Why are there so many singles, I can t go on anymore, what should I do?

I think self-confidence is the most important thing for men, because only self-confidence can show their good side, why many people will not succeed in chasing the person they like, I personally think it is mainly because you are afraid of making a fool of yourself in front of the woman you like, but you want to show yourself, so you tend to become very contrived, as a man, you can analyze it, what disadvantages do you have, for example, if you are not handsome, then you will deepen in conversation and connotation, and occasional humor can also make others feel that you are confident, At least I won't be bored every day with you, but I have to do this under the premise of self-confidence, if you are not confident, others will feel that you are pretending to do anything, and no one will like the person who pretends to be X, so give yourself confidence and show your style, so that if you are not the kind of person who is very annoying, you will soon find your love. This article is my personal opinion, including studying behavioral psychology for a period of time, I hope it will be helpful to you. I sincerely wish you to find true love soon...

Don't be impatient, that will miss out on the good.

You have to be at ease, do your best, do your best to enrich your life, don't think too much about what you have and don't, and devote yourself to your career, just for the sake of your future wife.

When your restless heart really calms down.

You don't know that the seriousness, the confidence, the attraction that men have when they are committed to their careers is invincible.

Maybe you are mediocre in appearance, but your strength from the heart will make women involuntarily attracted to you.

Maybe you will find that when you have a successful career one day.

You're surrounded by all kinds of beauties that you can't even think of now.

Believe me, don't be afraid even if a man is forty.

Participate in more outdoor activities, such as singing karaoke with friends and barbecues, and you can meet many people who may be suitable for you.

At the same time, you should pay attention to your appearance, not to be rich and handsome, but to be fresh and tidy.

And be confident, so that you can attract the attention of girls.

If you meet someone you like, you should be bold and confess, and don't miss the opportunity.

Pure handwriting.

Dear, is it helpful to you!

There's nothing to think about, if you can't do it, ask yourself if you have the financial ability, if so, directly introduce you to a lot, if not, or struggle first!

Just look at your screen name to know that you are in love, which is the reason why you are 'light'. If you don't want to meditate on her mind and imagine what she wants in all aspects, high, medium, and low values, how much she can hold, you can basically have a goal and be willing to chase it, so let's choose a target first. As for the back, you're still early, or you're really catching up, and you can grasp it without being told by others.

goodlucky！

Then be realistic and find someone who is willing to live with you. Note: Don't suspect that the parents are average, just skins! Decades later, all the beautiful and ugly women are the same!

Keep your eyes peeled and try to find the right people around you

You are poor and have no self-confidence.

Work hard and everything will be there!

Go on a blind date on TV, this should be the best way, and it is also the fastest.

Oh, blind date, this is the fastest quick way. Don't get married for the sake of getting married!!

How old are you? If you are underage, it is recommended to wait for a few more years, and wait for adults to consider it later.

Cold salad, if you see a good girl, take it.

If you are not sincere, do not disturb, there are many, many more blind dates to win, you can go.

Use your heart to attract the people around you! Good luck.

If people have no foresight, they must have near-term worries!! Although the words are short, but the words are incisive, I don't also hope that lz can think about it, after all, I understand my own things better, and others can't give you 100% satisfactory answers.

Join Do Not Disturb, or Let's go on a date with Hunan TV, and wait for you on TV.

Just find a girlfriend now!

Then find a piece of clothing to wear.

You have to believe that the good is waiting for you in the future

Wait, wait, the daughter-in-law will have it.

If you don't have contact with girls, where can you get a girlfriend?

Our country is very concerned about people's lives, and the state has formulated a series of policies to ensure people's lives, among which the elderly, disabled and minors who have no ability to work, no livelihood, and no legal support obligation in rural areas or although they have legal support obligations, but have no ability to support and support, can apply to become five-guarantee households and be supported by the state. The protection content of the five-guarantee household includes food, clothing, medical care, housing, and burial (orphans are protected by education), that is to say, after applying to become a five-guarantee household, clothing, food, housing and transportation can be guaranteed. Therefore, the elderly life of singles in the countryside may be better than that of ordinary people, so I will talk about it in detail below.

The single elderly in the countryside, after becoming a five-guarantee household, have two choices, one is to live in a nursing home and be supported by the nursing home; The second is to live in their own home, to support themselves, and the state pays regular pensions, and there will also be regular visits by state workers. Of course, these two choices are mainly based on the personal wishes of the elderly, if the elderly are unable to take care of themselves, it depends on the choice of the guardian of the elderly.

