Can you tell us about living up to what your parents expected you to be?

No, they wanted me to be a diplomat, but I'm a teacher in a school now, but they think it's good as long as I'm happy.

I didn't have parents who liked me to be a doctor, but I didn't like living in the system. I'm still wandering around, not what my parents expected, but what I expected.

I don't feel like I'm living like my parents expect, because no matter what I do, my parents won't be satisfied.

I've been trying to live the way my parents want me to be, and I want to satisfy them and satisfy myself and live the life I want to live.

No, my parents expected me to be a good people's teacher, but I didn't want to pursue a career in education, I wanted to choose medicine.

I didn't live as my parents expected, and my parents wanted me to be admitted to Benyi, but I didn't make it.

I feel that I should be living the life that my parents expect, and my parents want their children to be happy and healthy.

I didn't change into what my parents expected because I didn't have that much ability and I didn't put in that much effort.

I didn't synthesize what my parents expected, I lived the way I liked.

Hello this friend, first of all, I checked the three ** you provided. It must be that you have found a job that you are very suitable for after graduating from university. So you're also filled with a very proud sense of pride in your heart.

It's enough to see that you've lived up to what your own parents expected. The way you ask questions will also feel that there is a very satisfying feeling in your heart.

Of course, parents want their children to be successful. By studying hard. After succeeding in school, you can find a job that is comfortable with you. This is the wish of every parent.

Therefore, you must not live up to your parents' expectations of you, and be down-to-earth and dedicated. Strive to do a good job and get the commendation of the leader. Then your parents will be happier.

It should be said that as a person with the ability to think independently, few people are often willing to live as their parents expect.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, every parent has certain expectations for their children. That is, it is normal for children to be able to develop according to their own wishes, or for children to be able to make up for their unfulfilled ideals when they were young. However, as children, they often do not want to be bound by this, that is, they want to plan themselves according to their own wishes;

In this case, first of all, we should understand that parents, the traditional concept of Chinese is deep-rooted, and many or a large number of families are like this, and at the same time communicate effectively with parents to find the points of conflict, in order to properly deal with the conflicts between each other and achieve a unified behavioral goal.

Considerations for communicating with parents.

1. Progress together:

Sometimes children speak, parents are difficult to understand, at this time should explain to parents the meaning of the speech, and at the same time help parents understand the Internet, teach parents to use the Internet, such as **, WeChat, forums, post bar, etc., which can help parents better communicate with their children.

2. Absolute obedience:

Sometimes people think that what their parents say is wrong, they don't follow it and they do it against their parents, and sometimes they get into an argument, but it's not right for people to do it. If you know that what your parents said is wrong, you can agree verbally first, and then explain it to your parents when they are calm.

3. Always accompany:

Chat with your parents more when you have nothing to do, and in the process of chatting together, you will find the wisdom of your parents, feel that your parents are very powerful, and at the same time enable your parents to better understand themselves, which will make everyone get along more harmoniously in the future.

If you can,When you are young, you may try your best to be what your parents want you to be. So that parents can be very proud to participate in the conversation with other parents about their achievements, and they can also become what others say: other people's children.

Different parents have different methods of parenting, and naturally, they have different expectations of what their children should live. Because parents' expectations are also differentiated.

We are all afraid, afraid of the disappointment of our loved ones, afraid that our friends will leave you, so we become very cautious, careful to please others, and do not care whether we will be wronged.

How much do you owe yourself? You put your time and energy into others, you give love and give to others, and your hands are empty. You don't know how to love yourself yet, but you can't wait to love others, and you will only be hurt in the end.

How can you criticize others for not doing well if you can't do things yourself? If you don't know how to love yourself, how can you scold others for not loving you?

Only when a person learns to love himself and learn to manage himself well can others believe that he is worthy of being cherished and that he deserves to have better. Only when a person knows how to love himself first can he have extra time and energy to fall in love with others.

Along the way, we will meet many people, experience many things, have many difficulties and obstacles, and have a lot of helplessness. But life is your own, if you don't dominate, who else do you want to wait for! No matter what, you can only be more comfortable in your own place.

It's not easy to get out of your own way. But in order to bloom the most beautiful flowers, you must go out of your own way, experience and overcome your unique suffering.

If you want to follow the rules and follow the path arranged by the people around you, it is actually very simple, and it is rare to follow your own heart to chase your dreams. When you make up your mind to take the first step that seems the hardest, you will understand that it is not that hard. As long as you want it, you can go and find happiness that belongs to you.

I care what my parents think, but I want to live as I think I am.

My family and I have had a lot of disputes about whether to live like my parents expected, there are many forks in the road in my life, and I am faced with many choices.

But can this be something that you can rely on for the rest of your life?

If the way you look forward is what I want, I will carry your expectations forward; If I don't meet the way you expect, I will communicate with you and try to choose to be yourself.

