How do you get along with the elderly at home?!! How to get along with the elderly?

Don't do what to do deliberately, the old people need to be quiet, but sometimes it will be very lonely, don't dislike the elderly, everyone has an old time, if a person is old and is snubbed or disliked by his children is very pitiful, often accompany her, in fact, as long as the children are willing to spend more time with the elderly, this is a kind of filial piety.

If you don't get together every day, when you meet, you should at least ask, "How are you doing lately?" What about eating? Do you sleep well at night" (sleep decreases as you get older) to tell her to pay attention to her body.

Sometimes a gesture or a word of concern can give comfort to the elderly.

That kind of old man, finding fault everywhere, scolding if he is not satisfied, and drifting with his eyes if he doesn't scold. They didn't offend her. This kind of old man, who came from the old society, is pedantic. My friend and his grandmother are like this.,It's really...

The old man is an old child, if you have time to talk to him (her) about the past, let him (her) say, let him recall, just listen to yourself, when you can't listen, just keep smiling, keep nodding, you just care about the fugue is too empty, and buy them (her) some clothes, food, sometimes don't need much expensive, well-fitting clothes, novel food. It's good for them to feel that you care, care, and be filial.

You're doing the right thing, and talking to them is a gift for them.

Looking for a babysitter. Let your mother nagging the nanny every day, scolding the nanny, the anger will disappear, and you will have no energy to talk when you see you.

When people are old, they need to be coaxed, do what they like to do with him, listen to him talk about his past, tell him jokes, and ask him when he is confused, so that he has a sense of achievement. Let's work on these aspects. Baiyi Baiyi, but also to be clear, in front of the elderly, especially in front of the noisy people in the town where your grandparents are related, you are all juniors and children, and filial piety comes first!

The little things they care about can let them know what you think, do everything that concerns them, preferably listen to their advice first, and so on.

Respect, filial piety is good!

Ask them about the problems they are good at, ask them about the problems of their time.

When you talk to the other person in a consultative manner, they are more than willing to "teach" you.

Listen to them reminisce about their past and their lives now

Let the old people tell the stories of their youth, and the old people generally love to reminisce.

I won't be like you.

People and people's personalities are different, not to mention the elderly, there are also introverts, people who don't like to interact with people, and homely, when they are young, they are like this, and when they are older and paranoid, it is more difficult to change.

In fact, you can try your best to go out as a family, take the elderly around, have no time in the morning, and go out for a walk with the elderly after dinner in the evening. If the old man has any hobbies, such as calligraphy and planting flowers and plants, you can take a look at some nearby elderly activity centers and accompany the old man to have a look, if he has no hobbies, then look at what he does at home, and slowly guide him to do some similar things outside.

It's better not to talk about young people, who are generally not interested.

Talk about some things about their younger days.

"Father, what a dignified text these two are, but they interpret all the feelings in the world.

We grow up day by day, but our parents are getting older day by day.

Choosing a gift for my father, let me tell you my story.

I remember that when I was a child, my father was always smiling, and even if my mother sometimes quarreled with him, he always smiled and greeted him. One time my mom was so angry that she turned around and was about to close the door when my dad pushed my three-year-old me into the middle of the door. I saw my father smiling and groaning, I didn't understand what I was going to do, I stood at the door and looked up at my mother, and then looked back at my father.

Mom couldn't help but laugh, this is the dad I remember.

Choose a gift for my father, I chose a drinking water concept cup for a long time, online shopping, the material is bone china, compared to other cups are much healthier and safer, I have chosen for a long time, mainly I hope that my father can pay attention to rest, drink more water and be healthier, water is the source of health, I think there is no better gift than drinking water, I hope to help you..."

When I volunteered, I found that the elderly want their children to see them often and talk about anything, especially their grandchildren. Because it can be very simple and happy. When people get old, their health is not good, and the idea of what to eat while watching TV is weak.

I think it's good to look at it from time to time, and it's good to accompany it

The elderly mainly like their children to accompany them, and any gift will do!

Take a basin with this little thing, go and spend time with them, talk to them, nice.

Old and young, the older and younger, what is his hobby, he will give him what he loves, in fact, his mind has arrived, even if that thing is fake, what is there!

The elderly are generally lonely, and they all want us as children to find time to spend with them!!

My grandfather has a very bad memory, and he can't find anything every day, and then I saw a key finder in the music shop, so I bought one for him, and he didn't reject it, and I felt that I liked it.

Gifts for the elderly are to give health, practicality, and convenience.

On May Day, I bought my mother a mobile phone for the elderly, with low radiation, long standby, loud sound, big buttons, big fonts, one-key dialing, one-key distress, one-key lighting, one-key radio... Mom was so happy... It's super easy to make.。。

First of all, the elderly hope that their children and grandchildren will be healthy, harmonious, happy and happy. All the old people think of the younger generations first. The second is how the elderly want the younger generation to treat themselves.

This is a very contradictory question for them, because the elderly want their children and grandchildren to be close to their knees and enjoy family fun. However, at present, most of the pillars of the family have to run around all year round for their livelihood, and some even rarely go home, in this case, the elderly do not want the younger generation to work too hard, and the second also wants the younger generation to accompany themselves more, but there is no way, the younger generation has its own small family, so it can only be that even if they are sick, they do not want to disturb the life and work of the younger generation, for fear of dragging down the younger generation. When the juniors call to greet or visit, they will only say that they are fine, don't worry about themselves, and live and work well.

Therefore, no matter what the elderly say about themselves, you should take the time to visit the elderly and spend more time with them.

There are only dads and moms in this world.

The elderly are most afraid of loneliness and need to be accompanied, especially widowed elderly. In fact, the elderly hope that their children can stay by their side every day, but they are afraid of causing trouble to their children. Therefore, children should understand the psychology of the elderly and try to avoid the loneliness of the elderly.

The old man likes to reminisce about the past, and when he says it, you are there for him to echo him, and he is very happy, and he also hopes that his children can be by his side and talk and chat with him.