Dear friends, give me a little advice 20

This kind of man is emotional** and can't believe his nonsense. In today's society, marriage is not insured (maybe divorce and debts), let alone unmarried. In case of illness or disaster, can he take care of you for the rest of your life?

The answer is definitely no, because he is not responsible for the person in the family, can he be responsible for you? Unfulfilled promises are unattainable dreams in my eyes, and they are equivalent to lies. Now that you are young and beautiful, he will be good to you, look for you, spend money on you, and wait for you to try it in a few years, impossible, unless you still have use value, (except for money, body, and fertility), maybe he will ask you to renew his incense, and if he is not married, he will use you here as a temporary residence (hotel, hotel), like a rented room, and hire a nanny or hourly worker to be responsible for laundry and cooking.

Leave that man, unless he is willing to give you friends to marry.

His so-called love is only a verbal promise, swearing that who will not, and the words dissipated in the air and drifted away with the wind. When he breaks his oath, what will happen to your friend...

And if it is known by others, saying that the man is just a flower, saying that your friend is a vixen, a third party, destroying other people's families, etc.

We know it's the man's fault, but you have to believe that his wife is most likely to blame your friend for seducing her husband.

Besides, if that man really loves your friend, he loves him very much, and he won't let your friend fall into such an embarrassing situation. Let your friends be in a dilemma, let your friends be scolded by others, make your friends always live in anxiety... Without the guarantee of marriage, what do your friends do to defend themselves.

That man may still have a happy home, but your friends may be betrayed...

Let your friends be sensible, there is no perfect love on TV or ** in this real world.

Who said that a married man can't love, I think some people are hypocritical, if you love someone, you have to get married, as far as this matter is concerned, after your friend knows his situation, why should you be together, is it for love, or to marry him, if you want to have the best of both worlds, then simply order, the man divorces and marries your friend, and if the man doesn't want to divorce, then separate. As for saying that you can't find a substitute, it's hard to say, how can there be the same in the world, people in love are the best in everything, in fact, there are many better people around them, but because they haven't been contacted, they can't feel it.

That man's pure brain-dead What do you want this kind of person to do?

Good for you, Pan Renmei. Give points.

Category: Annoyance.

Problem description: I don't have many friends, almost all of my friends around me are classmates when I was studying, I don't have a job unit, just a small businessman, and my life circle is relatively small, but it doesn't matter, doesn't it mean that the most real friends are left in middle school? Yes, several of our classmates have gotten along well for many years, both men and women, but my circle has always seemed to be different from others, always like to compare, and secretly compare, until now, maybe this is the result of the legacy, but we are still good friends, and now we are all married, and each has its own family. On the contrary, I feel very lonely, as if I have lost a lot, some friends have left the city to develop in other places, and there is not much contact, sometimes I want to play ** as before to ask female classmates to come out and talk, now I am embarrassed, because they are all married, it is still not good for a long time, what about some friends?

It's just that the family conditions are not very good, and they are reluctant to take the initiative to approach me, and then there is the problem of borrowing money, which makes me distressed. A lot of times I call ** friends out to drink tea and chat, but they don't say that there is something wrong with this, someone told me that it is different to get married, you always invite them out to play, they are embarrassed, their conditions are different, they have to support their families, you always invite people, don't invite you back, and embarrassed, please, the living expenses are a little less, 30 years old, as if friends are leaving me one by one, annoying, no friends days, now I want to leave the city.

Analysis: In fact, there are a lot of helplessness in real life.

I'm sure a lot of people have that like you.

But there's nothing to be sad about.

You still have your lover.

Your family.

Change the center of gravity to another place.

You'll be happy too.

You change cities.

Nothing can be changed.

Maybe there's a little more unfamiliarity with another city.

Hope you are happy.

<> this. The work is not bad! Of course, it would be nice if the wages could be a little higher--- almost everyone has that.

But it's not easy to achieve!

The key is to be calm and recognize what you can do!

If you can't do a job that pays more than your current job. You know it!

Of course. I'm not hitting you.

After all, now that society is bigger, there are many more stoves to choose from.

<>But if we don't pick carefully, we may be on the path of failure!

After all, many, many paths will fail, and success is only for a few!

Therefore, it is recommended that you still calm down and think carefully.

I can only --- wish you early success!

Then learn more about the career you want to engage in in the future in your spare time, plan a good direction, and work hard to save money!

Personally, I suggest that if your work is more leisurely, then you should adjust your work to an orderly and orderly state, and then carry out your work according to your own state, and don't do nothing every day.

With all due respect, that's a pitiful amount of money at the moment. If you have free time at work, it is recommended to learn something that is useful to you without affecting your work. I used to work part-time, and I used to work part-time to see if the work I was engaged in improved or not, and it didn't matter if I didn't do it if I didn't improve.

How much does it take to save 2,500 a month for ten years, right?

I think it's pretty good for my current job.

You don't want to rest on your laurels, and you may not have time to think about what you don't have if you change jobs.

If the salary is high, the work intensity will inevitably be high, and some of them are not what you imagined.

How much money is enough to save, and at the beginning of some things, not all funds are abundant.

It shows that you are a person with ideals and ambitions, and young people should go out more and support you to take action.

Bought a house? Got a car? Married? Do you have children?

If you are satisfied with the above 4 things, you will not be able to get up leisurely.

You can first consider your current environment and situation, such as whether you are married and have children, if you are in a state of unmarried and childless, and want to take advantage of your youth, you have to think about it, if you move, can the worst situation be better than the current situation? If you are married and have children, then the question you need to consider is whether the worst-case scenario can be better than the current situation if you move!

That's right! It seems that the two problems are the same, but in fact, I want to tell you that the overall employment environment outside is not very good now, if you can be clear about your worst-case situation, such as doing nothing at home, as long as you can accept this result, you can move! No one is stopping!

How do you know what your ability is without hitting your head and breaking the blood flow!

My personal advice, judging from the monotony and laid-back and comfortable pace of your current life, I think you should first do the work at hand, save enough money, and then pursue yourself.