Deception is not a very shameful act

As long as it is well-intentioned, it is not, but if it is harmful to others and self-interested, it is a shameful act.

No. It's okay to adjust your mindset yourself.

Don't give yourself psychological hints that deception is shameful.

Those so-called concepts and opinions are all psychological hints given to oneself.

White lies! Not a cheat! Look at it from the starting point! It depends on the purpose of the lie! If the result is good, it is good! It can't be generalized!!

If deception can make the other party better, then why not, if the truth can make the other party disgusted with you and don't think you have any good intentions, then why do it, as the above few people said right, depending on the situation, sincerity is valuable, too "sincere" is fucking s.

Generally speaking, yes, but well-intentioned panic is understandable and acceptable.

I used to have the same idea, but after "mixing" in society for a while, I realized that this is too stupid, sometimes I don't protect myself, and I hurt others, so it's better to be flexible. But there is a premise, as long as you don't do hurtful things.

Not really. Sometimes there are white lies.

There is no shame in a white lie.

It cannot be generalized, it depends on whether it is good or bad.

Deception is inherently bad.

But there are two sides to everything.

Sometimes it's for her good to lie to someone, can you say it's shameful?

Touch your heart and ask yourself, is deception the best solution? If you're sure, then lie to it, even if others won't forgive you. You yourself will still be very at ease, and slowly someone will understand you.

How to say it. The same cannot be said exactly.

Oh, no matter what, be tolerant first.

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Deception is the act of deliberately causing the other party to carry out a civil juristic act contrary to its true intentions. When a defrauded civil juristic act may be known or should have known of the deception, request that the people's court or arbitration institution revoke it.

Deception is generally a crime of fraud, and only if the model slips in line with the code refers to the fraud of public or private property and the amount is relatively large, it can meet the criteria for filing a case. The elements of fraud include the perpetrator's intent to defraud; The perpetrator has committed fraud; The defrauded person falls into a misunderstanding due to the fraudulent act.

Both deception and fraud are illegal in the legal sense. Deception is a civil offense, and fraud is an administrative or criminal offense; If the perpetrator uses fraudulent means to cause the other party to carry out a civil juristic act contrary to his true intentions, it may be revoked; However, if the perpetrator defrauds a relatively large amount of public or private property, it constitutes the crime of fraud and shall be punished accordingly.

where public or private property is defrauded, and the amount is relatively large, a sentence of up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release is to be given, and/or a fine; where the amount is huge or there are other serious circumstances, a sentence of between three and ten years imprisonment is to be given, and a concurrent fine is to be given; where the amount is especially huge or there are other especially serious circumstances, a sentence of 10 or more years imprisonment or indefinite imprisonment is to be given, and a concurrent fine or confiscation of property.

Legal basis]:

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 148.

Where one party uses fraudulent means to cause the other party to carry out a civil juristic act contrary to its true intentions, the defrauded party has the right to request the people's court or arbitration institution to revoke it.

Article 149.

Where a third party commits a fraudulent act, causing one party to carry out a civil juristic act contrary to its true intentions, and the other party knows or should know about the fraudulent act, the defrauded party has the right to request the people's court or arbitration institution to revoke it.

Categories: Health Wellness >> Mental Health.

Problem description: If a stranger says that he came here from out of town to find a friend, and now he has not found a friend, and he has no money. The man was still driving a black car, and he said he had no money to refuel now. Anyway, I want to ask you for money, if so, will you give him money?

Analysis: I use my personal experience: it is absolutely deceitful!!

In May 2006, I met two men who claimed to be from Shanghai, saying that their Mercedes-Benz car had been in an accident in Weifang and broke a local girl's leg, and the car was detained by the police, and the 100,000 yuan in the car was temporarily sealed. CCB bank cards were also swallowed.

At first, I only thought about dismantling, and said that I would use my mobile phone to call the Shanghai company and ask the company to remit money. I was afraid that they would take away my phone, so I didn't dare to agree. But I said I could help them make long distances.

Later, I took them to a restaurant on Taishan Barbecue Street to make a magnetic card** and ordered two dishes. The two of them even thought that the food was too salty, so they didn't eat it after a few bites! I'm dizzy!

At this time, the rice is still salty!!

**The fee and the meal cost only cost 50 yuan, and then after eating, they actually asked me for 200 yuan and said that they would stay at night. I said that there is a small hotel in front of it is very clean, and a double room discount is only 80 yuan a day. These two super funny told me that they were going to find a high-grade star hotel near the train station to live, and wait for the company to send a lawyer.

I was a little puzzled at the time: how do you look at these two people like **, why am I so stupid to help them fight ** and invite them to dinner!! Shandong people are kind, and they can't be deceived like this!!

But according to my habit of helping strangers in the past, since I have been invited to eat, I can't leave it alone, I have only 150 yuan left, so I gave them 100 yuan and 10 yuan change to take a taxi. They memorized my phone number and walked away. Said that he would contact me in the future to return my money and repay me for my help.

Now 4 months have passed and no one has contacted me.

It's not the first time for me to help a stranger, and it definitely won't be the last. Never expect money spent on strangers to come back.

When I meet an old lady who looks like my mother, I think: If my mother is in trouble when she goes out, I hope that someone like me will lend a helping hand!

When I meet people who are dressed up and asking for help, I think that I have fallen into this situation myself, and I think I will repay the strangers who helped me. I believe in the cycle of cause and effect, and I believe that the kindness and love in this world will be linked one by one like a circle.

Note: Professional beggars and flaws are obvious**I ignore them! Hey.

Whether intentional deception is illegal or illegal needs to be decided according to the actual situation. Whether intentional deception constitutes a crime usually needs to be analysed on a case-by-case basis. If the party defrauds a relatively large amount of public or private property by means of fabricating facts or concealing the truth for the purpose of illegal possession, then such conduct will constitute the crime of fraud, and other circumstances will not constitute a crime.

Legal basis]:

Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China" Article 266 [Crime of Fraud] Whoever defrauds public or private property, and the amount is relatively large, is to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release, and shall also be fined for rottenness or a single fine; where the amount is huge or there are other serious circumstances, a sentence of between 3 and 10 years imprisonment and a concurrent fine is to be given; where the amount is especially huge or there are other especially serious circumstances, a sentence of 10 or more years imprisonment or indefinite imprisonment is to be given, and a concurrent fine or confiscation of property. Where this Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.