The first option, life in a nursing home. In the nursing homes I have seen, the old people live in spacious, bright rooms, generally 2-3 elderly people live in a room, and the rooms have private bathrooms, air conditioning and other facilities. In terms of diet, the configuration of each meal for the elderly is 2 dishes and 1 soup, although they rarely eat meat, but every once in a while there will be chicken, ribs and other meals.

If the elderly are unwell, the hospital will also send the elderly to the local hospital**, of course, the ** fee is borne by the state. In addition, there is also a vegetable garden in the courtyard, where some elderly people can plant land to pass the time. Of course, old people can also get together to chat and watch TV.

Therefore, there is basically nothing bad about life in a nursing home, except that you can't go in and out of the nursing home casually.

The second option is life at home. The state will regularly issue subsidies to the elderly of the five-guarantee households, and the elderly of the five-guarantee households at home can freely use the money. In addition, the state will regularly arrange physical examinations for the elderly and arrange for people to visit them.

Of course, life at home will be relatively free, and you can eat and travel according to your own wishes.

In short, the old age life of the single elderly in the countryside may be better than we imagined.

If you have a physical disability, you can apply for a special poverty supporter if you are over 55 years old, which is what we call a five-guarantee household. In our local special support staff, there will be a guardian, either their immediate family member, or the president or village secretary. Of course, the monthly support fund of up to 600 yuan for the extremely poor will be directly distributed to them, and there will be a lot of gifts and rice, flour and oil directly delivered to them during the New Year's holidays.

1.Going to a nursing home, which requires them to save some savings at a young age.

2.Relying on relatives and friends, if you are in good health when you are old, it is basically convenient to walk, you can stay at home, and you can ask relatives to help you when you eat and see a doctor.

3.Rely on the help of the local **.

When they are old, they will hand over **, ** will help them solve their life problems, and they will also send them to live in a nursing home.

When you get old, you will definitely go to a nursing home, and only in this way can you ensure your old age.

They can live in a nursing home when they are old, and many women are widowed in their old age, and they can also marry another wife in old age.

It's not good to be single, it's not so much annoying.

Oh. That's because you're too picky, or you're shy, like me, a bachelor.

Because Singles' Day is destined for you, you have to fight for it, and I wish you to find true love as soon as possible.

Bachelor. That's not what I call myself, I'm a single aristocrat, in fact, as long as you behave your best side, you're not afraid of not finding a wife!

In fact, there is nothing wrong with being a single, one person is full of food and the whole family is not hungry, no worries, no pressure, no commitment, no responsibility, no one is vindictive with you because of the trivial things that the chicken is resistant to scum and trivial, if you want to go**, you can do what you want, you don't have to think about what others think. How nice, congratulations buddy!

Because this world needs singles, so you and I sacrifice ourselves for others, in fact, we are still quite great!

Oh. Huh....You are not the only one, so you don't have to take it to heart because you haven't found the other half of your life! So you're still single! Actually, so am I!

It's something that depends on your own ability!

I'm also a bachelor now, so I can only forge ahead with you!

1.The bride price is heavy, and the cost of marriage is high. Now the bride price in rural areas is rising, and the prominent problem of heavy bride price has caused many families with sons to have a headache, and now the cost of marriage in rural areas is getting higher and higher, and the starting price of bride price is generally more than 100,000 yuan, and even requires a car and a house.

This is too much of a burden for the average middle-income family to bear. Even some areas still pay attention to "three catties and three taels", "motionless", thousands of purples and thousands of reds and a little green", etc., and many marriageable young men finally gave up the idea of marriage because of the "sky-high bride price".

2.There is an imbalance between men and women. In the past, the concept of rural people was relatively feudal, and they have always had the idea of emphasizing men over women, so there were more boys in rural areas, and now there are other factors such as heavy economic burdens, and rural people do not dare to have too many children, and only need to have boys, so there are fewer girls.

As a result, there are now more young men than young women in rural areas. As a result, it is becoming more and more difficult for young people in rural areas to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

3.Life flow and changing attitudes. After the reform and opening up, China's economy has developed rapidly, and the speed of population flow has accelerated.

There has also been a change in the mindset of rural girls. Many girls who have entered the age of marriage and love choose to go out to study, work, and start a business. Many girls do not want to stay in the countryside to work as farmers when they move to the cities.

