How to give a gift smartly, several very useful gift giving tips

Borrow flowers to offer Buddha. If you are sending a souvenir, you can say that someone from your hometown brought it, and give it to a friend to try it, there are not many things, and it doesn't cost money, you don't buy it for him, please accept it. Generally speaking, the recipient's rejection of the gift will be greatly eased, and they will eventually accept your gift.

Darkness Chencang. If you give a friend something like wine, don't avoid talking about the word "send", pretending that someone else gave you two bottles of wine to drink with your friend and ask him to prepare a la carte. Wouldn't it be wonderful to drink a bottle and give a bottle like this, the relationship is also close, and the gift is also given, and there is no trace of it.

Of course, this is for better friends, and most people may think that you take advantage of a small loss in order to eat a meal.

Set off by contrast. Sometimes you want to give a gift to someone, and the recipient has a holiday with you, so it is inconvenient to give it directly. You might as well choose the birthday of the recipient and invite a few acquaintances to congratulate him, so that the recipient will not refuse.

When you later know that the idea was yours, it will change your perception and the relationship will be reconciled. With the help of everyone's strength, it is the best policy to achieve the purpose of gift-giving.

Grafting. Lao Zhang had something to ask Xiao Liu to do, and wanted to send some gifts to dredge it up, but he was afraid that Xiao Liu would refuse. Lao Zhang's wife is very familiar with Xiao Liu's wife.

Lao Zhang started his wife's diplomacy and asked his wife to visit with gifts, and he succeeded in one fell swoop - the thing was done, and the gift was received, both of which were perfect. It seems that a direct attack is not as effective as a roundabout exercise.

The meaning of a drunkard. If you are giving money or goods to someone in need, sometimes he is very self-respecting and will not accept it easily. If you are giving something to us, you might as well say that this thing is idle in my house, let him take it and use it first, and then return it after buying it.

The recipient will feel that you are not giving alms, and will be happy to accept it if you return it later. In this way, the purpose of your gift has also been achieved.

Icing on the cake. A student has been favored by his teacher and has always wanted to repay if he has no chance. One day, he stumbled upon the calligraphy and paintings in the teacher's mahogany frame, which were actually rubbings, which did not match the elegant furnishings in the interior.

It just so happened that his uncle was a well-known calligrapher, and he had calligraphy and paintings given to him by his uncle. The student immediately brought the calligraphy and painting and took the initiative to put it in the frame, and the teacher not only did not object, but also liked it very much. The purpose of the student's gift return has finally been achieved.

If you can't "send charcoal in the snow", "icing on the cake" is also a good policy.

People cloud: those who wear people's clothes, carry people's worries. It means that if you wear someone else's clothes, you will carry someone else's thoughts or worries in your arms.

In other words, if you accept a gift from someone else, you have to do something for someone else. Therefore, if you want to ask someone to do something, you must first learn to give gifts to others.

Of course, asking people to do things, giving gifts well, and using the right methods will make everyone happy. If you don't send it well, you will feel heartwarming when you are blocked back. Therefore, it is necessary to master the skills of asking for gifts and giving.

It is best to give gifts on New Year's holidays, or when the other party celebrates their birthday, or when the other party is sick, to send gifts, so that the name is justified, so that the other party can not refuse, and their goals are easy to achieve.

Asking for gifts should be strategic, sometimes giving the other person what he likes, it is better to give something that his family likes, which can strengthen the other person's good impression of you. In particular, gift-giving methods such as this for family members can sometimes lead to a qualitative change in the relationship between you and the other person, which can have unexpected effects and establish a more intimate personal friendship.

Asking for gifts, you can't be blind and reckless, press me with courtesy, you must understand the interests of the other party, have a target, and arrange it skillfully, the other party is easy to accept the gift, and the work will be nine out of ten.

In today's commodity society, "profit" and "li" are linked together, often "li" and "li" are related, first "li" and then "li", and only "li" can have "li", which has become the general rule of business public relations.

