I always like to be entangled, and I hate that I can t make up my mind and have no opinions

In order to remain unchanged, the ship is naturally straight to the bridgehead.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad about your problem, I'm always struggling to make up my mind when I encounter something, which is a sign of your lack of self-confidence.

When encountering problems, I am always entangled and can't make up my mind.

Hello, I'm glad about your problem, I'm always struggling to make up my mind when I encounter something, which is a sign of your lack of self-confidence.

Kissing, many times, I don't believe in my own judgment, suffer from gains and losses, hesitate, and always struggle to make up my mind, these are all manifestations of lack of self-confidence. When you encounter such a situation, you must strengthen your sense of trust in yourself, and you must believe in yourself, and you will definitely be able to do it. Always remind yourself to be firm in your knowledge and believe that you can do this well.

And try to solve problems according to their own ideas, and enhance their self-affirmation in continuous practice. Lack of experience in certain things, no vested experience. Objectively speaking, not everything can be done well by yourself, and there are some things that you have never encountered, and of course there is no successful experience, which increases the difficulty of making a choice.

At this time, you should say to yourself, if you don't succeed, at least you have worked hard, so that there will be no pressure, you will let go of your hands and feet to do it, and in the long run, your self-confidence will improve.

Kiss, before doing anything, you must be clear about your goal, and move forward with this goal, as long as you work hard. The reason why you are hesitant to do things is because your goals are not clear and you don't know how to choose, which will lead to such a result. If you want to be more assertive, you might as well start by clarifying your goals, and it will be much easier to make decisions when you know what you want in your heart.

Kiss and kiss all say that everything depends on the situation, and the entanglement also needs to choose an appropriate time. We must allow the existence of tangled psychology, and contradiction is the fuse of tangled, which has advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that when you have to make a decision in a special situation, you can avoid this choice, and you are also entangled anyway, so let someone else make the decision.

The downside is that when it comes to making a choice, your struggles may make you lose some opportunities, or otherwise, and may even make you late, etc. Therefore, it is difficult to recognize the situation.

Lack of self-confidenceMany times, I don't trust my own judgment, suffer from gains and losses, and hesitate, which are all manifestations of lack of self-confidence. When encountering this situation, we must strengthen our sense of trust in ourselves, strengthen our cognition, believe that we can do this well, and try to solve problems according to our own ideas, and enhance our self-affirmation in continuous practice.

I hate myself as much as you do.

This is really a terrible problem, and it needs to be changed slowly, but I will give you a strong medicine.

In the early years, when I was doing sales (selling electrical appliances), I met a teacher, in his fifties, Obasan, I bought an electric heater here, that is, the kind with heating pipes on it, it looks similar to a fan, and it will shake its head, and then the problem is in this shaking head, Obasang came to buy it at six o'clock in the afternoon on the first day, and bought one back at nine o'clock in the left and right picks and grinded until nine o'clock (we closed at nine o'clock), and the next morning they didn't open it and came again, saying that his children said that there was a sound when the electric heater shook his head, I opened it and tried to have a little bit of a small sound, judging that it was a new product, the plastic made a sound because of thermal expansion and contraction, it does not affect the use, it is good to use it a few times, she still wants to change, so she began to choose again, we do activities on this day, busy to death, no one pays attention to her, she is there to pick it herself, put all the electric heaters in the shop into a pile, but I didn't notice until more than eight o'clock in the evening, she was still there to choose, I went, she didn't even eat lunch and dinner there for a whole day, the girls in the store are stupid, In the end, I resisted the responsibility to return the money to her, if she fainted in the store hungry will be really miserable, it can be seen that the choice is difficult if it is serious when it is a terrible pathology, so the landlord must resolutely change.

To tell you the truth, I'm also like this, I don't have an opinion, sometimes I hate my personality, I envy those who kill decisively, try to get rid of the influence of others, try to make up your own mind, be confident, I'm optimistic about you!