But if you want to try what you want, then it's okay to try it, maybe you're facing a lot of pressure, a lot of contradictions, a lot of entanglements, but the final choice is still up to you.

If you have a good grasp of your future and you can live your life well with confidence, then you can discuss with your parents to live your life the way you like, after all, life is your own.

Everyone does not come to this world to get married, have children and reproduce, but to see how flowers bloom, how water flows, how the sun rises, and how the sun sets.

Welcome to Pershing Education 108 General Lecturer Zhu Classroom, here is Teacher Zhu's 1303rd day good morning greetings.

As modern people's understanding of psychology and psychology becomes deeper and deeper, many people are surprised to find that the behavior patterns of our parents that we hate are unconsciously inherited.

Why is that? Because when we were young, our parents were the heavens, and they were so tall, all-powerful, all-knowing, and powerful, that we would unconsciously follow our parents' example.

Even if we later discover that our parents' behavior is often not so perfect and ideal, we have subconsciously inherited their behavior patterns. The psychologist Carl Jung once said that what you don't know at the level of consciousness will become your destiny.

The energy of emotions is incomparably powerful, once it is suppressed to the point of unbearable, the energy that comes out is also incomparably large, making people powerless. Because under every deviant behavior, there must be a negative emotion driving it.

To adjust your behavior, you first need to embrace your negative emotions and acknowledge their existence.

Excessive excitement or anxiety will affect physical health, and we must learn to adjust our emotions.

Every parent hopes that their child will be an excellent person in the future, a person worthy of their pride, so when the child is born, parents will give a lot of hope to the child. But most parents find that their children can't live as they expect in the end, and many parents will be very disappointed at this time, and even feel that their children are not angry, so how should parents accept this outcome?

1.Children who can't do it on their own can't do it either.

In fact, most parents' hopes for their children are completely beyond the scope of what their children can bear, and these expectations are the wishes that parents have no way to fulfill when they are young. But when the child has no way to fulfill these expectations, there is no need for parents to accept such an ending, in fact, this is an inevitability, after all, they have no way to realize their wishes when they are young, then the child will also have the same possibility of failure as the parents, and if you can accept your own failure, you must accept the child's failure, so if you think about it, you may be more able to accept the ending that the child has no way to live as he expects.

2.Children are also ordinary people.

Some parents not only pour all their hopes into their children, but also compare their children with some very good children, thinking that if other people's children can do it, their own children will do it. But in fact, as a parent, the first lesson in life is to learn how to accept that your child is also an ordinary person, excellent children do exist, but there are still a small number of excellent children, and most of the parents of excellent children are also very good, not ordinary people, so parents must also examine themselves when asking their children to become excellent, whether they are qualified to ask for children, and have too many expectations for children. If you can accept that your child is an ordinary person, then you can naturally accept the result that your child cannot live as you expect.

Finally, I hope that all parents can look at themselves and their children correctly. Most people have lived a lifetime and are just ordinary people, and there is nothing wrong with being an ordinary person. Don't have too high hopes for your child, your child has his own life, and if you want your child to succeed, then you should examine whether you are qualified to ask for your child.

If you are an ordinary person, then the child does not achieve his hopes, and there is no need to be disappointed.

Must be accepted. Parents become what they want to be, but don't put pressure on your children.

Parents must learn to accept that their children are ordinary people, but also tolerate their children's ordinary, when parents do not have very high expectations for their children, maybe the children will bring us surprises.

Parents should have a certain understanding of the formation of personality, and children are affected by many factors in their growth, and many things are full of variables.

Parents should first adjust their mentality, and realize that everyone has their own life, others cannot live as you expect, and everyone has everyone's plan.

The dream of youth may be everyone's dream, but this is destined to be only the dream of youth, no one is immutable, the world is changing all the time, not to mention people's thoughts, so it is important to be down-to-earth, and never give up the basic principle of being down-to-earthHow capable we are and what we need to be in a state we should have a clear understanding of.

I hope that my children will have a stable job in the future, and have a very happy family, who can know how to be grateful to society, be filial to their parents, and at the same time, health is the most important thing.

I expect my children to be relatively good, talented and attractive in the future, and they are particularly self-confident, and they are particularly active and hard-working in their work.

Parents are looking forward to their children being able to have a career in the future, to have a very stable job, to find someone they love very much, and then to get married and have children, work, career, and family harvest.

As a parent, I hope that my children will have the ability to be independent, have rational thinking, be predictable, and think calmly when things happen. Don't be pretentious.

I expect him to have an independent mind in the future, an independent personality, be able to support himself, and have a certain status in society and a good family.

I am most looking forward to my children living a plain and happy life in the future with a career they love and a harmonious family.

I look forward to my children being able to live happily in the future, and not to run around all day in the face of the pressure of life.

I hope that in the future, my children may not have much success, they can do what they want to do, and be happy every day.