How to tell if the other person is using themselves as a spare tire by the way two people get along?

If there is no barrier between two people when they get along, and they never hide what they say, it means that the other party does not treat themselves as a spare tire.

It mainly depends on the attitude of the other party, if the other party is happy, they will ignore you, on the contrary, when they encounter difficulties, they will ask you for help, and you are the spare tire.

See if the other party is really with you all the time, if the other party often works overtime and travels, you should observe the other party well.

If this person disappears in the middle of the night, and takes the initiative during the day, most likely they will use you as a spare tire. Everyone has something to do during the day, at this time looking for you to show that he is very idle and his lover is very busy, and at night his lover comes home from work, eats and sleeps together, and there is no spare tire at that time.

It can be seen from the details of the other party's treatment of you, if in some particularly important occasions, the other party can openly introduce you to others, it means that he really likes you, if many things he is using Qi Yuan you, it means that he just uses you as a spare tire.

If the other party can devote himself wholeheartedly to your feelings, then it proves that the other party regards you as the person who really likes Qinshou the most.

It depends on whether the other person really cares about you, not whether Zhaobi is drawing you a big pie to see if he will introduce his friends to you and let you really fit into his circle. Messy keys.

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Since you are boyfriend and girlfriend, it is time to take you to meet your parents and relatives and friends. The other party does not take you to meet your parents and relatives and friends, it means that the other party does not treat you sincerely, the other party just uses you as a spare tire, and the identity of the spare tire is very pitiful, so you must think clearly whether you are willing to be a spare tire, if you are not willing to be a spare tire, you should quickly pick out and stay away from each other directly.

If you propose to go on a date and the other person says no, if you propose to go to the movies, the other party also finds a reason to refuse, and if you propose to go on an outing, the other party says that there is no time. If you have any of the above situations, you may be used as a spare tire by others, and what to do next, I believe you know best. If two people really love each other, it is impossible for the other party to refuse all your requests, he just doesn't treat you sincerely, but just treats you as a spare tire.

If the other party treats you sincerely, they will take the initiative to ask you out, they will take the initiative to contact you, if you take the initiative to contact the other party, it means that the other party does not care about you. The other party's attitude towards you is good and bad, which also means that the other party does not value you, and it is necessary for you to have a good talk with the other party to see what the other party means. If you can establish a relationship, go ahead, and if you can't establish a relationship and the other person doesn't want to label you, stay away early.

If the other party treats you as a spare tire, they are relatively indifferent to you, and then they are not willing to waste time and energy on you, and they will generally appear when they need you.

It should be judged from some of the other party's words and behaviors, if the other party treats you as a spare tire, then they will ignore you.

If you want to judge whether the other party treats you as a spare tire, then you can see the other party's attitude towards you. If he treats you like a spare tire, then he is usually relatively cold to your words and practices, and is only good to you when he needs you, and completely different when he doesn't need you.

It is necessary to judge whether the other party is using himself as a spare tire. It's not that hard. It depends on whether the other person is willing to introduce you in front of his friends. I can make you public. can admit that you are his girlfriend. Only in this way can you not use yourself as a spare tire.

The reason why many spare tires are painful is nothing more than that they feel that there is hope for turning positive, but there is little hope. All of this is ** the goddess's hot and cold to you. If you go out to play every day during this time, the goddess feels that the relationship is getting better and better, and if you continue to play, you will come to confess again

You can look at the other party's attitude towards yourself, and you should also understand the other person's personality in life, so that you can judge.

You can look at the other party's attitude towards you, if you are looking for him, he can come over to help you immediately, it means that he attaches more importance to you.

I think you can ask the other person if he has any plans to get married, and if he doesn't, then you may be a spare tire.

The other party maintains an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex while dating you, and although you are usually by his side, he has never lacked friends of the opposite sex.

The other party treats you as a spare tire, that is, when he thinks about you, he will take the initiative to come to you, and when he doesn't want you, how can you ask her? She shirks, has no time, and doesn't want to see you, which shows that he treats you as a spare tire.

I think it's possible to take the initiative to contact when you don't take the initiative to contact, and you will take the initiative to share the basics of daily life, and then the latter is to see the confirmation of the relationship between two people.

If a man really treats you as a spare tire, then he will never take the initiative to find you, he will not take the initiative to chat with you, he will not take the initiative to ask you out, and he will not have too much physical contact with you. And if you take the initiative, he will never refuse or reject, but because he doesn't have you in his heart, he will never take the initiative to come to you.

Do some tests to see if he has any other ambiguous objects, or if his attitude towards you is the same as his real personality. So you know what his purpose is, and know if he is using you as a spare tire.

Every time I ask someone to ask someone else, if someone else has something to do, I will think of asking you out to play. If you don't agree, you will just shake your face and show that you are unhappy. When you ask her out, you always have all kinds of excuses.

If he (she) can reply to your messages as soon as possible at all times, and will not delay doing anything, and will open up when he is with you, this is probably really like you, not a spare tire.

If the other person looks for you when they are bored, and they don't look for you at all when they have something to do and someone to accompany them, you have to think about it when you don't have that kind of thing.

The mystery is mysterious, either it suddenly disappears, or it can't find anyone, or it's sneaking behind your back to hit **, send messages, etc., in fact, you should be able to feel the abnormal behavior.

