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In the university dormitory, there is a strange atmosphere, and reading and studying has become a thing that needs to be concealed and is easy to attract cynicism.
Whenever I go to the library, my roommate always sours me, "I'm going to the library again, it's so good, I really love to study!" ”
At first, I would be humble and say "no, no", or complain a few words on Zhihu, but now I don't bother to talk to her.
Why does she keep souring me? In the case of studying better than me and having a higher GPA than me?
Very simple. She doesn't want me to be better off than she is.
There is a saying that for friends, we always say, "I want you to be well, but I don't want you to be better than me." ”
It's nothing more than jealousy.
They just want to stop you from becoming better and pull you into the abyss, and they stand in hell like a bunch of devils and call you, "Come down and play, it's fun here!" ”
No one really wants to fall into the quagmire, so the best thing to do is to block them, please ignore them if they say something sour, there is no need to be gregarious for the sake of being gregarious.
Roommates are just roommates, and they don't all have to be friends.
There's no need to sneak around doing what you want to do, and don't let anyone stop your dreams.
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Bursaries for the rich.
The bursary at the beginning of the second semester has been credited to the accounts of various poor students.
When I submitted the information form for poor students last semester, I saw that many students from similar backgrounds to me also submitted application forms.
They are generally dressed in a variety of famous brands, using expensive luxury goods, and carrying the latest Apple phones in their pockets.
When I asked them why they were taking the bursary, they quipped, "Take it for free." ”2
There is someone in this seat".
If there's one scary phrase, it's "There's someone in this place."
Seat occupancy is a very common thing, and it happens in college or not.
Libraries, canteens, classrooms, lecture halls and other places where groups go can't avoid occupying seats.
A lot of people hate it because I came to the seat before him, but his friend arrived before me and took the place, which is very unfair. 3
Fellow, you've won.
At the end of the big year, the election campaign is in full swing. It is very exciting and fateful to meet a fellow countryman at the same university, but at a time when choosing a winner requires such rationality, how can you eliminate someone with superior skills because you are a fellow countryman?
If reason can't suppress emotion, you can imagine how this minister won, sometimes it's not that you don't work hard enough, but that you don't have enough luck.
Many people think that the election campaign is fair and pure, but only those who think like this are pure. 4
Connections are intangible capital.
The university is a prototype of society, which encompasses almost all the characteristics of society.
In college, others will not befriend you because of how good your grades are, and a person's communication skills are the key to establishing a foothold in college.
Many people play all night games with their roommates in order to be gregarious, lend money to people who know that he will not pay back, and greet the seniors who have met a few times on the way to and from school.
But will these people have an impact on your life in the future, and are these "connections" useful?
After graduating from university, many people will no longer have contact and intersection with you, so instead of spending so much energy to maintain these interpersonal relationships, it is better to learn more communication skills and cooperation with people.
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There are a lot of inexplicable regulations in the university.
1. Freshmen must study in the morning and in the evening.
Although it is a good habit to cultivate our love of learning in college, how much of the self-study class is serious study? Students who want to study say that self-study in the morning and evening of freshman year is a constraint, and they might as well go to the library themselves than stay in the study hall and have to call their names for self-study classes in a while.
2. New students are not allowed to attend the university.
English test for Band 4 and Band 6 exams.
It is mandatory that students cannot take the English test or take the English test first, and the new students are eligible to take the English test only if they have good grades, should they be treated the same? If you are not good at English, you should take it a few more times to know the result, so that you can have a chance, and even some students said that when I was a student, I didn't let me take the level of 4 and 6 English when I studied hard, otherwise 4 and 6 would have already been tested, and I didn't need to wait until 3 years later, and I wanted to go to graduate school in my senior year, but I still had to memorize English words at level 4 or 6.
3. You have to entertain everyone when you get a scholarship, but usually you will laugh at you when you say you want to study.
If you study hard and get a scholarship, you will say that it is the result of the voting of your classmates, and you will be required to treat yourself to spending, but usually when you say that you want to study, you will say a lot of ridiculous things to ridicule you, and whisper about you behind the quilt, calling you a nerd, or in front of you, many people shout loudly: Hey, nerd, you are doing research again, do you still want to get a scholarship?
