How to get rid of the psychology of blind celebrity worship? 15

Ahem: That's a serious problem

Actually, it doesn't matter, it's probably just a hot brain It's commonplace for me) Tell you about my experience, you just can't help it, don't read any news about this star for about a month, and then read books and the like, and when you see the news of this star again, you will just love to listen to songs, watch movies and the like

I'm sure you can do it

Don't care too much about other people's opinions, just like what you like, and be assertive. I like JJ Lin, and I often hear some bad opinions about him. You have to believe in one thing: as long as you like it!

Me too, but I'm 16 years younger than you, and I like JJ

Go your own way and let others say go.

I don't think you should care too much about other people's opinions, you can just like it, and be assertive. I like JJ Lin, and I often hear some bad opinions about him. You have to believe in one thing: as long as you like it!

I will first understand this matter, and then try to maintain my idol as much as possible, and say more positive things for him, so that people will not misunderstand him.

I don't care what others say or slander, I will still like him, as long as he does the right thing and develops in a good way, I will always like him.

Just keep what you like, many celebrities are easy to attract a lot of trolls after they become famous, and we shouldn't care too much about these trolls.

It is recommended that you work on the following aspects:

First, go back to the roots. Try to put yourself in the child's shoes and have an in-depth understanding of the stars your child admires, so that you have the "capital" to communicate with your child. Then, through equal communication, figure out why the child worships him and what the reason for worship is, so as to prepare for the next step of guiding the child.

Second, reasonable guidance. There are many positive and positive factors in celebrities, find these "shining points" and make them role models for children to learn. In this way, the so-called "idol" may become the motivation for the child to move forward and the goal to catch up.

One child was a great admirer of Awakening, and his mother did so by digging a few stools: I found that Awakening had always been very good at school. When he was in junior high school, he was the first in his grade.

His English is excellent and he has a high score in IELTS. I told my son to learn from the awakening, to persevere and strive for excellence in whatever he does, and to hold himself to high standards. Gradually, the son went from being obsessed with the song of the awakening to admiring his personality.

My son is more serious about studying than before, and he often practices spoken English, saying that since he likes to wake up so much, he shouldn't speak English too badly.

Third, more understanding and communication. Adolescent children generally think that their parents ignore them, and in their minds, classmates, friends, and their "idols" are the ones who understand them best. Therefore, when they have something on their minds, they would rather talk to their peers than tell their parents.

If parents can have more understanding and trust in their children, and can communicate more with their children, I believe that their children will one day say goodbye to "obsessed chasing stars".

Think about the dirty things of celebrities.

Worshipping stars is somewhat blind.

Some are not.

Most people worship a certain star because they think that there is something worth learning from them, such as singing or acting or dancing well.

Entertainer entertainer. Most of them are people who have achieved success in literature and art.

Like I like Vanessa

I think she sings very well.

It was a pleasure to listen to her songs.

In fact, many people like celebrities from the feeling of feeling.

Like watching a movie.

Some people feel that the hero and heroine are shocked by some aspect of them.

It made him feel very different.

So he fell in love with the hero and heroine.

Begin to worship them.

This is very common.

Some are because of the herd mentality.

It's a trend in society to worship stars nowadays.

So it's silly that they're also starting to try to find their favorite stars and try to like them.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with treating star chasing correctly.

Personally, I feel that there should be people to admire.

That person doesn't have to be a star.

For example, a certain outstanding student at school.

Or some singer worth learning from her spirit.

Or the dedication and seriousness of an actor.

And so on and so forth. It's all worth learning.

After all, everyone has a sparkle in them.

Threesome, there must be my teacher.

Chasing the wind, most of them are those little girls who like handsome guys......Flower heart, disgusting. I like to come out for a while, and a new person goes and likes another one. These have no connotation, and they all like handsome guys.

I think you're just trying to find a better and more perfect person to be your role model.

That person is like the embodiment of all your idealizations.

You expect to be as perfect as he is, just as good as he is.

Then compare yourself to him on the screen.

I feel that I am worthless (anyone will feel that I can't compare to him) Why don't you want to think about it, are people really that perfect?

Like you said, !Image! Temperament! What a capability! He's a first-class singer and he's doing his homework super well! Qin Qi's calligraphy and painting are really proficient in everything!

There's not a little bit of packaging in it? Isn't there the slightest trace of artificiality?

Even if he is really good, it is his hard work, and it must be at least ten times harder than others.

It's not just a matter of blindly worshipping celebrities.

I think it's you who set your goals too high and don't meet your expectations.

The resulting anxiety and anxiety since you envy his achievements and his brilliance.

So why not work hard? 20 years old is the first age of life.

Hurry up and work hard, you don't have to be as good as him, just as good.

But you have to find your own place.

Give me your functions and studies to learn well.

Add some hobbies after class.

Success does not come by worship, but by one's own sweat and hard work.

The more you pay attention to him, the greater the contrast.

Turn your attention to your studies or work.

Find yourself in life instead of being his puppet!

Go for it! Be clear about why you worship him, and then try to get closer to his strengths. It doesn't have to be to reach that height, it's the effort and sweat that goes into the pursuit that matters.

As a role model, it is the motivation for yourself to move forward for your dreams Pay attention to and strive for! Believe in them and support them.

Believe in them and support them.