I ve been in love for 27 years and haven t been in a relationship, so I don t know what to do.

Updated on society 2024-02-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    With the countless experience of my maiden, I will tell you that when you meet someone you like, a man should be thick-skinned, chase and fight, no matter what he says, don't take it to heart. I want to move her with my sincerity. In the process of pursuing, you must also master each degree, too much of a success, too fast pace will also frighten girls.

    It will also make him hate you very much, men have to be patient, there are some things that can't be written in words, and they have to practice and play on the spot by themselves. Also, don't tell the truth to girls when chatting with girls, some women like men with rich experience and more emotional experience, but some women like men who haven't experienced much affection, and sometimes you need to tell some white lies. Mouth dessert, find what he is willing to listen to, and sometimes you also need the help of your buddy to have some little romance.

    You have to stay sober at all times, don't be too intoxicated, and speak in a love atmosphere with a scale. Don't talk nonsense, you are responsible for what you have said to him. If you can't do it, don't mention it, a woman remembers your promise to her and gives the girl more pampering, but don't be too obedient to him.

    Too much pampering will not work. In this way, you will be very dangerous, he will think that you are not manly, there is a saying, a woman does not hit the house for three days, I am just describing not for you to hit him. Properly bring out a man's temper and domineering side.

    Having said so much, in fact, in short, sweet words or pampering must have a scale. Bless you to be invincible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Normal, you're not sociable, right? If you want to find a partner, it is best to ask relatives and friends to introduce you and go on a blind date.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Normal, but you can find someone around you who you can see, make an appointment to have a meal, have a drink, watch a movie, and begin!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then find one to love well.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Have a relationship before you get married, and don't leave yourself with regrets.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Are you a man or a woman? It is recommended that you do not disturb if you are not sincere.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can talk more about good-looking and fun things, so that you can improve your love knowledge better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The first time you fall in love, you can ask your good friend for advice, I used to be in love with my friend ** this problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some people may not have been in a relationship at the age of 28, and they don't even want to fall in love, but in fact, some people will feel that this situation is normal? So for me, I think this situation is also a normal phenomenon, because some people don't find a suitable person for themselves in the process of life, so they don't fall in love.

    Because love is our own business, that is to say, others have no way to measure our view of love.

    Or that there is no way to interfere with our state of love. If we haven't found a suitable person or someone who wants us to fall in love, then I think we can wait for a while, don't think that age is necessarily a problem, some people think that if I don't fall in love when I'm 20 or 30 years old, it's a very serious thing, but in fact it's not the case.

    In fact, everyone's view of love is different, some people feel that they are 28 years old, have no first love, and don't want to fall in love, which is not a normal thing, but in my opinion, no matter how old it is, as long as we find the right one, we can talk about it, but if we don't find what we like, or think it's right for us, it's okay for us not to talk about it for the time being, otherwise we will start a relationship at will, which is also irresponsible to each other.

    First of all, we must abandon this abnormal thinking, that is to say, we must be objective, to look at these love problems, some people feel that love is to be chosen in a certain age, that is to say, after this age, if we fall in love, it may not be a good thing. But we can take a look at some people who have never been married in their lives, and even spend their lives waiting for someone, so this is actually love, but also themselves, as long as they can bear this consequence, it doesn't matter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is nothing abnormal, everyone chooses what kind of life to live according to their own needs, but it is necessary to remind you to think clearly, in the future, you have to pay for the current choice, choose to marry and children, you will pay a lot at the moment, choose to be single, chic in the present, and old and lonely. Normal, such people are ambitious people, have dreams, goals, and plans for life, whether they are men or women, they will have a successful career in the future, and they will get everything you want, and now there are many young men and women, who are trapped by love at every turn, and some are eager to catch one quickly, for fear that it will be difficult to find when they are older, all such people, most of them will achieve nothing in the future, and they will not have much interest, and their feelings and marriages are not happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's normal, everyone has their own thoughts and choices, it's not a big deal if you don't want to fall in love, life is your own, do what you want to do, and happiness is the most important thing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is a beautiful thing, but it is not a necessity of lifeLife is your own, and you have the right to choose what you want and have. Everyone comes into this world with a special meaning, and there is no need to feel strange that you have not been in love. Falling in love is a very mysterious thing, maybe the destined one is still waiting for you in a corner, and what you have to do now is to love yourself.

    Love will come by chance, don't be anxious, don't need to be uneasy, just love yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not normal, maybe what happened to you when you were a child was not particularly good, or your family was not particularly happy, so you don't want to fall in love, and you don't believe in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Normal, love is not a necessity of life, everyone's needs for love are different, some people need love very much, and some people don't necessarily, it depends on yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Normal, everyone has the right to choose, and it's normal not to want to fall in love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This situation is basically your own problem, you need to do a good job of self-change, first of all, the change in clothing, dress younger, don't be sloppy, at the same time, to change your personality and way of speaking, don't talk at every turn to offend people, to be more open-minded, and finally to contact the opposite sex.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I haven't been in a relationship once at the age of 25, and there are some people who are busy studying. People who put their bodies and minds into their work. A lot of them have never been in a relationship.

