The nature of success and failure in the psychology of success

The so-called success in the world is a kind of physical pleasure that arises when desires are satisfied. The so-called failure in the world is a kind of physical suffering that arises when desires are not satisfied. Because of habits, people will cling to pleasure and not let go.

Because of habits, people will strongly reject suffering. Grasping and repelling are attachments. However, everything is impermanent.

Suffering and happiness will disappear. Once the pleasure is gone, the desire to pursue that pleasure rises again. Once the suffering is gone, the desire to avoid that suffering arises.

A new round of struggle has begun. This cycle has created countless so-called "successes" and "failures". Foolish people fail to see the essence of success and failure, and become slaves.

There is an inexhaustible treasure in everyone's heart, and the world is like a beggar begging for food with a golden rice bowl. It is not surprising that a person becomes a nation's **. And it would be a very rare thing for a person to extinguish suffering.

Failure is the ladder to success, because it is impossible to succeed without the lessons of failure, without the accumulation of experience after failure, and without the confidence to make a comeback after failure. People have to learn to walk, and they have to learn to wrestle. And only after wrestling can you learn to walk.

For some, the challenge can be a daunting burden.

We now see the challenge as a long-term, far-reaching threat that is beyond our control. Every tomorrow is hope. No matter what adversity you find yourself in, you should not despair, because there are many tomorrows ahead.

Optimistic people, still full of hope in the midst of despair; Pessimistic people are still hopeless or hopeless.

Failure is the mother of success, and in order to achieve success, you must first learn to fail. As long as you keep knocking on the door, the door to success will always open. Failure is often the prelude to success, as long as we face it normally, one day we will shake hands with success, in fact, the biggest failure in life is not unsuccessful, but bow your head in the face of failure!

Successes and failures

People have a tendency to avoid failure.

People who aspire to success are not uncommon, but there are only a handful of real successes.

Some people have failed a lot in their lives, and some people have succeeded first and then failed.

It is even rarer to be able to grasp the overall situation and make success the keynote of their lives.

Success here does not mean success at that time, success here does not mean success there, and sometimes even this success can be the reason for failure the next time.

、...... their own goals are too ambitious, the external environment is too sinister, and the personnel relationship is too complicatedAll of this is the difference between success and failure.

However, it is impossible to ignore the fact that many successful people, with more ambitious goals in life, facing more dangerous circumstances, and maneuvering in more complex human relationships, have still persevered and passed the test to the glory of success.

On the contrary, those who have failed to achieve even a small goal have been faced with many great opportunities that others could not have dreamed of.

The same encounter, spread on different people, the results are very different.

It can be seen that the most important factor that determines success is not the outside world, but oneself. Limb Strike.

And my own problem is nothing more than a question of how to face life, opportunities, and success or failure.

Blaming failure on chance, blaming the outside world, and complaining about the injustice of creation is a shortcut to psychological balance.

It is true that creation has its injustices because it is not designed according to our desires and needs.

However, this is not always the case.

If you fail, you should think more about what problems exist in your own body and what inevitable factors lead to your failure.

If you don't look for the reason for your failure from yourself, and blindly complain about others, it is tantamount to asking for fish from the wood.

There are two disadvantages of complaining about others, one is that it is easy to shirk one's responsibilities and develop a bad habit of refusing to introspect; Another disadvantage is that it is easy to force yourself into a vicious circle of fate, and too many "I will fail" psychological hints will inevitably make you give up on yourself.

Think about it, no matter how bad the opportunity is, the reason for your dishonesty can be found in you.

If there is a situation where one of your failures is completely caused by accidental factors, it proves that you have not failed at all, you might as well put down your hands and smile slightly, anyway, you have tried your best, although you are still honored.

Instead of wallowing in complaining, it is better to act now and change yourself to meet the next fight.

Chewing failure and ruminating failure are not a substitute for success, but it can avoid all kinds of failures that may arise later, and it is the starting point of success.

With a good mindset in the face of failure, you have succeeded most of the time.

It's just that after the success of the brothers, you must keep a clear head, don't take success too seriously, don't think too highly of yourself, although your success has the inevitability of personal struggle, but it also contains a lot of accidents.

Because your life is meant to be an accident!

This kind of psychology is called attribution theory in psychology.

In other words, people are always accustomed to explaining everything from a subjective point of view, without looking at whether the explanation is reasonable. Psychologists have found that most people are biased when it comes to judging their own failures and mistakes. We are accustomed to attributing both self-conscious failure and the success of others to external factors; I failed, it wasn't my fault, he succeeded, it was his luck.

In a nutshell, attribution theory means that success belongs to oneself and failure to the environment.

Basic attribution error: the tendency to overestimate intrinsic personality factors and underestimate situational factors when explaining the reasons for someone else's behavior.

It should be because there is defeat that victory is meaningful, and therefore defeat is the soul of victory.

Failure is the mother of success, and in a sense, failure will cook for success!

Failure is one step closer to success.

Failure is the mother of success. Success is achieved through countless failures, and behind each success is full of countless hardships and hardships. The biggest difference between success and failure is that the winner is king, and the loser is the villain.