How to be a cultivated boy? 5

You should look at the secret of a gentleman, usually speak and act in an atmospheric and mostly way, so that you can be more masculine. Read more literary masterpieces and don't read those bubble literature. A lot of boys love anime, but they also like masculine sports like basketball and football.

Read more books on male etiquette and this should help you. I hope you will become a cultivated boy as soon as possible.

I deeply sympathize with your situation, because I myself have had the same problem as you before. There is one thing I don't understand, may I ask you why a boy goes to see some lady's secrets, and they all say that they are lady's secrets, of course, only girls. Also, I don't think there's anything wrong with a guy watching girly anime, because as a boy, I also like to watch romance**, even so, it's better to watch less.

As a boy, I think you should have the masculine temperament of a boy, deal with things quickly, ruthlessly, accurately, don't procrastinate, and carefully observe those among your friends who are more sunny, and secretly learn from them, which is good for yourself.

First of all, don't pia fly me.

It feels a bit like [receiving] Don't worry, there must be rotten girls in your class, but in ordinary life, it's very [calm] No matter what you are... Just look good... That's how this society is.

Watch less and exercise more, and you'll know If you look at these, it shows that the iron man also has a tender side.

There is nothing wrong with this, there are billions of people in the world, should everyone be the same? You are special, our era is differentiated in terms of talent requirements, and from this point of view, you are successful. And the world is so big, it is too narrow to look at it from the perspective of a school.

As long as you feel that a man can do what you can do, you can do it too, no problem.

Accept!!! Excitedly unable to help himself).

A man with quality and cultivation is a man who knows how to respect others, is responsible, responsible, self-motivated, filial, loving, and polite. This kind of man will be loved and respected by others no matter how he goes, he will become an idol in people's minds, he will become a model and example in people's hearts, his words and deeds will become an example for people to learn and imitate, and their lives will become more exciting, more brilliant and better because of such a man. This kind of high-quality and cultivated man is a good man worthy of people's respect, worthy of learning, and worthy of people's pursuit.

A man with quality and cultivation is a man with good living habits and style of life, good moral character, good behavior, good psychological quality, good ideological character, good personality and conduct, and good habits and qualities, such a man is a charming man.

At a time when we are advocating the building of spiritual civilization, it is very important to build a harmonious relationship between people. In the process of growing up, establish a correct concept of life, and strive to slowly cultivate to become a self-cultivated person.

Don't be presumptuous. Don't think too highly of yourself, don't think of yourself as smart, arrogance is tantamount to digging your own grave. To be too clever is to be stupid. Read more books and study to clean yourself.

Don't make blind promises. If you don't promise what you can't do, you will not only bring trouble to others, but also increase your troubles and lose your trust in others. Promises are not lies, they are not excuses, and they will not disappear.

Don't ask people lightly. What you can do by yourself will never ask others to do it, do not rely on others, and do it yourself, so that you can not only improve your ability but also increase your knowledge.

Don't impose on others. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" Everyone is an independent individual, and they have their own point of view, and they should consider the problem from the perspective of the other party.

Don't make fun of others. Laughing at others is also a kind of sarcasm for oneself, ignorance. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, don't always grasp the shortcomings and weaknesses of others, but see the strengths of others and apply what you have learned.

Don't throw tantrums. No one owes you, don't let your emotions affect others. Tantrums are instinctive, and temper control is a skill. Read more books to cultivate one's self-cultivation.

Don't interrupt people easily. This is a kind of impolite behavior that is disrespectful, and it is necessary to learn to listen, and listening is one of the necessary conditions for communication.

Don't underestimate the meter. Gauge is a mood and a strength. A beautiful self can not only please others but also please yourself, increase self-confidence and impress others.

Don't close yourself. If you are closed for too long, you will lose touch with society, so you can interact with others more so that you don't feel overwhelmed by your own hard thinking, and you can also help others to enhance friendships. Read more books to help you grow inside.

Don't bully honest people. Don't think you're bullying others, and don't think of others' kindness as weakness. We must respect and care for others, "the weakest lord will have violent anger" Everything must have a degree, and things must be opposed.

Cultivation is not something that can be had overnight, it is a process of slow accumulation, usually read more tasteful books, such as ancient poems, modern excellent prose poems, celebrity biographies, etc., in addition to listening to some classical ** and classic old songs, in is to participate in more meaningful social activities, such as volunteers or something. There is also a lot of exercise, exercise or something.

One. The core of cultivation --- humility Whether you are rich and rich, or you know the geography of Huai Lu Tianwen, please keep your humble mind at all times, often the more well-read people are, the more humble they are, because they know that the world is vast and the sea of learning is endless, and personal knowledge is limited, don't brag in front of others about what you know, that will make you look like a clown.

Two. Cultivated partner --- life They are used to arranging their own life plans, getting used to going out a few minutes early when they go to work, they like to live unhurriedly, they like to cook themselves an exquisite lunch on the weekend, they like to play in the mountains and rivers, and they have their own unique hobbies, such as playing, writing, painting, and photography. Because they love life so much, decorate themselves, and celebrate the good old days, they rarely see wrinkles between their brows.

Three. The Veil of Self-cultivation--- Conversation and Behavior Cultivated people are by no means cold and unsmiling, on the contrary, they are often very talkative, and can express their own unique opinions on the areas they are good at, while those who do not know much will humbly seek advice and be good at listening. Always maintain good etiquette in front of others, and will not make rude behaviors such as crossing your feet, looking around, or picking your nose.

They know how to be humble, maintain a gentlemanly demeanor in front of ladies, do not get emotional at every turn, and have good self-control.

Four. The quality of cultivation --- attitude to things Their attitude towards failure, attitude towards success, attitude towards everything, always maintain the necessary enthusiasm, understand love and believe, they know how to pay attention to details, change the problem of impetuousness, so they look at the problem more comprehensively, and deal with things steadily.

Five. If you want to understand what a person is like, you only need to look at the people around him, the circle ---of friends has a huge impact on their own development, 20% of life is born, 80% is formed by acquired influence, so reduce the interaction with people with bad habits, and keep up with popular people, and over time, you will change yourself unconsciously.

1.The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not in harmony - Analects

2.The gentleman is better than righteousness, and the villain is more profitable. —The Analects

3.Friendship produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony. — Hugo.

4.Happiness always exists in the restless pursuit of human beings, not in harmony and stability. - Lu Xun.

5.The gentleman is harmonious and will not blindly agree, and the villain is just blindly attached and will not be harmonious - Western proverb.

6.Friendship is a kind of harmonious equality. -Pythagoras.

7.Each is beautiful, the beauty of the beauty, the beauty of the same, the world is the same. —Fei Xiaotong.

8.What exists is reasonable. — Hegel.