Isn t it pathetic for such people? What kind of people do you think are the most pitiful?

It can't be said that when people grow up, they have to leave the family, that is, two separate families, and whether the mother is willing to lend money to the child is a personal will, and you think it is sad that you belong to the kind of moral kidnapping. In addition, there are daughters in my country who are married, like water spilled out, and if they have this kind of thought, they will not borrow it, and this kind of thought is very common.

Not every parent is called a parent. Some parents and children are very weak, as long as they are brought up, it will be fine, and it has nothing to do with them whether you are doing well or not. Some parents hope that their children will have a good life. Not all parents are good

Hello! As for what you said, I think it should be viewed in two ways. If the mother really has no money and there is no way to lend her daughter, and if the daughter comes to borrow money from her mother when she is in trouble and does not pay it back, then the mother may not lend it to her!

This is just my opinion, and besides, there are no wonders in the world, what kind of people exist, sometimes we should find a way to solve the difficulties ourselves, it is best not to trouble the elderly!

The world, everyone has it, you have to see through, want to open, face, life is not easy, taste the ups and downs of the world, this is also the necessary process of growth and experience, face the sad people to face with a smile, there is no way to go around, exercise yourself!

This kind of family conflict, outsiders don't know the details, in fact, it is really difficult to judge. Daughter's"Difficulties What kind of difficulties are they avoidable? Q: Is the amount of money borrowed by the mother within the mother's affordability?

Is it all the mother's pension money? How can my daughter repay? Have you ever gnawed at the old?

Now there are a lot of disguised gnawing on the old, and a little pension money from parents is actually life-saving money.

My sister too, but my mom gave it. She is 27, her job is unstable, she eats and drinks for nothing when she plays games at home, gnaws at the old, doesn't clean, has no money to go out to play, and wants the new ** if she has no money to buy it.

If the mother does not borrow money if she has money, she will definitely be angry as a daughter. If your mother really has no money, she must understand that it is not easy to raise you. Remember a sentence, no one is obligated to help you, and anyone who is willing to help you is a kind of affection, cherish it; If I don't help you, I don't hold a grudge, and I don't want to survive.

Borrow from a friend or relative who is wealthy. We know that if you borrow money from others, if they don't have the financial strength, they can only lend you a little bit, but it's not enough, and you have to borrow from a few more people, which is very embarrassing. So we might as well find a friend or relative with strong financial strength to borrow money from them, which will save trouble.

2When you borrow money, write a note to him, and ask him to rest assured. Many people lend money to others, often not at all. Is it because he is afraid that once the money is lent out, what will happen if you don't pay it back?

So we can write a note, and the so-called brother Ming Settle accounts also means this. That is to say, no matter how close the person is, you must make the other party believe that you are an honest person. 3. Tell the borrower about his own difficulties.

Sometimes many people borrow money without explaining the reason clearly, and others don't know if you can pay it back if you use the money in **. So people will have this worry, so in order to eliminate this worry of others, what we have to do is to tell him the reason for borrowing money, so that he can understand why we are borrowing money, when we can repay it, etc. 4. Give the borrower a certain amount of interest.

Often, a lot of people borrow money, and it's okay if the amount is not large. But if the amount is relatively large, then if you borrow money from others, the interest must also be given to others. In this way, people will not lose money when they borrow from you, and they will be happy to borrow you.

Otherwise, people will not be happy to borrow so much money from you for nothing, and if you borrow for so long. 5. When borrowing money, you should have a good reputation in the circle of friends. Some people will have an easy time borrowing money from others, while others will have a hard time borrowing money.

That's because of how you feel about someone else in normal times. If you're a petty person, people won't lend it to you. In addition, if you often borrow money from others and do not repay it on time, your reputation will naturally deteriorate and it will be difficult to borrow, so you should also pay attention to this.

It shows that the mother and daughter are not close and there are contradictions. The two are incompatible. So in the eyes of others, it is not as good as outsiders.

When the daughter was in trouble, the biological mother actually did not lend him money. As a daughter, it will be really sad! Mother would have been great, our last harbor.

It is the one who protects us the most. On the contrary, this mother did not help her daughter when he was in the most difficult time.

I think such people are really pathetic. I don't care about my own girl. It's really not human.

Hey, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

People who desperately fit in are the most pitiful.

Some people say that if you are gregarious, you won't have to work so hard. However, isn't it really hard to force yourself to be gregarious? In college, many students are always alone, feel lonely, envy those who have many friends, and are afraid of being said to be unsociable, so they force themselves to fit in with them, and they want to be very popular.

Living in a collective, there is always a group of people around me, only I am alone, and over time, I feel that I am really not popular with others, so I desperately let myself be gregarious. When you go to eat with your roommates, you don't like the food that the other person ordered, and you will deliberately go to the same as the other person's order; Even if the other party says something against his heart, he will still nod his head and agree with his point of view, obviously doing what he doesn't like, eating things he doesn't like to eat, and going to places he doesn't like, but as long as others are used to it, they will give up their truest thoughts and practices, and they will work hard to fit in with the group for fear of being left alone.

What destroys a person is blind gregariousness.

Someone once said that one of the things I regretted the most in my four years of college was not that I didn't study hard, but that I didn't dare to be myself. The friends in the dormitory love to play games, and they have to call him every time they fight in a team battle, and the good name says: "Brothers work together to break gold", just like that, a person who doesn't like to play games in order not to let himself behave maverick, for the so-called "honor", "war", and the momentum to work together, slowly dismantled his will.

Students who fall into this herd mentality will only follow what the public thinks is right and what they do, without actively thinking about whether it is reasonable and suitable for them, and this kind of blind gregariousness will make people gradually lose their sense of self in silence. Four years later, although he gained a precious brotherhood, he lost the capital to meet the future, and he flew at a low altitude and did nothing, and the nightmare of "being unemployed after graduation" was really staged in himself.

Being unsociable is just loneliness on the surface, and being gregarious is lonely inside.

The cause of gregariousness is mostly from the loneliness and confusion of adolescence, the writer Liu Tong said: "I was eager to have a good chat with someone, not only a greeting, but a real exchange, but I found that the common topic has changed countless times, and the familiar people have long since lost their feelings." I was defeated by countless "oh" and "well" and went back to talking to myself".

In fact, loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are still living in the abyss of trying to be gregarious, some circles are not suitable for yourself at all, forcing yourself to blend in, at most just living for others, and the phenomenon of gains outweighing losses always exists. The world is diverse, but that doesn't mean that accepting everything from others is the best way to fit in.

In college, it is not ashamed to eat alone, the real shame is that students who can't see the above 3 kinds of problems clearly, if you want to make yourself more simple and happy, don't switch your goals, principles, etc. to another channel at will, let alone shape another self for the eyes of others, you are you, the most unique you!

1. Let your friends underestimate your strengths and your enemies overestimate your weaknesses.

2. Don't hate your enemies, that will affect your judgment.

3. People who see the essence in one second and those who spend half their lives can't see the essence of a thing clearly, naturally have different fates.

4. Don't say your ideals easily and don't give others the opportunity to laugh at you.

5. Don't say impossible, nothing is impossible.

6. Be closer to your friends, but closer to your enemies, so that you can get to know him better.

7. People who regard accidents as an insult to their dignity will never suffer accidents again.

8. When you say no, you have to make it sound as good as it doesn't sound.

9. There is no so-called innocence in this world itself, and you can admit that you have never lied, which is self-deception.

10. Suffering is not as irretrievable as death.

11. The "meaning" between men and women often starts with "embarrassed" and ends with "really boring".