See if he looks for you whenever he has something, usually he doesn't take the initiative to find you in terms of money, whether he is hot and cold to you, he hasn't prepared a gift for you, he always says that next time, next time, he won't take you to see his friends, because his family doesn't agree with early love, so he doesn't make it public, and your circle of friends has never mentioned you.

You have to know in your heart, don't be used as a spare tire by the other party all the time, you don't know it yet, then you will feel embarrassed.

If you want to know whether the other party uses yourself as a spare tire, it is to see if this man is positive about himself, whether he will take what he says to heart, and if he often ignores you, then he may use you as a spare tire.

If a woman treats you as a spare tire and makes you spend a lot of money or you take the initiative to spend a lot of money, but she and you are still only very shallow communication, then basically your spare tire status is solid.

If the other person is dating you and at the same time dating other people, other people of the opposite sex are dating, it means that he may be using you as a spare tire.

Ask you to keep a second reply to her text messages, **, she does reply to your message according to her mood, and will not explain the reason for not replying or replying late.

If he loves you, he will care about you, and when he is not busy, he will look for you to go shopping, watch movies, and if he is in trouble or sad, you will be the first to look for you! If he uses you as a spare tire, he will only talk to you when he is wronged!

When you have this doubt, you are most likely a spare tire.

People with this kind of problem must be addicted to long-distance relationships and can't extricate themselves, like each other, and are nervous about each other, but they don't know whether they are important in the other party's heart, and they are even more suspicious of being the other party's spare tire. If you really have such doubts, you may deeply feel that he is treating you as a spare tire, but you don't want to admit it, so you still want to ask for other people's opinions.

Many people say that in a long-distance relationship, everyone doesn't know the specific difficulties of the other party, so it is normal not to answer text messages and ** many times. But what I would say is that because it's a long-distance relationship, it's dangerous if he does it.

<> long-distance relationships require more rude-hushing effort than non-long-distance relationships. In a long-distance relationship, you can't find someone more than once, and that's a big no-no. Because you're not around, you never know what he's doing when he doesn't pick up your **, and you don't explain why afterwards.

In this case, there's a good chance you're going to be a backup. Because I don't love you, because it's a spare tire, you can change it at any time, so I'm not nervous about losing you.

If your partner isn't in a high-paying job that requires a lot of overtime, there will be free time. In his free time, he won't be in contact with you in a long-distance relationship. So what is he doing?

What activities does he use to fill his free time? The main thing is that he doesn't reveal to you what he does in his free time.

Is a lover who doesn't want you to know about his activities or more personal aftermath a good lover? The person who really loves you hopes that you have a sense of security, just because of a long-distance relationship, I am afraid that you will think too much, and will take the initiative to report his itinerary, I hope you know more about him, tell you more about his usual life, let you know, so that you can understand him more. If you are in a long-distance relationship with him, and you don't know what he is doing in his free time, this kind of relationship is not easy to get distracted and easy to become his backup.

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When I am lonely, I think of you and connect with you. When there is a company, I put you aside, and I will not empathize with your feelings, because you are just a spare tire. When the spare tire is very tired, often only their own pay, I believe that this kind of pay is short, just work hard, there is a good saying, love him seven points to know enough, leave three points to love yourself.

If you have a spare tire, you typically talk a lot and do less loose rolling. I don't want to pay too much, it's a pity to leave you behind, and it's redundant not to leave you.

Sometimes you need his help, and the number of times you reject you is relatively or more than that of people who are in a normal relationship, and some of the reasons for refusing to cultivate you are simply unreasonable.

Men think that they like the type, they don't want to be influenced by other people's words and deeds, and women have a strong herd mentality, and it is easy to be "infected" by other people's words and deeds After meeting men, if they like each other, there will be loving behaviors (care, shh Of course, doing so before marriage does not rise to the level of moral criticism. The ultimate good woman or good man is very scarce, and there is no fish when the water is clear, just like the sentence whose new love is not someone else's old love, very sad and helpless, but this is the reality.

Of course, if you are in a marriage, this behavior can be understood as betraying the suspect, because it is only a matter of time before the betrayal develops. I hope you will do your best and cherish it. If he knows that you want to fall in love, but he just doesn't explicitly reject you or accept you, but still keeps a simple greeting with you.

That means that he hasn't thought about it yet, or just wants to understand it again, if this is the case, I personally don't think it's a spare tire, unless he doesn't reject you and doesn't accept you, but he keeps caring about you and asking for warmth, or even engaging in ambiguity to give you hope. That's the obvious when the spare tire. This kind of behavior of a man is quite unbearable for women, and every day they think about what this person means, similar to lust and indulgence, which makes you have more mood swings, more energy invested in him, more curiosity about him, and more harm.

If he loves you, he will definitely care for you, care more about you, and even treat you better than himself. In the case of a spare tire, it is typical to say more and do less. I don't want to pay too much, it's a pity to leave you behind, and it's redundant not to leave you.

Sometimes you need his help, and the number of times you reject you is more than that of people who are in a normal relationship, and some reasons for rejection are simply unreasonable. It's hard to judge. Men love because of sex, people who like you want you, and people who don't really like you want you too.

People who like you not only like your people but also your heart, while a spare tire only loves your people (body).

In fact, if you look at the other party's attitude, you can judge that if the other party cares about yourself very much, you must regard yourself as a loved one, but if you show a particularly casual way to do things and yell, it is a spare tire, I think you must distinguish clearly, don't be a spare tire for others.