The urban living environment and quality of life have an increasingly prominent siphoning effect on rural girls. It is becoming more and more common to go out to work and form inter-provincial marriages. As a result, there are fewer rural girls.

Therefore, it has become more difficult for rural guys to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

At present, there are more and more singles in the rural areas, and if we continue to open our eyes to this trend, the rural areas will face severe social problems in the future, but some experts have pointed out that in order to solve this problem, it is necessary to give full play to the role of social organizations, and organize friendship in rural areas through marriage agencies and online information platforms, so as to increase the exchange opportunities for older men and women. Some experts also said that behind the difficulty of getting married in rural areas is the issue of economic and social development. In addition, in the process of development, it is necessary to improve public services for migrant workers and create conditions for them to establish marriages and families.

Because of the strong propaganda of the current **, most people feel that there are more women and men now, and many people return to their hometowns or small cities to see that there are many friends around them who are singles, and there are few girls of the right age, so it deepens our thoughts about more men and fewer women.

But I think that this may not be the case, and I will start with our surroundings about why there are so few girls in small cities or rural areas. The main reason for this phenomenon is the imbalance of economic development, because the development of small cities is slow, the economic environment is poor, and large cities due to complete infrastructure, the human environment and economic environment are better than small cities, so the economic development of large cities is better, people's instinct is to go to the place of better development, especially women, because instinctively speaking, women's maternal instinct must have a better material condition in order to create a better living environment for their next generation. Therefore, there are very few school-age girls in small cities or rural areas, and there are more girls in big cities, and most of those who play singles are not very good in economic conditions and cannot create better material conditions for women, so more singles does not mean that there are more men and fewer women, which can only show that many men cannot meet the basic material conditions of women in the case of rapid economic development.

Another reason is the reason of personality, introverted people are not popular with ladies, because it is now an information age, people continue to receive all kinds of information every day, and people's threshold of various information is constantly improving, an introverted man is far from being able to reach the information threshold of modern women, so naturally will not receive women's attention. So there are a lot of male singles who are not in bad economic conditions, but have a very introverted personality.

But the highly developed information also gives men an advantage, that is, they can find a person on the same channel as themselves from a wider range of people, so a man has nothing outstanding in the economy, so he needs to have more contact with girls.

Marriage is a major event in life, and it is a door for everyone to move from immaturity to maturity; However, under the influence of many factors, the ratio of men and women is gradually unbalanced, and the requirements of girls are getting higher and higher, and the phenomenon of singles is becoming more and more serious! In some areas, there may be dozens of singles in a natural village, and it is difficult to find a wife!

So how many singles are there in our country?

In fact, there is definitely no specific answer, but an approximate value can also be deduced from the ratio of men to women!

According to the "Statistical Communiqué of the People's Republic of China on National Economic and Social Development in 2019" released by the National Bureau of Statistics and Statistics, it can be seen that at the end of 2019, China's male population was about 100 million; The female population is about 100 million; In other words, there are about 30 million more men than women!

Coupled with the fact that a large number of women are reluctant to get married, the current number of singles in our country is likely to be more than 30 million!

Which region of the country has the most singles?

When we talk about singles, we will first think of the poor countryside, where there are a large number of old men who have been single! But singles are not only found in the countryside, there are just as many singles in the cities! Generally speaking, there are no fewer singles in areas with these customs or characteristics!

1.Poor areas.

Poverty has always been a hard wound, and few girls will choose to suffer because of love! "I'd rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bike" is a joke, but the truth is that girls may also cry on bicycles, so why don't girls choose to cry on BMWs? Economic conditions have become the primary condition for girls to choose a mate, no car, no house, if you don't see the potential for development, then it may be really difficult to get married!

2.Areas with high bride price.

The high bride price also blocked the idea of marriage for a large group of people! Many netizens said: "I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than buy a wife with hundreds of thousands."

Indeed, the excessively high bride price is prohibitive, and it is likely that in order to get married, they will empty all the savings of themselves and their parents, and men are naturally unwilling, but it does not mean that the bride price should not be given, and the appropriate bride price is absolutely necessary! However, the sky-high bride price is absolutely pathological!

3.An area where machismo is prevalent.

Today's girls are thinking about poetry and distance, thinking about how to talk about a happy love, and thinking about having a person who loves her! Nowadays, with convenient transportation and developed networks, it is not difficult for local girls to find a foreign husband, so many girls in areas where machismo prevails have married out, which has caused a further imbalance in the proportion of local men and women, and the number of singles has increased again!