Boy,,, isn t it ruthless! Low self esteem all the time

Fortunately, there is no need to have low self-esteem, confident boys will have girls who like it. You can't be a man without self-confidence, especially a man. You can not have a lot of money and good looks, but you can't do without self-confidence.

A man who is not confident will not have a woman to love, and if he does, he will not be abandoned for a long time. Of course, not every woman is so ruthless, there are many women who are willing to pay, and stupid women are willing to pay. My boyfriend used to be a person who was not very confident, sometimes he had a little low self-esteem, he was not very educated, his family background was not very good, and he was very unconfident in himself.

He was unemployed a while ago, and he suffered a lot of blows, and he lost his spirit. During this period of unemployment, I ate and drank at home, and when I was full, I would ask if I had anything to eat, and when I was full, I would know that I was playing games on the Internet, and I didn't do anything for me. I was anxious when I asked him to find a job, worried that he would continue to fall like this, lost confidence in our relationship, couldn't see the future, and suddenly felt lost.

I told him everything, and I counted the number of people who should have fallen, and after the number was over, I encouraged him even more, hoping that he would cheer up a little, a little manly, don't let me worry so much, but he is still like this, I really don't know what to do, I just asked God to worship the Buddha and didn't do it, but I also did something similar to this. When I was about to despair, I heard a friend say that there is a kind of blessing bag that opens the light in **Help you get rich, and you can give it to any kind of person, especially people like my boyfriend who also need to open their heads, which can make them sober and make people better. I don't know if it's really like what my friend said, I just took a look at it with curiosity, the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying are very good, they said that the things that open the light are very effective, and many people are rushing to find them.

I think there's nothing I can do anyway, there are some ways to give it a try, just use my boyfriend's dead horse as a live horse doctor, buy him a guard that doesn't work, anyway, it's not bad to do everything this time. As a result, I didn't expect this dead horse to really come back to life, and my boyfriend suddenly seemed to be a different person, cleaned himself up and went out to look for a job. Now he is much more confident than before, his ideas have matured, he has found a new job, he likes his current job, he works harder than before, and he feels sorry for me, I am really a little flattered.

Seeing the way he is now, I feel very worthwhile, the grievances he suffered before are nothing, and he has become the one I love again. Through this incident, I have learned a lot, two people are together to help each other, not to leave when he needs you the most, but to accompany him through the difficulties, pay without asking for anything in return, but maybe get more. If you love someone, you should make him confident, and your love is his self-confidence.

For the people you love, there may be no way to do it, but it is often a way.

Don't understand what you mean?

If you have an inferiority complex, you must make positive adjustments. Clause.

First, learn to accept yourself, this is very crucial, the most critical thing for many people to have low self-esteem is not to touch the heart knot, encounter the psychological shadow, encounter the bad experience of childhood, but always feel that they are not good or bad in the current situation, and eventually reject themselves, and even self-attack, so only by accepting themselves with joy, learning to live in harmony with themselves, and compromising with each other, can we finally overcome the problem of inferiority. Clause.

Second, we must properly divert our attention and do what we are interested in and what we are good at, such as when you are particularly inferior and sad, choose to read books, go shopping, watch movies, eat delicious food, or dress yourself up at home, do housework, prune flowers, etc., these methods can effectively divert attention, let yourself forget the problem of inferiority, and only by putting your main energy on things that are interesting and more valuable, can you get a happy and happy life. Clause.

Third, we must learn to do what we should do, especially to learn to be at peace with what happens, the most important thing is that instead of inferiority, worry and pain every day, we should learn to accept the current life, learn to pay attention to the present, and do what we should do, because no matter at any time, only by doing what we should do, can we have a fulfilling life, and can we have a sense of happiness and happiness.

The more inferior a boy is, the more he will have these characteristics, and he is destined to become a big thing!

1. Always procrastinating in doing things.

Procrastination is not a quality, nor is it a psychological characteristic, but a habit, a manifestation of inner weakness. When you get used to procrastination, you become lazy, and vice versa, you become diligent. For example, you can procrastinate for a long time every time you wash the dishes, and you may end up too lazy to cook.

This habit of procrastination will continue to spread, procrastinating every time you clean your room, every time you do your laundry, and finally even socializing and working, this habit is a vicious cycle that causes you to do a lot of things poorly.

2. Full of negative energy.

When people encounter troubles and difficulties, the whole person will become negative, full of negative energy, feel that everything is not going well, be easily irritable, easy to get angry, and easy to "hurt the innocent". A good friend wants to comfort you, but you lose your temper because you don't want to say a word. It is also very common for you to pour bitter water on someone, and as a result, that person will turn away from you because he thinks that you are full of negative energy and weak in heart and are not suitable to be friends.

3. People-pleasing personality.

Many times, we want to be a person that everyone likes, and we don't want to conflict with others at all, even if it's a retortive look, we don't want to give it to others. Even if this way of living costs us a lot, we will not hesitate to do it. It seems that I am living for others, and my energy and physical strength, as well as happiness and sorrow, are all transferred by a look and an evaluation of others.

Of course there will be low self-esteem. No money, no status, no ability, no knowledge, no experience, no warmth, no love, no good body, being abandoned, being deceived by others, etc., will cause inferiority. So you must study hard and make progress every day.

Be a good socialist young man with ideals, ambitions, culture, and progress, work hard until he is powerless, and work hard until he moves himself.

Not only boys, but also girls have low self-esteem. Everybody does. Low self-esteem is to look down on oneself and be more confident.