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1.You must be present before 7 o'clock in the morning, otherwise you will be deducted points for the rough mold, even if you have classes or not. I died laughing, I didn't have classes and had to get up early to go outside.
2.During online classes, we were not allowed to order takeout, as the name suggests, to prevent our inertia. How to say it.,Although it's a good intention.,But it's super very incomprehensible3.
Yesterday I asked to clean up, and then I checked it at about seven or eight o'clock in the evening, and then said why I didn't fold the quilt. I was really speechless.
There are no rules.
4.At seven o'clock in the morning, when going to bed, the banquet stool must get up, fold the quilt, and get out of bed. Please, I didn't have any lessons, I got out of bed. I would really be thankful, thank you for waking me up.
5.Online classes are online classes, and you have to go to the classroom to attend classes, isn't this a disguised gathering? If you are afraid that something will happen to the teacher, you are not afraid that something will happen to the student? Really don't understand. Friends.
6.I didn't wake up so early in high school for the morning jog twice a week in my freshman year, and I had to study on my own every day, except Friday and Saturday. I suspect I went to high school......High school was not so tiring.
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1. It's too selfish not to help roll call.
I always think that it is a love to help, and it is a duty not to help, but the funny thing is that there are always a few people who don't agree to help him by name, and he will say that you "don't help this little favor." ”
It may be difficult to catch the absenteeism, but if you get the help, you can catch it accurately, and if you meet a good teacher, you don't care, but if you encounter that kind of more serious, the help will be over. We're just classmates, and it's not cost-effective to help you take risks.
Article**22, as long as you work a little harder, you don't even need half of the effort in high school, you can make many people call you "Xueba". Of course, this top student does not mean praise, because as long as you want to study, whether it is reading in the dormitory or going to the library, there will always be people who are sneering.
Yo Xueba, I'm reading again!! ”
Yo college bully, go to the library to play with your phone again".
I never thought that one day, learning would become something that needed to be hidden.
Article**33 In college, independence is seen as alternative.
Hey, why are you eating alone!! ”
Why are you going to the library alone!! ”
How do you go to class alone!! ”
Every time I meet someone like that, I say to them, "There are a lot of people around me!" Don't you see? ”
44. Formalism is far more important than studying well. As soon as they have passed the brutal military training, they will face one lecture after another, which is called "learning from experience."
Don't want to go? It's okay, deduct credits!!
6, I am weak, I will lead first, you are strong, you wait for the next time.
The school's bursary should have been a merit-based choice, but because his family was poor, he had to let others give it up. The point is that if you go to the teacher to theorize, he will also say that you are vicious and unloving!!
If you have won it with your ability, why should you let it !!
Article **57, as long as there is a demand, a group should be established, and as long as the group is established, there will be all kinds of notices.
And you can't set up Do Not Disturb Kai Judgment.,If you miss the notification.,No reply received.,It's likely to be taken out separately @.,And then accompanied by criticism.。 When you are about to graduate, you will find that there are more group chats than WeChat friends.
8. You want the best software at every turn, and you can't uninstall it yet, maybe you will suddenly use it at some point, but the most infuriating thing is that the software is running very garbage, and the card is not maintained until it dies.
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The first point that makes everyone the most painful is the morning self-study and evening self-study. I thought that after I went to university, I would not study early or late, but when I entered the university with joy, I cried. There is no shortage of morning self-study and evening self-study, but it is still necessary to dismantle the bridge bed from 6 o'clock early and go to the designated classroom for early self-study at 7 o'clock.
In the evening, I have to study until nine o'clock, which is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for the emperor! However, as a student, I still had to obey the rules of the school, so I spent the year studying in the morning and studying in the evening. In the sophomore year, the evening self-study was canceled, but the morning self-study was still there.
Although I didn't study at night, I had classes in the evening, which made me collapse even more than self-study. Are there any classmates who are as "tormented" by self-study in the morning?
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During the epidemic, Weichun students cannot go out, but teachers and staff can come and go at will, and students can go out with homemade or long-ago leave slips to ......It doesn't feel like it's enough to control the source mountain.
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Quasi-policing management will really get up at seven o'clock in the morning to run the quilt to fold tofu blocks.
