My girlfriend is a country teacher, dressed casually and doesn t pay attention to my image, what sho

1. Convince yourself to accept her even if she is always dressed like this (if you can't, consider whether you are really suitable for marriage, because her appearance is more important to you than her inside)!

2. When she is unconditionally accepted by you in this regard, as her environment changes, her dress will also change, but "acceptance" is always the beginning of change.

3. If she insists that nothing has changed for a long time, please refer to Article 1.

Actually, congratulations really on you. It is a blessing for you to have found such a woman. You've found a good woman with a husband and children.

It's actually nice to dress casually. At least, she doesn't have such a strong show-off and comparison mentality. This has something to do with her profession and character cultivation.

Every man wants his woman to dress up pretty. I agree. But it is still necessary to wear different outfits for different occasions.

It's really better to be casual. You can talk to her. Adapt to what you wear for different occasions.

She dresses casually, which does not mean that she is sloppy. If she is not sloppy and pays attention to personal cleanliness. ,.

So if you are able to marry such a wife, what reason do you have to be unhappy. People have their own lives and habits. Just be happy.

Why do you care what others think? I see you have some questions. At the very least, your vanity is at work.

You examine yourself first.

It's not good to beat around the bush, and I think you should just tell her that I hope she can pay attention to her appearance. But be sure to make it clear, in this regard, sensitive girls are easy to misunderstand that you dislike her village girl=. =

Human beings have evolved to the present, and clothing is no longer just to cover shame, but more of a civilization, a kind of politeness, a way to show personality and express oneself. It's all right to think that it's good to dress comfortably, but you can ask her to think differently, what would you think of someone in a formal social situation when you saw someone who was dressed very inappropriately?

I support a casual lifestyle, but when you're alone, you're a social animal, and that's something you can do...

Do you know, you have a very good girlfriend, your words make me feel that your vanity is really strong, if your family is very rich, it means that you really love face, if the conditions of your family are also average, it means that you have an inferiority complex, although your behavior does not mean that you don't love your girlfriend, after all, it is real life, not acting in a TV series, if you want to love her, you will love everything she has, but the fundamental problem is not in your girlfriend, it is in you, You should think carefully about why you care what people on the outside world think of you.

I used to be like this, please consider that as a country teacher, she already has a fixed makeup in the eyes of her children, how are the children and colleagues around her dressed? There's no way she's going to leave the group. The persuasion of others may be useful, but the pressure of the environment is still very high.

You can take her around the big city and hope that he will dress up for the right occasion and change his makeup.

If she loves you, she will consider your feelings. If you love her, you will understand his situation. The two of them discussed. It's not a problem.

It seems that there is a big gap between you and her clothing taste, but it doesn't seem to be a big problem, so it won't affect your decision to get engaged to her. You can slowly instill some advice on the style and taste of this dress, and after a long time, she may be influenced by you and she can change it for you.

It's not like a person's personality, if you don't get along with you, then you're out of line.

You go shopping with him, look at the clothes, let him see what he likes, and I think he'll pay attention to important occasions. Or you can look at the right one and ask him if he takes it seriously. It's okay to pick and choose, as for the vision or something, you can help him refer to it.

In fact, she just can't pass the level in her heart, you force her to wear it.

There will be a second time with the first time, and then she will be praised violently, and then everyone around her will praise her, and there is no woman who will not do that

Encourage her more, use your love, and tell her that she is beautiful.

Is it so important to look at her appearance She dresses casually, which shows that she is simple, and it also shows that your girlfriend is dedicated and puts most of her time and energy into education Isn't it a good thing to have such a dedicated girlfriend?! You should be happy!

I wish you all happiness.

Does her clothing affect your engagement, you value the saddle more than the horse. Clothing is a habit that can be changed. And people really have a saying that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change. Let's pay more attention to character.

On the one hand, there are personal habits, and on the other hand, there is the environmental impact of the situation. Simplicity is not a disadvantage, sloppy is not good, there is a clear difference between the two! It's more important to look at character.

You said that if a person is used to wearing conservative clothes, and you suddenly ask people to wear low-necked clothes, is it acceptable? You can take her to the kind of shops that are trendy when you have time, and she will pay attention to what other people are wearing, and she will accept it slowly over time.

You have to understand him, because for the country, you should dress like this, otherwise you will become an outlier. You should let him know what to wear for any occasion, and he should be casual as usual.