Gift feed is the lubricant for enterprises, partners and customers to maintain a good relationship, compared with other public relations means, gift gifts have a clear direction and a good rate of return, so the annual cost of gift gifts often accounts for a considerable proportion of the annual public relations budget.

The public relations department of many large companies has a special storage in the computer, and has a record of some major public relations, the identity, status, hobbies, birthdays, and the annual holidays and other suitable days, there are always routine or special gift-giving behaviors, so as to consolidate and develop their own networks, establish and improve their business status.

Research has pointed out that the reason why Japanese products can successfully enter the American market is that the most secret is the small gifts of the Japanese. Small gifts play an immeasurable role in business PR.

The principle of asking for public relations and gifts.

Principle 1: Choose gifts of different value according to different recipients.

Principle 2: Choose gifts carefully according to the interests of the recipient.

Principle 3: Choose the best time to give a gift to make a deeper impression.

Principle 4 The gifts should be of high quality, applicability and durability.

Principle 5: Make gifts more personal and specific.

Principle 6 The packaging of gifts should be delicate and attractive.

Principle 7: Choose different occasions for gifting according to the purpose of the gift. Some gifts are delivered to the recipient's home, while others are delivered to the office.

As follows:

1. Borrow flowers to offer Buddha.

If you consider that the other person will not receive your gift directly, you may wish to take a detour and use the technique of borrowing flowers to offer Buddha. For example, if the gift you give to the other party is a special local product, then don't say that you bought it specifically, but say that someone from your hometown brought it.

Divide some to the other party to try the new, not much, and did not spend money, not specially bought, ask him to accept, generally speaking, the recipient's refusal mentality that cannot be reciprocated due to hospitality will be eased, and will accept your gift.

Second, secretly crossing Chen Cang.

The thick black gift-giving technique of secretly crossing Chen Cang is to use other things as a name to achieve the purpose of gift-giving. For example, if you give something like famous wine, you can sue the other party.

Others give themselves two bottles of good wine, it is boring to drink alone, invite the other party to have a light meal, taste the wine together, and then drink one bottle and give one bottle, the other party is slightly drunk, it is easy to accept your gift. With such a gift, the relationship is also closer, and there is no trace, and if you ask someone to do something, the success rate will be very high.

3. Borrow a horse to lead the way.

When asking someone to do something, if the relationship between the other party and you is far away, and it is more abrupt to give a gift directly, at this time, you can choose a good day, such as a major festival or the other party's birthday and wedding day, and then invite someone close to the other party to give gifts and congratulations together.

In this way, the general recipient is embarrassed to refuse, which is the so-called thick black gift-giving technique of borrowing horses to lead the way. With such a fate, it will be much smoother to ask someone to do something.

Fourth, grafting.

For example, Xiao Wang had something to ask Lao Li to do, and wanted to send some gifts to dredge up the relationship, but he was afraid that Lao Li would refuse, so he refuted his face. Xiao Wang's lover is more familiar with Lao Li's lover, so Xiao Wang used this relationship to let his lover visit with gifts, and he succeeded in one fell swoop.

The gift was also received, and the thing was done, the best of both worlds. The thick black gift-giving technique of grafting emphasizes that roundabout movements are more likely to be miraculous than direct attacks.

Fifth, let's start by borrowing.

When asking someone to do something, there is a technique called sending charcoal in the snow, which is to help those who are temporarily incapacitated, in case they need it in the future. At this time, if the other party has self-esteem.

If you are very strong and will not accept your help easily, then you might as well use the technique of borrowing first, for example, if you are giving an item, you might as well say that this thing is idle for you here, let him take it and use it first, and then return it after buying it later.

If you send money, you can Shenshan say that you can take it to the emergency and pay it back later. In this way, the recipient of the Tent will feel that you are not giving charity, and will be happy to accept it, and at the same time, they will also write down your kindness. In this way, the purpose of your gift will be achieved.

It is very important to work on gift-giving skills and make the "gift-giving" behavior go naturally.