Who will help me find my purpose in life? What is my purpose in life?

I don't know what your interests are? Hehe, I'm also a college student, I'm a freshman. I don't like my current school, so I've always wanted to go to my dream university by going to graduate school through my own efforts.

In fact, everyone has their own dreams, but not everyone can achieve it. What we can do is try not to regret it and not start to reflect when we get old. When we first entered the school, the counselor told us that many of our seniors are now about to graduate and begin to realize that they have wasted four years of college, and hope that we will not follow in their footsteps.

Personally, I think that in fact, you need to decide your own goals in life, and others can only give advice. First of all, we have to figure out what our interests are, for example, I am an English major, I should try to make myself interested in the knowledge of this major, of course, if you have any other hobbies and specialties, you can also develop appropriately.

I think I'm personally the kind of person who really wants to be noticed, and because I don't have other specialties and I haven't encountered the right opportunities, so I've been obscure. Later, I heard a teacher say something, and I was deeply inspired, and I began to participate in various activities and actively express my talents. That sentence goes like this:

If you really decide to rise up, you should work hard to overcome any difficulties, and do it first if you don't like anything, you must have a hard time, determination and perseverance.

I don't know what your situation is, but I myself, I used to waste a lot of time studying at school because of playing mobile games (Tetris, etc.), and then I was ruthless, so I deleted all the games and everything, because there was nothing fun left, so I could only force myself to read and study. In fact, as long as you sink your heart into learning, you will slowly feel the fun, you can first try to read some professional books that you are more interested in, and slowly cultivate the feeling of reading, although you don't see much, but it is much better than not looking, slowly learn to go on the road, you will have a sense of achievement, don't believe it to try!

Of course, in college, you should not only study, but also properly develop your other qualities, and participating in some activities that you are interested in can improve your self-confidence and broaden your network, which is a good choice!

You don't need to define your goal in life, you have actually found it yourself, but you can't calm yourself down and chase your goal, that is, you still lack motivation.

Find out the motivation for yourself first, why do you have to work hard, why you don't want to fall, why do you have to pick up the textbook again to read those boring words. I believe that when you find the ** house in these words, Yan Ruyu in the words, you will find that the certificate is so easy to get, and the goal is in front, but there is a lack of fire to melt this layer of spider webs.

First of all, I agree with you, you know that you have to find a goal.

Secondly, sympathize with you, you still haven't found your purpose in life.

Besides, I think you are very tragic, why do you need others to help you find your life goal? I see that you are not only depraved, but terminally ill.

Cheer up and do what you need to do every day.

Bosom friend...

Dude, you're better than me, and even though I've graduated from college, I've been in a similar situation to you before, so I'm going to give you some advice from the perspective of someone who has come before.

Did you fail because you fell into the game? Or is it because of gambling or bad habits? I guess it's mainly for these two reasons, as for the possibility of falling in love, it shouldn't be very likely that my former classmates are learning to fall in love, the more they talk about it, the better - because there is a spiritual pillar And college love is not like high school, which will delay a lot of study time, but will make you have too much college free time to be full, make you full of confidence, and life is not so empty and boring (because the two reasons I asked you earlier are mainly because you didn't give yourself an accurate position, let the virtual life make up for your real life) I have also been confused A long, long time 8 years of addicted to games...

But luckily, two years after graduating, a girl came into my sight and completely walked out of my virtual life, and although she is still running away from me, I believe that there is only something you can't think of in this world, and there is nothing you can't do! I also wish you to come out of the shadows soon, and as for what method to use, the method that suits you is the best way! Don't be like me and wasting two years of precious time after graduating...

Study hard and make progress every day!

Let the price of pork be reduced across the country.

Look at what interests yourself Develop and develop Do what you are interested in should last a long time and not be irritable.

People in the 21st century live too well-off, so they are more lazy and less diligent; More timidity, less courage; There is more awareness of giving up, and less perseverance to persevere. Just because we don't have a clear goal, and a person who doesn't have a goal is equal to having no soul.

