How to tell your family if you have a boyfriend anxious!! )

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's better for you not to rush to tell your parents first. Here's why.

    First, you're all still in school. Although you now think that you love him very much, as if you are sure to make it with him, in fact, this is still unknown, think about it, how can there be a certain thing about feelings? Of course, I'm not saying that your relationship will be fruitless, I just want you to know that the road ahead is dark and unpredictable.

    Second, you will face practical work problems after graduation Especially as a man Career is very important, because society is realistic after all, you can't live by love alone, he is now just like you, he is studying, the future is uncertain, you don't have to worry about it, you will marry yourself psychologically. When he graduates, look at his career, at least you can see if he is a self-motivated man, if he can't adapt to this society, complain about the cruelty of reality, and have a negative attitude, I advise you to leave quickly, don't take your happiness as a child's play.

    Third, even if you tell your family now, what can you do? Isn't it time to finish your studies first? As parents, they just want you to be happy, have a good future, don't suffer losses, get hurt, although your father is a little stricter, but that is a father's most straightforward love for his daughter, it is real fatherly love, do you understand?

    Now how do they bless you? There is no need to bless you, so it is recommended that you don't think too much about it and enjoy a period of love with peace of mind.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What are you taking him back for now? I haven't skimmed the eight characters yet, wait a little longer, after graduating and working, I decided that he would not be replaced, and then mention it to his family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you have to guarantee your grades, and with good grades, you will naturally be convincing.

    Secondly, if the first one is in place, say hello to the family, bring your boyfriend home, and get in touch, your dad will never kick people out.

    Third, time can solve everything, anyway, you don't live at home, the impact should not be too big, so let your father have time to think about it calmly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't say it, I'm in this situation too, I met my friends when I was a sophomore in college, and I'm working now, but I haven't said much, in their words, you don't have a stable job, you don't have social experience, your qualifications are still young, and you have the right to talk about friends. Parents and children will always be 2 generations, it is impossible to have no generation gap at all, and you haven't graduated yet, there is no need to say, the future is not known now, like your parents, it is self-defeating to say, so wait a little longer...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to first understand what type of boyfriend your parents want you to find in the future, if your school is close to home, you can take a few more classmates to your house to play, and it is best to have female classmates, then your boyfriend will have a chance to perform, let your boyfriend leave a good impression on your parents, and you can tell your parents after your classmates leave, if it is inconvenient to go to your house, you have to choose the opportunity, you can first tell the person who is good to talk, your mother or brother and sister, etc., ask them for help, at least they will talk to you, remember to say when your dad is in a good mood, It is good to say that parents will definitely understand, what tricks do they have when the rice is ripe, and they must have confidence in themselves.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal to have a good conversation with your parents, maybe your parents want you to find a boyfriend too? Don't worry, your parents can understand it at that age, but it depends on how you tell them not to worry about your studies and future, come on.

    In fact, the worries of the elders are understandable, but after all, you have reached the age of falling in love, you must not have a temper with your parents, you have to tell them well, you can not take your boyfriend home first, see your parents' reaction, if you object, you can not take him home first, engage in underground work, if you default to it, you can rest assured to take him home to show your parents, I suggest you listen to the song "Mom and Dad" I wish you success.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's it. Actually, you can say whatever you want. There's no need to be nervous. It's normal for girls to have boyfriends at 22. I feel like you're having a problem with your mentality. You might just be too nervous. It's good to relax your mind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Still not in a hurry to bring it back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Say it, don't you break up, and he can still break up for you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't tell your parents what you just handed in, and think you can tell your parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take the initiative to help them with household chores and chat. When they're happy, say it peacefully.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's take it for a while, why are you in such a hurry?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm pregnant! What the??? Don't get excited, you've found the **! Whew: That's good!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Just got a boyfriend and told your parents? Isn't it all over?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ask how rude you are, don't say it if you have a boyfriend in high school, and it's the same whether you say it or not after college.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Directly, or else, just say, Mom, a friend of mine is very good to me, man, just do it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It can be said directly. If only my mom didn't care.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on your age, if you want to study, you can put off work, and you can just say that they will check it for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not that you can't see anyone, just say no?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How old it is, slowly they will find out.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Parents should be happy to have a boyfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He's a man and has a boyfriend, there's no way to say that.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on how old you are, don't talk about it if you're too young, but after the age of eighteen, you won't be afraid, just say that a friend is very good to you, it's a man, it's okay.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on your age and whether your parents are open-minded.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What to say or how to say it depends on whether your parents agree or not.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    told my mother directly that she had met a boyfriend on the Internet. And tell your mother as much as you can about the other person you know. Just tell her everything you have posted here, and discuss it with her.

    As a mother, she is a person who has come over, and she will think about it for you. Because every parent wants their children to be happy, even sacrificing their own interests will fulfill their children. Unless, in particular, the boy is displeased with your mother.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This personal feeling is still good to tell the truth, and the result is that one of the two is that you can continue to date. The other is that you can't continue to date, if you continue to date after getting married and living on the side of the man or the woman is a problem, those things can only be discussed by the two of you, it is not easy to meet a lover who is worthy of your own efforts, work hard Bless you both.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    How to say it, if you plan to get married, you can tell your parents, if you want to say it's fun, forget it, don't waste your parents' feelings.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    To tell you the truth, my father is from the past.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If so, I will say directly: I have a boyfriend, and I want to hear what my parents mean. Why not simply explain the situation at once?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This is nothing, as long as you reach the age, you can say anything, and your parents will not object, if you are not old, it is useless to say anything. It's normal to find a partner when you're old.,You can bring up this matter when you're chatting with your family.,There's no skill in this at all.。

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If the relationship between the two of you hasn't reached that point, you really don't need to be in a hurry to introduce it to your parents.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Girls don't say it easily! How nice it would be to take him straight home! No more colloquialisms! Hehe.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The best thing to do is to tell your mom not to bring your boyfriend home first.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Tentatively talk about what they think about you getting a boyfriend.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    What to say to your family? It's normal to know it slowly. How do you let people advise, 20 years old is the legal age of marriage.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Say whatever you want. Let's just introduce it.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It doesn't matter, even if you don't say it, your mother will urge you then.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I'm a girl, I'm about to turn 20 years old, and I have a boyfriend, but I don't know how to tell my family and ask God for guidance!! 1

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you are not in a hurry to get married, you can delay it a little longer, and when you are older, your family should be in a hurry to let you find a boyfriend. But if you're going to talk about it now, I suggest you be tactful first. Tell your family that you like a boy and that you are a good person, but you don't know if that person likes you or not.

    Then slowly tell your family that your boyfriend accepts you. Good for you. Give it a try.

    Because it is through your efforts, your family will agree.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You can first reveal that there is such a friend (that is, your boyfriend), talk about him lightly, find an opportunity for him to come to you with your friends, and then slowly go deeper into him who is very good to you and cares about you, these are for your parents, look at their attitude, and then see if you want to say it all at once.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Let's see which father or mother is easier to talk to, so let's find an opportunity to talk

    Needless to say, it's very straightforward and roundabout

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