Why am I so cheap, am I not cheap

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Landlord, seeing the article you wrote, you can infer that the character of the girl you used to be is very decisive. She is very ruthless, but the landlord, your personality is the same as mine, and she is more soft-hearted. Dare to ask the landlord, are you an Aquarius?

    In the face of such a heartless girl, if you behave softly, not only will it not help, but she will look down on you. Now what you have to do is to cheer up, shift your attention as soon as possible, and slowly you will find that the world is very big, and she can't be everything to you. Trust me, you have to learn to be tough, she is ruthless to you, and you have to be ruthless to her.

    Wishing you happiness! ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Brother, don't talk about yourself like that, you want to delete the message you gave her to prove that you hate her very much, but you hate heartache, to prove that you still care about her very much, you are hovering on the edge of hatred and love, since you broke up, I advise you to forget about the past!! Let time take it all!! I wish you to get rid of difficulties as soon as possible and achieve your own career!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Big brother, you're your first love, right? Or have you been together for many years?

    When I first fell in love, I also felt that I was cheap=. =

    I don't dare to invest too much emotion when I fall in love in the future.

    Let's face it, everyone wants to eat and want to live a good life!

    Men, it's not easy to break up because of bread problems if you do a good job in your career first, and then you have to find a partner!

    You also said that she separated from you for the sake of reality and stability, is it because you can't give her better living conditions now?

    If so, you'd better do your job so that you don't have to repeat the mistakes of the past in the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't hate her, okay? She is also helpless, after all, this society is realistic. If you still love her, if you still want to have her, then you put your feelings aside and work hard.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't think too much about it, now focus on work and study. It will be fine after a while.

    Sometimes it's like this, when you always think you can't forget something, you forget it in your ordinary life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Men, you have to be able to afford to put it down, isn't it just a woman, a team of women who are better than her are waiting for you, and finding a new object is very helpful to you now, brother, support you to stand up!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Try to love another person or choose to give up your love for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Giving up is also a way of liberation.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When he loses, he knows to cherish, want to redeem, and prove that he is the best.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Friends....- Feelings are like this thing - face the future - maybe you cheer up: the result will be different again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Such a woman is not worth cherishing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It seems that men are cheap.

    With our group of cheap men with you, haha.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ah, yes, why are you so cheap.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It seems that you still don't know what love is, there is a saying that "there is a kind of love called letting go", I think your so-called love is just the budding of adolescence. Good luck though, but I admire your persistence.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No result, it's just a matter of playing to enrich campus life, and it's a matter of confusion.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is the first love, and it can't be said to be cheap. It's just because you don't quite know how to love. In fact, do you take a step back and think, you are still so young, do you have to fall in love now?

    If it's just for the sake of face, you might as well give up, it's better to be friends with her first, after all, you may not know each other well and won't think about each other.

    Back off, just to move forward better!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm the same way, I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've been separated from my ex-boyfriend for a year, but I still love him, and I'm still cheap.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There should be a love in a person's life that can make you have no hesitation, so first of all, congratulations, you have resolutely chosen to continue to be with her regardless of your studies, your future, your opposition from so many people, and even whether she really loves you, it seems that you have really found someone who can be without hesitation.

    However, she just lacks someone who can accompany her, coax her, and comfort her, and it happens to be you, so it is inevitable that she will be in tow with someone, and the choice of you is accidental, without you, her world will not be any different, because even without you, there will be others.

    I hope you believe that in this world, there is such a good woman who was born to wait to meet you and accompany you. The so-called love before this is just for you to learn how to love and cherish before you meet that true lover.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I tell you very clearly, you are not called cheap, but also a performance of self-confidence, since you like it, you go to fight, to keep, this is very good, after you said that she wants to be good with you, is not used to not your care and greetings, this I don't think so, this is the twenty-first century, everything looks forward, and why don't you think about the good side, cherish it, friend, she wants you to also enjoy the feeling of being loved once, and this feeling was only she had before, I hope you can think about these things, netizens said We just walk in our own way and say things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not a shit, it's just a way to show love in your heart. If you like it, you can always express it, and you don't have to care about others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Boys are always going crazy once. But after that, it will be calmer. Cherish it or give it up. Whatever you want, because this feeling is only once.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    That girl may save is a dream in your heart. What you're doing. It's a dream!. This is not a shit. It's just for that attachment in my heart. That love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I can tell you unequivocally, no. It's just because you're human that you have a basic weakness. First of all, you have filmed and dragged him, although you think he is not good enough, but at least there is a little emotion, and it is impossible to see him with other people without a little change in mood.

    Secondly, you have filmed and dragged you, you think he likes you, but now that he is with other people, you will feel that you have no weight in his heart, at least not as much as you think, and loss is inevitable, which is like when a person says he likes you and then is rejected by you for a while and then finds a girl. This is a normal human psychology, and people will often exaggerate their weight in the hearts of others.

    Again, you have patted and dragged it, but he has found sustenance, and you still have no sustenance, compared to it, it seems that he is doing well and you are not having a good time. In fact, everyone is glamorous on the outside, and only they know their inner thoughts, just like others often envy my life, but that's only part of what I want them to know.

    So, put your mind in good shape and know that you are just a normal person, then most of your psychology is normal, and your psychology, many people are the same, it will be fine after a while, don't mind too much.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because although you think she is not good, you can't get her, but you see that someone has got her, so you are dissatisfied in your heart. It's not like.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No, maybe you like him, but it's not necessarily a good thing to let go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    1. Big brother, to be honest, I admire you, you are really responsible for your relationship and marriage, and you have put in a lot of effort. First of all, a thumbs up for you! You are not cheap, you just cherish your feelings more, you are more mature, and there is more love in you, so you will take the initiative to redeem and give;

    2, what about your wife, to be honest, I hope you don't get angry, the three views are very problematic, and very self-centered, from the time you described your quarrel to the later she and other men, including the man who once raised her, talked ambiguously, this woman, self-righteous, does not know reflection and introspection, by her own nature, in fact, she lacks a sense of security and value, so she finds a sense of existence and satisfaction from men, although nothing substantive has happened at present, but her heart is very obvious to feelings and marital infidelity, And I think it's very reasonable. I don't know what you think, but I think you will only have more conflicts in the future!

    3. I don't think you should apologize all the time, and don't dig through old accounts or anything. Write a letter to her and admit what you should admit wrong about the quarrel, but also make it clear what she makes you feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, using "I feel......Such an expression, not "you......Then tell her that you value and cherish your relationship and marriage, as well as her, so you don't think about divorce unless you have to! Two people living together is to grow together, if you have been soft and apologic to each other without principles and boundaries, without making it clear what you care about, and what of her actions bring out negative emotions, this will only make the other party more self-righteous, not to mention your wife, a person who feels good about herself!

    4. After writing the letter, calm down for a while, give her space and give yourself space to think clearly! I'll talk to her in three days, what she thinks!

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