Should it be reasonable to be with someone you like?

With the person you like, you should be reasonable, reason is used to solve the conflict between the two, and everyone likes to be reasonable with the opposite sex as a lifelong partner.

There is no need to talk about any reasoning, because talking about a lot of big truths not only cannot solve the problem, but is counterproductive and causes trouble, so it is better to discuss and discuss.

This score situation, if you are just in love, you must spoil your wayward girlfriend, which is unreasonable for women in love. Gradually, the two of them stabilized and could be reasonable.

No. It is actually very dangerous to reason with the person you like, it is easy to distance yourself from the person you like, and it is better to be confused in love.

It should be, liking someone is not indulging a person, being unreasonable will only make the other half feel that she is justified at all times, and slowly become lawless.

It shouldn't be reasonable. Because if you reason with the person you like, she will think that you don't love her, why be reasonable, isn't it good to be tolerant?

Two people who really love each other must not only be reasonable, get along with each other daily, and maintain their feelings, they must not rely on reasoning, but on affection.

"Reason" is rational and rational, and it is a calm thing. And "love" is warmth and tenderness, which is the main purpose of two people together.

Give each other warmth, warmth, affection, affection. You have to have these things for a relationship to have warmth, last longer, and make each other feel happy.

This is also the meaning of lovers being together, this kind of love will bring each other motivation, will resist loneliness and the fear of the unknown world.

This kind of affection will make each other feel that their existence has meaning and value. Because they need each other, think about each other, accompany and support each other.

These are all a kind of affection, love from the heart. Therefore, when two people have conflicts and conflicts, a hug can express apologies and affection, a kiss can resolve grievances, and some nice love words can eliminate dissatisfaction.

But when there is a conflict, blindly sit down and talk to the other party about the truth, that may not have any substantive effect.

The other party may not want to listen, or can't listen, or he may feel that you are too boring, what he needs is emotional expression and language, and what he needs is "coaxing", but you are reasoning with him one by one, isn't this very embarrassing and unwarm?

Therefore, when lovers are angry or have a disagreement with each other, remember to say nice love words, remember to kiss and hug each other, and use more behaviors and words that can express emotions, rather than all blunt truths.

We know a lot of truths, but in front of my lover, can't I be coquettish? Don't you want to make trouble unreasonably and wait for coaxing? Can't you want to be cared for, loved, and spoiled?

If we want to listen to reason, there are many "teachers" in the outside world, and there are many truths in books for us to learn from.

In short, the truth is not completely unavailable in the relationship, it just depends on the situation, if the other party also wants to be reasonable, then you can discuss and study it together. If you don't want to listen to reason, don't be reasonable alone.

This can be a cognitive bias known as "irrelevant information effect", which means that when people process information, they tend to associate the current situation with previous experiences, knowledge, or ideas, resulting in connections that don't seem related.

In conversation, some people like to express their views by expounding some truths and general principles. This expression can sometimes be uncomfortable, because the listener may not be able to directly understand the relationship between these principles and the specific content being discussed, but the speaker repeatedly emphasizes the connection between them. At such times, the audience may feel that their point of view is being ignored or that the presenter does not really understand their point of view.

If you have a different view on an issue, but the other person always seems to ignore your point of view and emphasize some principles and principles that are not relevant to the current discussion, then you can try to communicate with him, try to let him understand your views and feelings, and seek some concrete solutions. At the same time, you can also try to understand his or her intentions to emphasize principles and principles, and see if he or she is trying to help you understand the problem more fully in this way.

It may be because this person pays more attention to logic and principles than to specific facts and situations when reasoning. So even when talking to you about a topic that has nothing to do with her, she will try to tie her point of view to some general principle or value.

In addition, some people may be naturally good at thinking from the perspective of others, able to understand other people's feelings and positions, and willing to give support and affirmation. Such people are usually more likely to express their approval and praise for others, so that others will feel understood and accepted.

In short, everyone has their own unique way of thinking and communication style, and there is no right or wrong. If you are confused or uncomfortable with this person's way of communicating, you can try to communicate directly with her and express Orange Huda's own views and feelings to find a better way to communicate.

This sentence is very reasonable, really don't reason with the person you like, this will only hurt each other's feelings, and if you like someone, you should tolerate and understand each other.

I think if you like someone, you have to tolerate him, if you are always reasonable and careful, the relationship between the two people will not last long.

Don't be reasonable.

Girls tend to be more delicate than boys, and they pay great attention to how they feel when they get along with the opposite sex. Whether the mood is agitated or soothing, the man's emotions will always play a certain role in leading the girl, if you pay attention to talking to your girlfriend about some big truths, talk about right and wrong, then the other party and its easy to get a boring experience in the process of getting along with you. No one wants to listen too much to the truth, everyone pays more attention to their own perception and feelings about life and the world.

Many boys will complain to their friends that their girlfriends can't listen to anything when they quarrel, which is not difficult to explain, girls will unconsciously resist some of your care for her when they quarrel, and you want to make the other party obedient by reasoning, and it is not realistic to be soft. It's easy to say some hurtful things in a quarrel, and sometimes you are easily affected by these hurtful words, and you can't get out of self-denial, so when you reason with your girlfriend at this time, she generally can't listen.

Moreover, reasoning needs to pay attention to the time and occasion, if it is when the other party needs, you go to talk to the other party about some life philosophy, lofty ambitions, maybe the other party can understand your mind, with a normal attitude to accept your teaching. But when quarreling, due to the instability of the mentality, maybe the other party is still in a state of anger, she can't listen to anything, reasoning with the other party at this time, not only can not play any role in easing, maybe it will deepen the conflict, promote the incomprehension of both parties.

Choose to be reasonable at the right time.

It is said that women in love are unreasonable, and in the face of this moment, if a man and a woman are reasonable, even if they win the reason, they will lose their feelings, and the main thing for a woman is not to think about the man being reasonable to her. In love, a man must not reason with a woman, but use the following methods to "spoil" her.

1. Wait for the woman to coax her when she finishes making trouble.

In love, if a woman is unreasonable, even if a man is reasonable with a woman, the woman does not take it seriously, because since a woman is unreasonable, then a man cannot stop her unreasonableness, so at this time, men should not reason with women. But wait for the woman to coax her after making trouble, and in the process the man should not lose his temper, when the woman has finished making a fuss and has reined in, and sees that the man is very tolerant of her, then the woman feels satisfied with the man's performance. At this time, the man took the opportunity to coax the woman, and the woman's heart softened all of a sudden, and the favor of the man increased a few points.

2. Woman-centered.

In love, in the face of certain things, such as women love spicy food, so they cook according to their own tastes and make it more spicy, men feel that eating chili peppers is not good, talk to women about this truth, and don't let women eat so spicy, in fact, men's opinions are good. But it is already a habit for women to eat spicy, and it is unrealistic for men to let women get rid of this habit at once, so men still have to focus on women in this matter, don't care too much, when women eat spicy food makes ** not very good, women will naturally realize the problem of eating spicy, and they will change appropriately.

It still depends on the situation, if your girlfriend is more rational, you can be reasonable, but if you are more emotional, you have to coax first and then communicate.

Don't be reasonable when you're in love, no one will listen to you.