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In college it was already inexplicable enough to be inexplicable about what and to change aside. At that time, I felt that I couldn't study early in the morning, because I felt that I was the most good, because at that time, I felt inexplicable, and I was very happy not to study in the morning in that university.
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When I was in college, it was clear that it wasn't a military school, so we had to fold our quilts into tofu blocks.
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Only books can be placed on the table, and nothing else can be placed.
There can be no trash in the trash can.
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Rule 1: Freshmen cannot take the fourth or sixth grade.
Either it is mandatory to stipulate that you can't take the fourth or sixth level in the first year, or you can take the English test first, and only those with good grades are eligible to take the fourth and sixth level exams in the first year, shouldn't they be treated equally? Some students even complained that they were not allowed to take the fourth or sixth level when they concentrated on studying in their freshman year, otherwise the fourth and sixth grades had already passed, and they didn't have to wait until the senior year to graduate but still memorize the words of the fourth level!
Rule 2: Freshmen must study on their own in the morning and evening
In the name of it, we should develop a good habit of loving learning in our university, but how many of them are studying seriously in self-study classes? Students who want to study said that self-study in the morning and evening of the freshman year is a kind of constraint, and they would rather go to the library than stay in the study room where they will be called after a while.
Rule 3: Mandatory attendance at all kinds of uninteresting lectures and conferences.
In order to make up the number of people, the college also requires us to get up early on the weekend to participate in various boring lectures and meetings, and if we don't go, we will deduct class assessment points, affect the number of class allocations for scholarships and grants, and give you a hat without a sense of collective honor.
Rule 4: You must have a treat to get a scholarship, but usually you will laugh at you when you study.
Through your own hard work, you get a scholarship and say that it is the credit of your classmates who voted for it, and ask you to have a meal, but usually you laugh at you when you study, call you a nerd behind your back, and even say to your face: Yo, nerd, what about studying, and still want to get a scholarship?
Rule 5: There are hard indicators for the failure rate
I obviously think I did a good job in review, but I still failed the course, it turned out that it wasn't that I didn't work hard, but there were indicators for the course, and someone had to fail the course to be normal, and it was miserable.
Rule 6: Be respectful to the brothers and sisters of the student union of the club.
In clubs and student unions, the words of the minister and the chairman are "holy decrees", you can't easily disobey, you must be respectful, don't say no, you can only say good, how important are club activities in class, the bigwigs are here, do you dare to come? The circle is not big, and the "official authority" is not .......
Rule 7: If you don't fit in, you're not normal.
If your roommate gets up at 10 o'clock and you get up at 7 o'clock, you are "abnormal", your roommate plays games, you go to the library, you are "sick in your shirt", and you sit in the first row alone in class, ...... you are also "sick".Anyway, as long as you are different from them, it is not normal, and you will be excluded.
Rule 8: Frequent last-minute notices are sent in the middle of the night.
When you are ready to go to bed at night, the minister or counselor will assign you a temporary task, this ** will be completed soon, this document must be handed in before 12 o'clock, and this information will be counted before noon tomorrow, I want to ask: What are you doing all day during the day, always in the middle of the night to arrange some deadlines in a few hours or even dozens of minutes after the notice! In college, there are these inexplicable rules?
Student: I've been wanting to complain for a long time!
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Presumably, many students have not studied the rights of instructors. Instructors are ideological and political counselors in most schools, because they are not qualified to engage in educational work, so they are not teachers.
The instructors are actually political staff members and are non-faculty members of the school, and they have no right to interfere with the students' learning and life. Therefore, the instructor has no right to require you to go to self-study tonight, let alone use your studies as an excuse not to let you graduate, and confiscating the computer power cord is fundamentally illegal.
In fact, the school will assign a person in charge of teaching work to each class, which is commonly known as the class teacher. Yes, there are class teachers who are bored in college, but you often can't find them. But the division of rights and responsibilities is like this, and the class teacher has the right to ask about your studies.
Many instructors beat people with their grades at every turn, and this matter should not be buried by you.
Academically, there is a school arrangement, there are teachers for individual courses, there are class teachers for overall studies, and there is a circle of teachers responsible for undergraduate education.
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