    At this time, you can try to communicate more with friends of the opposite sex around you. In the face of what you like, you should take the initiative to pursue it. Feelings are all pursued by oneself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    25 years old, I haven't been in love before, and when I meet a girl I like, I should take the initiative to date. Take the initiative to ask girls to go to the movies, eat, and go out.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    See if there is anyone you can introduce to relatives, friends, colleagues, etc., and if not, go on a blind date.

    In fact, it is not a shame to have never been in love at the age of 25, so why worry. Especially in the matter of love, it is difficult to find love in a hurry.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You can try it through some social software and platforms to see if there is someone you like, so that you can have a wider social platform, so that you can really have experience socializing, so that your love space can have a wider space.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1.You can try a blind date.

    2.You can go to a community marriage agency for help.

    3.You can ask relatives and friends to help.

    4.You can try it with acquaintances of the opposite sex.

    5.You can try it out through dating apps.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Maybe fate hasn't arrived yet, and you haven't met someone who likes each other, so if you meet, you can have a good relationship, and it's best if you can achieve positive results. If you encounter it, you will fight for it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is the natural attraction of two hearts under the flow, and this kind of thing cannot be too deliberate, let alone forced.

    Most boys and girls who have reached a certain age will be flustered once they don't have a partner. In this society where the age of love is constantly advanced, I watched my friends and friends kiss me and show my affection. It is inevitable that I will taste and even doubt my future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's normal to not fall in love at the age of 25, several of my friends are 30 years old this year and haven't been in love, and now it's generally late to fall in love, so it's normal, it's just that fate hasn't arrived yet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's normal, I can only say that you haven't met the right one yet, fate hasn't appeared yet, don't worry. There will always be a suitable one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Pluck up the courage to contact with the opposite sex, talk about your heart, talk about your work, talk about the future, talk about your ideals, talk about life, talk about the bits and pieces of life, talk about your own outlook on life, etc. to understand each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you haven't fallen in love yet, you can go directly to a relationship and talk about a vigorous love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What should I do if a 25-year-old hasn't been in a relationship once? No, 25-year-olds aren't ready to fall in love? It's definitely going to be talking, talking about things.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    1. Be good at listening, so that you can get her approval based on listeningMany situations, girls depend on the whole process of communication with friends of the opposite sex, and just want to find the approval of friends of the opposite sex, rather than communicating suggestions or expanding ideas. A 25-year-old man who hasn't been in a relationship? Therefore, in the whole process of chasing girls, you must listen and get the approval of the other party.

    You can communicate with the other party with deep understanding, and use the sense of picture to close the gap between everyone. Remember: Whether it's zero-distance chatting or passing, three points are the content, and seven points are the tone and mentality!

    Naturally, in the case of listening to the other party, you can also be moderately funny, and funny men are loved by most women. Small talk is an atmosphere, therefore, in the whole process of small talk, you should let each other be in a relaxed and pleasant situation. 2. Tell how she is a person according to her verbal expression habits.

    What is the love pattern of the Aries man? In many cases, if we all come out to chat based on the Internet, then we can only tell how she is based on some habits she reveals or reveals during the whole process of chatting with her, and whether it is suitable to become their own long-distance relationship.

    goals, so we have to have a careful look.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Through the above questions, I can't understand your personal situation, but some possible reasons are as follows:

    1. Lack of opportunities: It may be that you don't socialize with other people often, or you have a relatively small social circle, which makes it difficult for you to meet potential partners.

    2. Lack of self-confidence: A lack of self-confidence can make you feel nervous or uncomfortable communicating with a potential partner, which can hinder you from building a deep relationship.

    3. High expectations: It may be that you have high expectations or standards for your potential partner, or you expect to build a stable relationship too quickly, which can lead to disappointment or frustration.

    4. No investment of time: Building a stable relationship requires an investment of time and energy. If you don't put the time and effort into finding a potential partner, it can lead to you not finding the right person all the time.

    5. Friend's reputation: It is possible to leave some bad influence on others in daily social communication, although it may be the subjective impression of others, and you can understand more of your own shortcomings through communication with friends to improve yourself.

    The above are just some possible reasons, if you want to know more about your own situation, it is recommended that you laugh with your friends and communicate with your family, because sometimes the authorities are confused, and I wish you to get off the list as soon as possible.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is very normal, stuffy, 25 years old is not very old, if you have not been in a love brigade, it means that you have not met someone you like, when one day you meet someone you like, you will really start your love career.

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