How to eliminate emptiness? How can you better cope with emptiness?

Hehe, your question is very interesting, and a reward of 100 points, you see if what I said is right, if not, please express your opinion, I estimate that you have no job, no friends, nothing to do all day, people have to be busy, feel fulfilled in the busy, and there are too few friends you have, at least no confidant, a lot of things in your heart, I don't know who to say, if there are no above points, you are not empty, now in such a society, there are many people who you said, I and You should be the same, But more than you, I have a job, I have friends, early in my dictionary, the one who can be called a friend, is the kind of friend who is very iron, and I will not put him in the friend barricade for ordinary people, because friends are also a lifelong thing, and I have time to talk about it.

Change your lifestyle.

Start with a plan that is a little difficult, and then work hard to complete it, for example: get up early every day to go for a run, which doesn't require any external conditions, as long as you do it. Exercise makes people feel good.

Then find a skill that you are a little interested in to study and constantly improve your level. (avoid computer games), this skill will bring you constant excitement, bring like-minded friends, bring others to recognize you, maybe there will be other benefits, but you don't pay attention to the things behind, you just need to focus on the skill itself.

Forget about good living conditions, beautiful girlfriends, and wealthy families, these are not your real needs, good living conditions, beautiful girlfriends, and wealthy families will certainly get you attention, but the *** of these things is more terrifying than you think.

If you are busy every day, will you still be empty? To be honest, man, I'm emptier than you, supported by my parents, and I always feel like a piece of waste. But we are still very young, and there is still a long way to go.

Who could have predicted tomorrow? I have thought more than once about dying, failing the college entrance examination, breaking up with my girlfriend, and suffering from all kinds of illnesses. But I can't die, I still have my parents and brothers, and people who love me.

It's just starting all over again. Dude, in my opinion, you most likely have depression or a nervous breakdown, and neither do I. You might as well set aside some time each day to run, and it must be a jog.

There are conditions to go to the key body hall or outdoor suburban sports, climbing, swimming, and playing ball. If you don't like it, you can play chess, practice calligraphy, look at the blue sky, and listen to the sound of flowing water and birds. In short, find something to do on your own, divert your attention, cultivate your interests, and talk to your friends.

I'm also very empty, I have no money, no career, no relatives, no husband, I can't even eat well when I stay at home every day, and I've always been very empty, the more empty I am, the more desperate I become

But a few days ago, I took the initiative to communicate with my original best friend, asked her out to go shopping, and also asked the opposite sex out to go out, and I felt much better, sometimes when I was really panicked, I found something to excite myself, such as finding a girlfriend, going to like someone, and finding someone to accompany me would be better It's easy to think when you're alone

Also, try to find opportunities to make money, anything will be good if you have money!

Hey, but making money is a problem t, t

Ha ha. If that's going to happen, then there's going to be a lot of people in the world, maybe. I've been dead for years!

A lot of people are thinking. If I had a wealthy family. Pretty wife.

And a very cute child. I think I'll work hard! People always complain about the unfairness of society and the world!

But why not want to think about it. With your current attitude towards life, you're always complaining as you can imagine. Even if the heavens will drop the money down!

It will also be missed by you. Emptiness isn't a big deal, maybe it's an experience for you! If you can get through it.

Only those who have experienced pain understand what is the greatest pain! Only those who have been poor know what real poverty is!

Life is something you have to create, not something you are born with. A girlfriend doesn't have to be beautiful to be able to live, and not having a wealthy family can trigger the courage to work hard, isn't it?

The real emptiness is when the family is too rich, friend, you think too much.

Imagine those orphans, we're happy, aren't we?

If you're still feeling empty, focus on your work.

I'm all dead, I'm empty, I'm lonely. You're going to do things, you're going to work, you're going to find something to do, you're trying not to be lonely, it's fulfilling, at least you're getting a lot of things!

Don't you still have your own freedom?

Why not be free if you have it.

You can certainly look for what you don't have.

But you really want to either.

I have two principles for doing things, and you can try it too.

One: Figure out what exactly you want.

Two: Don't go against your conscience.

What you are talking about is what everyone wants to get and is creating, and do you want to get something for nothing, then have you ever thought about the reason why you don't have it, find more things to do and you won't feel empty, lonely, and cold

You should fight for because you don't have good living conditions, because you don't have a beautiful girlfriend, because you don't have a wealthy family.

In short, it is to think about things easily and struggle.

Fight for what you want.

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Solve the problem yourself.

You can try to look backwards. Look at how many more people are more bitter than you behind you. They all persevered. Why can't you.

Me too, I hit the wall.

But the head didn't explode, and the wall was almost there.

Hehe, since you have the courage to die, what else is there not to do?

Allow and embrace your emotions and keep a journal.

Acknowledge our emptiness, feel our emotions and embrace them positively. Our emotions don't need to be "fixed" or "**", and you can't live your whole life free from anger, jealousy, or sadness. Such emotions are often shunned and feared because of their ferocious power, and are often released covertly through sports, alcoholism, workaholism, or relationship conflict.

But these emotions are normal and part of the human experience. All we can do is learn how to let them flow through us instead of clinging to or dramatizing them.

Write down your feelings in a journal. Take the time to write down the events that took place, and by evaluating each situation, you can determine whether each thing is positive or negative, asking yourself how you should feel and cope with these things. Writing down your feelings is one way to help you deal with what's going on inside you.

When all emotions are allowed to proceed within you, your life will be full of energy again and the feeling of emptiness will be reduced.

1. Adjust the demand target. The empty mindset tends to arise in two situations. First, there is no ambition.

The second is that the goal is unrealistic, making it difficult to achieve the goal and lose motivation. Therefore, to get rid of emptiness, you must adjust your life goals in time according to your actual situation, so as to mobilize your potential and enrich your life.

2. Seek social support. When a person is frustrated or wandering, it is especially necessary to have someone to give them strength and support, sympathy and understanding. Only with social support can you not feel empty and lonely.

3. Well-read. Reading is a recipe for filling emptiness. Reading can help people find the key to solving problems, and free people from loneliness and emptiness. The more you read, the more knowledge you have, and the more fulfilling your life becomes.