I really want to go to graduate school! But I still can t make up my mind, what should I do?

If you don't want to work, you want to study deeply. But the uncle I know went to Hong Kong to study when he got married and had a baby, for better employment and development prospects... You have to know that you read it out of use, if you make money, you don't need to read it, learn knowledge so that friends can read it

First of all, why did you go to graduate school? What can the graduate school entrance examination bring you? Graduate students are like that, and many undergraduates are paid much more than graduate students. But you can read a working one, gilded. Full-time graduate school isn't much fun.

If you consider it from a realistic point of view, you are 28 years old this year, struggle for a year (the kind of desperate work), according to the ideal school (do not rule out the situation of not being admitted to the ideal college for a year), you have to spend three years to study in school, three years later, you are 31 years old, at that time you are still facing a job, then the company may consider more factors, with your age and not married and not having a baby, under the same conditions, Others will think about it more. And now that you have a good job, your life is relatively stable, and it's not bad, why do you have to be blocked for four years? If at your current pace, after four years, you will have a husband who loves you and a lovely baby, isn't this kind of life the most perfect?

If you really want to go to graduate school, it is recommended that you find a graduate boyfriend, in fact, after going to school, it is still for work, with him, you can count yourself as having no regrets in your life, and sincerely persuade your friends

There will be no conflict between work, marriage and graduate school entrance examination, you can register for the exam first, and slowly make up your mind about whether you want to go to graduate school on the way, and there is 1 year in between for you to think clearly......

Take the test, what is pressure, how can you have a dream without pressure...

You can also get married and take the postgraduate examination.,If you're entangled, you'll take the exam.。。。

It is common to feel hopeless after failing the graduate school entrance examination, but we must come out of it and face life again. Here are some suggestions:

1.Accept failure: Accept the reality of failure in graduate school, do not deny or escape, think carefully about the reasons for failure, and strive to find solutions to problems.

2.Relax your mind: The postgraduate entrance examination is a stressful exam, so relax your mind after the exam, relax your mood, do something you like, and relieve anxiety.

3.Thinking about the future: Failure does not mean that the future is terminated, we need to actively think about the direction of the future, revise our own plans, and set goals.

4.Seek support: Seek support and encouragement from family and friends, and listen to their opinions and suggestions. You can also seek help from a counselor or psychologist to help us better cope with our emotions.

5.Take action: Take positive actions to reduce low mood, such as maintaining a healthy daily routine, increasing physical activity, and participating in social activities.

In conclusion, the key to getting out of despair is to accept failure, relax your mind, think positively about the future, seek support, and take positive action. Through these methods, we can come out of the shadow of failure, face life again, and start a new journey.

After failing the graduate school entrance examination, you can adjust your emotions in these aspects to help yourself get out:

First, give yourself an emotional buffer periodFor example, in one to two weeks, vent your emotions appropriately, cry without harm, talk to friends, go out for a walk, eat some food, buy beautiful clothes, etc., the more you lose the bridge, the more you can't punish yourself, because you are the biggest victim of bad results, and you are the executor of the next good action, so you should be kind to yourself.

Second, organize your thoughts and continue your actionsAccording to your actual situation, make a rough plan: first, choose the direction, whether to prepare for World War II or preparation, if you are not sure, you can discuss with your family; Secondly, after the action plan is determined, the key or direction is listed as the goal, and the specific action plan is formulated; Again, stick to it, make the plan clear, don't suffer from gains and losses, but do it firmly for a period of time, such as three months.

Third, establish the belief that we must winYou should clearly inform yourself that as long as you have a plan, act firmly, and are not frightened by the current setbacks, after a year and a half, you will definitely have gains, and the direction will become clearer and clearer. The lower the trough, the more we must have firm faith.

Hello friend, no matter which prestigious school you want to be admitted to, it is necessary to pay a certain amount, and it is impossible to get a return if you don't pay.

In fact, the difficulty of taking the 985 test lies in the fact that there are many people competing and there are many masters. What kind of effort to pay, this thing is really not good to talk about brother evaluation, the graduate school entrance examination belongs to that kind of thing, if you can learn, you can study hard, try your best and don't do your best.

First of all, don't think that I have very little hope of taking the 985 test.

The first important thing in the graduate school entrance examination is mentality. Since you decide to take the exam, you must do your best (not to say that you get up at 5 o'clock every day and sleep at 1 o'clock at night), you must plan your time reasonably, arrange the review progress, have a stable mentality, and be less disturbed by the outside world.

Second, learn to gather information. Including the books and real questions of the exam, as well as the application ratio of the target college, I know how many people apply for the exam every year, how many people are admitted, including 600 people who take the exam, and 30 are admitted, in fact, there are about 100 cannon fodder, so don't have too much psychological pressure, you must know yourself and your opponent, the postgraduate entrance examination is a long-term battle, and you must be able to collect information on your own and reduce the time to do the party.

Finally, review the development of the plan. Everyone has their own learning methods and methods, and others have used this method to get in, and you can learn from it, but it may not be completely suitable for you. You may be able to read books for 8 hours a day in the early stage, 10-11 hours after September, and 12-13 hours after November, which is also the level of your efforts.

It's not that the longer you learn, the better.

With all that said, let's talk about myself. Personally, I didn't take the 985 exam, I took the 211 master's exam for a bachelor's degree 211, and I don't feel motivated. Personally, I think that exams are all about establishing their own review system, and other people's efforts and methods should be used for reference, and they can't be done behind closed doors, but they can't be blindly compared with all.

The best effort is to know how to adjust the schedule, and the university uses the time.

Good luck with your learning and progress.