How can you become a little more passionate about people?

Read Dale Carnegie's The Weakness of Human Nature.

Start with yourself: The change of the subconscious mind has a great impact on your usual words and deeds, it is recommended to start with yourself, read some very enthusiastic books, and recommend Jack Kerouac's "On the Road". Or choose some very exciting**, very enthusiastic movies.

That is to say, your heart is actively seeking ways to make yourself enthusiastic, have such a consciousness, and then when reading, listening, or watching a movie, imagine your enthusiasm, and concretize the scene, such as who I should be, and how to be enthusiastic. In this way, first build in your mind the enthusiasm you show when dealing with others.

Start with the environment: Why start from the environment, I believe that the landlord is very close to himself, and the person who plays well should not have the kind of situation that can't let go and is not enthusiastic. Then, choose a scene, which is similar to a social scene.

For example, when you encounter a small party, you go to play with your invited friends, try to talk and laugh with your friends' friends when you and your friends are together, and try to let go of yourself while enjoying the party.

Start with the details: after the personality constraints are slowly eased, try to use the state you learned in the scene set in the second point to recall the mood and mentality at that time, and then relax and deal with others, and constantly adjust your state of mind when talking or discussing something, and keep hinting at yourself, so that the other party will not feel uncomfortable with you, or feel that you are not good at intercourse. Of course, the premise of doing this well is:

You have to be awake at all times.

Start tomorrow: It's not difficult to interact with people, everyone's personality is different, you don't have to change your personality for some people, first see if it's necessary, if you really yearn for the kind of character that can eat well in front of anyone, mix well, just take it step by step, there is a saying called "the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change", slowly change, you can naturally become better and better. I recommend you to watch "Cai Kangyong's Way of Speaking", which teaches you a lot of secrets on how to speak and how to deal with various communication scenarios, I have learned a lot from it, you can go and see it.

In a situation where others ignore you, here are a few things you can try:

1.Be patient: Sometimes people ignore them just because they're busy doing something else. You can wait patiently until the other person has time to reply or communicate with you.

2.Alternate party to split contact: If you have previously tried to contact the other party through **, text message, etc., but have not received a reply. You can try to contact through other channels, such as email, social media, etc.

3.Consider the other person's feelings: Sometimes the other person may ignore you because they are not interested in you or do not want to communicate with you. You can consider whether there is any behavior or words that the other person misunderstands or resents you.

4.SMS reminders: If you need to wait for the other person to reply to an important message or document, you can send a short text message or email to remind the other person. However, it is important to note that over-urging or outright anger is not a good solution to the problem.

5.Get a third party involved: If you've tried to reach out to someone after several attempts, consider finding a friend or colleague you know to coordinate or help you get in touch.

In short, when others ignore you, analyze the situation calmly, find the best way to solve the problem, and don't get angry or lose patience, which will make the problem worse.

Summary. This is something that can be shared and can help others. It is reflected in the process of communication.

This is something that can be shared and can help others. It is reflected in the process of communication.

It's good at communicating, and then taking care of other people's feelings.

I'm an introverted person who doesn't like to talk, so everyone says I'm too honest and too simple, and I can't call people when I see them, so people say they look down on me.

I think you should go to a social event.

It's good to get in touch with more people and get used to it.

Now I am said that I am too honest and too simple, and everyone says that they look down on me as a person.

So you have to be strong inside and get out of this awkward situation.

I'm at home now, I can't go with my children, I can't go there, and now everyone calls my husband to find a new one, or my husband to find a new one, it's better than me.

It's that you don't have a job and take care of the kids full-time, right, there's no way around this.

I can't do anything else.

How about getting along with your neighbors.

Not so good. Then you learn to get along with your neighbors first, and then it will slowly change.

How old are you, and do you still learn something fast.

I am 22 years old this year, my husband and I were introduced to each other by others, the eldest and second have not gone out to work, and now my wife and my in-laws and family look down on me.

That's the case, if you can't make money, you will be disliked by others. So when your kids are older, you're going to go out to work.

Do you have any ideas and intentions yourself?

I want to go out to work, because I have been at home for a long time, and now my in-laws and people look down on me, but sometimes I think about how my child is small, if I go out of my empty limb, I won't help me take care of the child.

Your mother-in-law will take it, and you can go to work with your husband.

You should find a way to talk to your husband.

Take the initiative yourself and say hello to people when you meet them.

1. Love yourself and love life. We need to understand the imperfections of life, but we also need to know how to find fun in life and bloom wonderfully. Only by loving ourselves can we make ourselves healthy and happy, can we experience the little pleasures in life, and can we cherish the stable happiness in life.

Because of love, life is stronger and life is more brilliant. Only by loving oneself will we love life, and only by loving life will we bloom with enthusiasm to embrace life and enjoy life.

2. Love to share and help others. We embody enthusiasm in the process of communication, so people who are willing to share and help others are more able to release enthusiasm in life.

3. Don't be selfish and don't complain. People don't die for themselves, but when considering their own divorce, don't forget to think from the perspective of others, and more understanding will be more warmth. When facing the mistakes or misunderstandings of others, more tolerance is less complaining.

Enthusiastic people say goodbye to selfishness, goodbye to complaining.

4. No arrogance, no prejudice. The goodness is like water, as gentle as water, and as inclusive as water. Pride and prejudice can skew our judgment and make it easy to contradict others. It is also a sign of enthusiasm that we try to evaluate people or things objectively as much as possible.

5. No hypocrisy, no disguise. Be sincere with yourself, with your friends, and with life. Let go of the hypocritical mask, travel lightly, be enthusiastic, and live a more delicate life.

6. Be more active and proactive. Enthusiastic people embrace a warm life, meet every challenge positively and optimistically, and take the initiative to grasp every happiness.

Take the initiative to greet people, and take the initiative to help people who are good to you.

Starting from smiling, if you really don't know how to smile, you can watch more comedy movies, cross talk, sketches, etc., so that you can laugh often; Then you have to learn to be confident in front of people, and the aura of self-confidence is strong, and people will pay attention to you because you can't take the initiative to be enthusiastic, so you have to start with passive enthusiasm. For example, if you have an aura and an attractive temperament, strangers or the opposite sex will come to you first if they want help, then you can help others. And enthusiasm for you is just like this, slowly accumulating.

When you are passively enthusiastic, you will slowly gain a lot of friends, and over time you will become enthusiastic.

Don't do what is not suitable, and don't say what you shouldn't say. Use reason as a nourishment, and when the result is over, you don't have to worry about breaking, and the other party won't mind what you want.

Do things with enthusiasm, have a strong sense of motivation, and feel from your heart that what you do is meaningful and valuable to you and others. Then continue to strengthen your own feelings, so that others feel that you are very enthusiastic, and gradually willing to strengthen the contact with you, support what you do, and soon you will feel that you have a heart full of enthusiasm and enthusiasm.

As long as you maintain enough enthusiasm for your dreams and make continuous efforts, then everything will be possible, writer Yang Daxia revealed, let hope become his guide.