At what point did you decide you wanted to distance yourself from one of your friends?

Being used by friends, I once had a friend, for a while we had a particularly good relationship, and I thought she was the person I met in my life who knew me best, but then I overheard her conversation with others, it turned out that she got along with me, just because I had urgent value, at that moment my heart was instantly cold, and I also decided to stay away from her.

She also had a very good time with another girl before, but then the two broke up because of a little thing. Don't play together, forget it, when I heard her say bad things about that girl in front of me and even scolded her, it really shocked me, as if I recognized the other side of her, and since then the relationship with her has slowly become estranged a lot.

I care about the public welfare, but I am treated as a fool, and when they say that strange sentence, I think, I can't be with them anymore, I should meet better people, I should meet people who are willing to do those things with me.

She started to distance herself from me when she was on good terms with others, and when she came back to me when she was in a strained relationship with others, she said things that made it seem natural that everyone was inferior to her and that she was doing things as she should.

Slowly, he began to distance himself from me, went on various dates, didn't eat roadside stalls with me, and thought about marrying a rich and handsome man, when he was all negative to us.

I started going to all kinds of bars, and eventually I knew that when he started doing drugs, I didn't think we would be friends anymore, and we wouldn't be anymore.

When I started to sour me in various ways, she was unhappy when I had good grades, and she was very happy when I had bad grades, and she couldn't see that I was better than him.

It was in the last period that I decided to turn around because of a promotion to become an assistant, when he betrayed me and was calculating me.

When I broke up, I asked her out and she didn't care about my feelings for the sake of her boyfriend. Also said not to disturb him when he was asked.

It was when I was talking to her that I had already felt that his three views were not correct, and when I was no longer a person of the same world.

When he wasn't paying attention, intentionally or unintentionally, he hooked up with my boyfriend with his eyes, and wanted to be someone else's junior.

It's when we say goodbye and reconnect.

When I was in high school, I was a boarding student, so I spent a lot more time with my classmates than my family every day. When I was in high school, my roommate and I studied together every day, then went to dinner together, and then went back to the dormitory together after class, and the relationship was quite good.

At that time, we were also young, and we always liked to talk for a lifetime, swearing that we would be friends for a lifetime in the future, and everyone was arrogant, in fact, according to the state at that time, we really believed in this friendship.

But with the college entrance examination, we were sent to Tiannan and Haibei, and from then on, we were all different from each other, and we no longer soaked together every day like before. I also very much want to maintain this friendship, and often talk about my life in college, but because they have a circle of life, they often talk about chickens and ducks.

Gradually, the frequency of chatting became less and less, and the topics became less and less. When I wanted to click on the WeChat avatar to talk again, I finally mustered up the courage to speak, but I found that I was searching for a topic, and I was in a state of awkward chatting throughout the whole process. I'm the only one who is still desperately trying to maintain this friendship, but I find that I can't keep what I want to go, and it's really ugly that you don't let go.

I don't want to chat anymore, I can't help but click on the WeChat avatar again and again, and tell myself that it's better to look at it, friends are not earned, when you were together, it was because your life trajectories overlapped, and you weren't so deliberate, now that you want to say goodbye, you should also wish him a good life in the future, even if you no longer appear in his life.

I will remember their birthdays and send blessings on birthdays, but when you own birthday, people don't remember, it's always a little disappointed, I can remember your birthday once or twice, send blessings on your birthday, but when I have a birthday, I hope you only have one happy birthday.

Often, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. I know it's your birthday, but I don't want to send my blessings anymore, I'm really tired. If one day our life trajectories overlap again, I think we will still be good friends again, instead of drifting apart as we are now.

Estrangement is never instantaneous, but accumulates over time, maybe you didn't do it on purpose, you probably feel as tired as I am trying to maintain this friendship, I don't blame you. On the contrary, I should thank you, thank you now, it seems that the self who was very brainless in the past can still have a friend like you, laugh crazy with me, and wish you all the best.

In my mind, I feel that my friends and I are estranged when we are each finding our other half, and when we are busy with our own lives.

Although it is said that friends are in the south, south, west, and north, as long as there is a heart, there is affection. However, there is still a feeling of being alienated, or maybe it's just a personal concern.

When a friend or himself finds a girlfriend, then more or less that love will be less. Why? Because you will have a lot less time to play with your friends.

For example, I usually go to play with my friends every night, but once I find a girlfriend, or my friend finds a girlfriend, then playing ball is likely to become a luxury, and then I will slowly lose my feelings. Even if you don't play, you will have very little time to chat with each other with girlfriends. At this time, I felt a little alienated from my friends.

But this is also unavoidable, because a girlfriend still has to be found. But when you feel that your friend is alienating you, this feeling is not good. Because friends are also an important part of our lives.

There is also a situation where you feel that your relationship with your friends will be distant. It's just that I and my friends have their own lives, so I don't feel that close. For example, after graduating from high school, they each go to their respective universities, which are friends who have known each other for a long time in high school, and after arriving at college, they are busy with their college life, chatting less and seeing each other less.

Then we're a little more distant. We also make new friends in college, but friends are like making wine, the older the better. However, there is still a sense of alienation.

