party.

Obviously, you can ask him out to meet right away, but because of the shyness and the idea that girls can't be too active, you can't hold hands with him in time, show your beautiful smile, and wait for him to ask you out.

Obviously, you will be able to end the relationship on the edge of the cliff soon, but because of the affection and some trivial memories, you will delay again and again, and continue the relationship that is not dead or alive.

Take the initiative to love without expecting anything in return.

When you meet a lover who understands you, he doesn't need you to take the initiative; When you meet the right lover, you have to go both ways, and you have to take the initiative to love; When you meet someone you love, you must take the initiative in everything.

Many people take the initiative to get tired after a long time, and the previous understanding of this sentence is that one of the two people does not love each other so much, and there is no timely response, so that the other party is tired of love and tired.

Now I feel that I don't love each other so much, as long as you ask for something in return, you will be tired.

Do you see parents getting tired when they love their children?

The more you ask for many things, the more you can't get it, you give him an apple, you think he will have to give you a dragon fruit, you see that he didn't give it to you, you continue to give him bananas, grapes, and then he still doesn't give it to you, you can't wait, you feel that it was given to the wrong person, but you may not know that he took the time to prepare a big fruit basket.

I hope that in 2021, I will reduce the passive psychological plot of feasting, take the initiative to do everything I want to do, take the initiative to love, laugh, cry, scold, be stupid, oh, by the way, the most important thing is to continue to be handsome.

Summary. It shows that the other party wants to chase you, the other party likes you, and wants to be with you, so the other party believes this sentence, and the other party tries early.

It is said that the story will only come if you take the initiative, so I'll try what it means.

Hello. It shows that the other party wants to chase you, the other party likes you, and wants to be with you, so the other party believes this sentence, and the other party tries early.

Just like. There is no love.

Right. You can't tell by just one sentence, you should be able to feel it yourself.