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Well, your point of view is correct for the individual.
In today's society, the relationship between interests is becoming more and more serious, to be honest, believe that you are the wisest, and it is difficult to have a confidant in life! I really have a confidant, at least I can't clearly say how to judge him as your confidant.
But I still think that there is one thing, your relatives are worth trusting, especially parents (I mean parents who really care about you), many, it can also be said that most parents, are very caring for their children, so you should first believe in your parents, of course, their practices will also be inappropriate, but they all want to be good for their children, just do it!
I always believe in a sentence that you can't have the heart to hurt others, but you can't do without the heart to prevent people. First of all, you have to be sincere to your friends, regardless of interests, you can't do things that hurt your friends, from the perspective of others, that is, you are not a friend worthy of his trust. Then they will also have the view you have now.
Moreover, if it is a friend, there must be the kind that will hurt you, and you don't have to hold grudges, the world is like this now, I'm sorry for too many people's things, and the interests are too big, so why should you remember a temporary grudge? >!It's OK if you only have a conscience that you do it yourself!
To be honest, I don't have a good impression of my relatives, and the current interpersonal relationship is really difficult and difficult to grasp. In the end, it is better to believe in yourself, at least you can find a confidant, that is, yourself. But I hope to understand and believe in myself with an optimistic attitude, and friends are indispensable on the road of life.
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Only by believing in others can you get the trust of others, that is, comparing your heart with your heart! Friend, have you ever been hit by someone else?!That's why I asked!?
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I don't think it's possible to believe purely because there are white lies.
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Except for my parents, the last person is myself.
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Don't be so decisive
After all, most parents in the world love their children
Everything is done for the good of the children
It's just that the children's views on affairs are different from those of the older generation, so there are often disagreements
But that doesn't mean you can't believe it
If you really don't feel like there's anyone you can trust
Then I think you're too tired to live
Try to trust others and don't close yourself off
That's how you can make your so-called "confidant".
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To put it nicely, of course, you are more assertive, but to be realistic, you are a good person, and you love to show yourself. Everyone's ideas will be different, if you can't agree with other people's opinions, it's best to choose to shut up in an irrelevant situation; If you agree with other people's views, then you can praise them a few words by the way, and you don't have to repeat them, which is annoying.
Later, the company conducted a talent selection campaign for the position of supervisor. He is full of self-confidence and thinks that he usually speaks actively and offers advice, and this position belongs to him. In the end, he was defeated, of course, this was also expected.
After all, if a person can't handle even the most basic interpersonal relationships, the position of supervisor will definitely not be competent. After learning the results, he went to the manager to theorize and asked the manager why he was not promoted because he did his duty for the company.
Not long after that incident, he resigned. We don't know what their chat was or what happened exactly, but it's certainly not a pleasant exchange.
Appropriate silence is a kind of wisdom in dealing with things, and those who know how to be silent and listen are often wise. Blindly showing yourself will only make others annoying and disgusting. Whether other people's remarks are correct or not, you can measure them in your heart, and you don't have to say them all.
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You are too conceited, you don't know how to listen to other people's opinions, you are too self-centered, you will have no friends for a long time, and the people around you will not like you, because your approach seems to be very disrespectful.
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This may be a feeling of self-affirmation, always feeling that others are not right, and always wanting to refute others.
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In fact, the psychology of this kind of person is particularly self-righteous, and he will not listen to the opinions of others, and he is too stubborn, which may be psychologically defective.
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I think you're just too self-centered in this situation, so you can't listen to what other people say.
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It's a competitive mentality. Always accustomed to expressing your opinions. In fact, it is a particularly bad phenomenon.
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This kind of person can be a self-righteous person who always immediately argues and expresses his opinion no matter what you say. This behavior often occurs in people who are self-centered, lack the ability to listen and respect the views of others. They may believe that they have absolute truth and are reluctant to accept the opinions or suggestions of others.
This type of person often shows overconfidence and thinks that their view of things is the only one that is correct. They may interrupt you, don't give you a chance to speak, and try to prove that they are right through debate. Such behaviour can create an atmosphere of tension and hostility, making communication difficult.
This type of person's behavior can stem from various factors, such as low self-esteem, fear, need to control others, etc. Regardless of the reason behind it, communicating with such a person can become very challenging.
However, when communicating with such people, there are a few strategies we can adopt to cope:
1.Stay calm: Don't be affected by the other person's debating skills or agitation, stay calm and reasonable.
2.Listen and respect: Try to understand the other person's point of view and show respect for their position, which can help ease tensions.
3.Present facts and evidence: If the other party simply argues and does not provide substantial arguments, you can try to provide some facts and evidence to support your argument.
4.Be patient and firm: Be patient and firm in expressing your opinions, and don't be swayed by the opponent's argumentative strategy.
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Here are three of my opinions.
1.I used to look down on the lamp at night, and when I was a child, I must have slept at night, but now I study hard every night, and I can't do it without a lamp. The main reason is that the pressure of competition is too great now, and I can't lie down, and I can't roll it up.
2.I used to think that I wore a hat or an umbrella when I went out, and I was very scoffing, but now I am afraid to die when I go out, so I am afraid of tanning, and the umbrella cannot leave. The main reason is that the current aesthetics are all white and ugly, and when I grow up, I pay attention to my appearance.
3.I used to think that it was very important for friends to be killed, and if you were alone, you would die. Now I understand that each person has his own different path, and it is good to be alone. People are really too strange, the more I get it, the less precious I feel, and the more I don't get it, the rarer I feel.
I also agree with everyone's opinion It is indeed difficult for a long-distance relationship to have a good result Of course, if two people have a deep relationship with each other, they are reluctant to each other, as long as they love each other and trust each other, it is not impossible But as you said, you have retreated a little and regretted it, then there will be basically no result, and it will only be a waste of time and a waste of feelings if you continue, I still suggest that you share it with him, the long pain is better than the short pain, since you have already been with him, it is impossible for you to retreat with your whole body, Separating from him may cause the two of you to live uncomfortably in the short term, and it will be sad, but if you are really not interested in leaving this relationship, find the person who belongs to you in that city that belongs to you Bless you ......
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