We used to know about our lives, but now we don't know how our friends are doing. It's so natural that I don't know where to start chatting. I don't know how to talk about it.

All kinds of things mean that if you don't have enough friends, you will feel alienated. Therefore, friends should be in contact frequently, so that the relationship will not fade.

When he and her circle of friends I can't understand things!

Personally, I like to have a feeling of intimacy with my friends, and I have an unusual tacit understanding, as long as I reveal a little emotion, I can guess the mood and feelings of the other party. Although everyone has their own social circles, there will be no intersection, at least, I hope that colleagues who do not interfere with each other's communication can know a little about each other, as long as a little is enough, when the other party sends a circle of friends, they can guess what the other party's circle of friends means.

Just separated from my friends when we started to go to different places to study in college, because I don't like frequent contact, we basically don't know each other during the study, but as soon as there is something, I will talk to each other, not too much to vent my emotions, just to let the other party know what happened to me today is worth sharing, and I need to vent. Whenever he posts a circle of friends, he can guess a rough idea, and when he occasionally contacts, he will mention everyone's circle of friends before, put forward his own conjectures, and when he chats, he will have the illusion that everyone is still living together. So every time you really can't understand each other's circle of friends, there will be people who go farther and farther away, especially when he takes the initiative to ask him, and he doesn't have the desire to reveal it, and he instantly has the illusion that he has been left out and forgotten.

Everyone has their own lives, and sometimes it is inevitable that they fail to take care of each other's emotions and easily make each other feel left out. I have been looking forward to a friendship "Even if I haven't seen you for a long time, one day you suddenly stand in front of me, we hug each other, no politeness, still so close." ”

Last time I was ranked first in the class and third in the whole school. I feel that as soon as I meet good friends, I will call them all kinds of academic tyrants and the like, and I feel so distant.

...... when I don't have money, when I don't have moneyNo money ............ when I don't have money, when I don't have moneyNo money ......

It's distance, probably, in this world, distance is not only to make two people who love each other gradually alienated, without exception, distance will also make two very good friends become strangers, distance Actually, what really beats, is not less than reality, sometimes, the distance is even more terrifying.

There may be some people whose friendship is gradually estranged because of money, but my friend, we are indeed slowly drifting apart because of the distance. When I was in a school, because the distance was relatively close, there would be a lot of interaction, and when we celebrated each other's birthdays, we would also send birthday wishes and beautiful gifts for the first time, and now I think about it is indeed a good memory.

Later, they gradually separated, graduated, and went to college, although at the beginning, there would still be some contact with each other, and occasionally, they would ask out to have a meal and go shopping together, and pick out a few clothes that they both liked as sister clothes, but then they were still getting farther and farther away after all.

After a long time, you will slowly not have so much time to listen to each other's bitterness or happiness, even if it is an occasional meeting, you will no longer stop because of the friendship you once had, look at each other and smile, but this smile is more alienation.

Although distance is not like money, it can make people turn against each other instantly, but distance is in a little bit of time, so that the distance between friends is getting bigger and bigger, and in the end, no matter how close friends were, they will gradually become estranged.

For those of us students, what we really lost was the classmates we were studying, and what separated us was the exam that summer.

I lost a lot of friends because of that exam. Usually in school, everyone talks about everything, everyone laughs together, what is unhappy, and everyone discusses together, so when it comes to separation, we don't know how to deal with it. The relationship between everyone in school is very good.

But they come from different places, and even if the family is very close, they don't have any contact after going to college. Slowly, you will find that the group of people who make me cry and laugh have gradually moved away.

For example, I had a very good friend in the dormitory when I was in high school, but in fact, everyone was in the same city, and although the family was not far away, there was really little time to see each other. After graduating, she went to work outside during the summer vacation, and she also found a job at home. At that time, we all had our own things, so we didn't go out to play together much and lost contact.

Later, I learned that she was admitted to Tangshan, and I came to Shijiazhuang, although I can have a mobile phone, but I have lost the enthusiasm at the beginning, even if we deliberately contact each other, but what can really be said are the original group of people, those things. But there is no such feeling between us that we can speak from the heart. I can only say some intimate words symbolically, because there is no common topic, the discussion is more blunt, and we can only reduce the contact.

Maybe this is the reason for time, the relationship between us still can't stand the separation, but I believe that the real love is still there, but there is no common topic for the time being, and there is no feeling of being tired of being together every day. Every time we play **, we are still like old friends who haven't seen each other for many years, and we feel like this, and we don't feel embarrassed if we don't say a word.

That exam should be a time when many people lose, because of the exam, we separated the most important person, because of that exam, we have a new life, even if those feelings at the beginning are already deeply imprinted in our hearts for us, there is no way to change it, and we don't want to forget it like this, and we won't lose our most important things because of these things.

If I can start all over again, I hope that the original one we will never become the past, I only hope that I can live in the past, I can stay in the purest time forever, and I also hope that there will not be too many differences between us. I hope I can continue to cry and laugh with those special two people. Even if I can't go back, I don't want our relationship to end like this.

Friends, when we have time, can we make an appointment? I miss you.