When she was engaged, she bought her better clothes to wear, and she suddenly found that she could have another beautiful feeling, and she would change.

Buy some clothes that match her identity and temperament, she will definitely love it! Tell her more about this, and she'll change!

Do you love people or looks?

Some of the changes are not original.

Don't take it too seriously.

Try to choose some comfortable clothes to wear, without losing the trend, and don't spend too much.

You're dressed like that, too. See if she will mind having such a husband.

If you like her, you should accept everything good and bad from her.

You take him around the bigger cities, and she'll understand.

In addition to ordering corrections to inappropriate clothing, the key is to standardize the system, and the system norms linked to economic interests are the most effective.

If she really starts to get a lot of famous brands back every day. It won't be out for half a year. You've got to have a little belly...

Be content with you ...

That's right, maybe her personality is like this, you go shopping together, find a suitable and decent one, I think she can also accept it, I don't usually wear those styles, suddenly want people to wear it, of course, a little uncomfortable, slowly come a little bit, it will change

Is there anyone in the countryside who wears something fashionable? You have to think about the surroundings If everybody is fashionable, then that's fine, but the country people dress very casually, and your wife is going to wear fashion, and she will be rejected by everyone, have you ever thought about it?

Ask her to wear it on important occasions, I don't think she will object, right? So take her to those occasions more, then he will naturally get used to wearing them.

Communicate with her well, she is a teacher, and she shouldn't be unintelligible. Those who don't understand these things. Communicate well. I really can't communicate and can't stand it, so let's divide it.

Since you are in love, don't care about this kind of thing! The environment affects people!

Ask her to wear it when you go to the street, and decide how she usually dresses.

Such a person ... Forget it.

Tell her that the teacher should pay attention to the image.

Let's talk about it if the relationship is stable, or you can take her to visit the clothing store and send her one or two clothes, it doesn't need to be too expensive or too vain, she is from the countryside, she knows how to be thrifty, you give her expensive or vain, she may feel so precious, "Save it for important festivals and then wear it, so as not to get dirty." "Then you're buying for nothing. Let's take it step by step There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women

It's easy to do.,Often tell her euphemistically what you like about her.,It's even better if you add something dressed up or something.,Subjectively say how you like her.,If she cares about you, she'll be happy to slowly change her image for you.,And you'll like to dress up.,Don't be direct.。

Because there is such an example around me, now the girl has become very fashionable, and the handsome boy used to take his girlfriend full of joy to clean his teeth, hehe, I hope you will say something sweeter, and everything will be OK....

You'll have to take her shopping more, although there will be a lot of people talking about you.

But it's in the nature of women to love beauty, and they value beauty more than men, so you can only take her to go shopping.

Of course you can, not paying attention to your own image, it's too unusual, this is the least a person should do, are you right?

It's the same when you take off your clothes, do you have the ability to dislike people?

Then buy her some very beautiful, but not particularly fashionable kind, the teacher can't wear a special one or something, she should pay attention to the students as an example, you have to be able to understand, and she is not dressed very unsightly, a little understanding and understanding.

If you don't like it, don't delay someone's time.

Or just influence him yourself and tell her tactfully.

Don't find fault with other people's no.

Wear a little simple and noble wear, there is nothing in the current clothes, I don't believe she doesn't like it at all.

You can say: you are beautiful and temperamental. But you dress modestly, and dress up more to look better.

I think your girlfriend is respectable. In fact, it is really a blessing to find the kind of girlfriend who is not vain, plain, and motivated.

Then buy the temperamental, not the fashionable.

Individuals have their own dress habits.

When working in a company, you have to pay attention to your image. A person's image is actually related to a person's living habits, and of course, it is also related to a person's character.

So, you can talk to the other person if necessary.

If you can't get together, you should break up.

The shell is a shot. Find a suitable one for yourself in the future, don't be casually emotional.

The new century is a little more realistic.

I haven't had a girlfriend in so many years, you can be content.

Can you find a job for her that is not too bad, the girl will have a little vanity in this regard, or you ask relatives and friends to help her, help her find a job, and take her to the city, or your girlfriend has a better job in the countryside than you, then you can run around the country more, often go to see her, accompany her, so that you also show that you are not pampered.

Is your girlfriend a regular employee in the countryside? For example, teachers, or employees of state enterprises. If this is the case, then it is a relatively big problem to quit such a job and go to the city to find an ordinary company to work.

Then take him into the city and scatter him. That's fine.

Caring and affectionate, good young man.