The goal is something that every successful person must not lose. How big a person's goal is, how much he has achieved. We often have clear goals, but if we want to succeed and realize our dreams, we must set ambitious goals.

If you don't even dare to think about your dreams, then you will never be able to reach the other side of success, and you will always be doomed to be useless. Secondly, we must achieve our goals, and more importantly, we should work hard, struggle, struggle, and persist in a down-to-earth manner. If you don't plan to achieve it, the end result will be a failure.

My goal in life used to be the best child of parents, the best student in school, and the best person in society. This kind of goal makes me very tired, and no matter how hard I try, I can't be the best. So I re-established my goal to be a filial child and one of the best students.

This is a very practical goal, and I am getting closer to it. I'm convinced that I'll achieve it, so I'm happy every day. In the future, my goal is also very practical, that is, to be a people's policeman.

Because I believe that I will definitely eliminate violence and protect people's property. The thought that my goal is possible makes me feel overjoyed, and I am very energetic in everything I do.

When a person is very confused, his mind has encountered a bottleneck, just like the cultivation in ** encounters a bottleneck, and then he doesn't know how to break through. It's an evolution of the mind. I was the same at the beginning, when I was moving from a teenager to a young adult.

At this time, the surrounding environment will easily affect you, seeing that others have cars, very chic, and the houses where others live are very beautiful, I want to change all this and live my ideal life, these things need money in exchange, so, if you want to live your ideal life, the first thing is the problem of money, how to make money? This is a very simple but very painful problem, part-time work is only a few thousand yuan a month, working until retirement may not be able to live their ideal life, then only find a way to make money, with what method I didn't know at that time, and then a chance, a friend wanted to go to the book city to buy books, I was bored and followed, it was full of books, all kinds of books. What do you want to know, what do you want to know, there are books to explain, at that time I felt that this bookstore should be able to give me answers, should be able to tell me, what should I do, since then, I have run to the book city every three or five days, whether it is to borrow or buy the books inside, or find a corner in the book city to sit down and read, look everywhere, if you are interested, take it and read it.

Later, I unconsciously found that I had a better understanding of the world and society, and then I also found the answer in the book city, knowing what I should do and how to make money.

Knowledge changes destiny, and knowledge is wealth. There is Yan Ruyu in the book, there is a ** house, and the universe Haitian", these words only know until now, I only understood the literal meaning when I was in school, and now I really understand the meaning of these words.

That's what I was going through, and I hope it can help you.

True purpose in life is often not something that can be found at the beginning, and it usually requires us to go through a process of trial and error.

It's a pity that many people always hope to do it in one step due to the lack of trial and error awareness, and don't want to take a little wrong road, but they end up in a predicament: either they are lazy in their thinking and blindly adhere to a vague idea; Either you're not sure if your idea is correct, and you're afraid of wasting your time and stumbling at the starting point.

—Zhou Ling, "Cognitive Drive".

Find your purpose in life through trial and error, don't worry about sooner or later, just start now.

Cognitive awakening begins with finding one's purpose in life.

1. Standing at an important crossroads in life, everyone will be a little confused and overwhelmed. I hope you must not lose yourself at such an important moment, keep a sober and rational brain, don't forget your original intention, and pursue what you really want.

2. Use the current advanced network information to fully understand.

At this stage of socio-economic development, it is clear that it is imminent.

Survival skills that are essential for entering society.

3. After being firm in your goals and directions, you must.

Strive to overcome public opinion and forge ahead. As long as you believe in it and work hard.

Going forward, the future must be poetry and distance.

4. After determining the goal and direction, you need to put yourself in the future.

To achieve this goal in detail, from every hour to every minute of every day.

Start in seconds, make a detailed plan, and put it into action.

5. After you have a goal and direction, remember to pedal it.

On the ground, step by step. Don't be too ambitious.