Boyfriend vs studying abroad, which one should I choose, I hope you will give some opinions

Updated on society 2024-02-09
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time and distance are the only criteria to test true love, if he really loves you, he will understand you, support you, and wait for you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you love him very much, you can choose to study in Japan, but do you have to choose to go to Singapore?

    I think going to Singapore can also be a test of love for the two of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, although I knew that I might get hurt later, I would also stay because love is blind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't study abroad, I hate studying abroad, so my beloved girlfriend went to study abroad and let me go three autumns a day.

    In China, if you want to learn, will it be worse than foreign countries, what a country with cultural background in China, if you can't learn well in China, you can do it in foreign countries!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then it depends on his place in your heart. And what are your academic pursuits, and do you think your degree is important to you or is your husband important to you? What is the purpose of your study abroad? If it were me, I would choose to stay.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't change your future for a man until you're 25 years old.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go study abroad and your boyfriend will cheat on you, but your degree won't.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's study abroad. Time apart can hone your relationship.

    If you truly love, you will be happy in the end.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, if you go to study abroad, you leave him because of studying abroad is not considered a betrayal, dignified, some people say that this idea is selfish, so if you stay because of your boyfriend, isn't he selfish? Also, why don't you talk about your parents, if you are willing to leave your parents, what is there to be reluctant in love!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can't have it both ways, if you're going to stay for love, be prepared to never regret it, go to study abroad, at least you won't have nothing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's another life choice.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Therefore, you should choose to study abroad and choose the opportunity for your own development. Because, only what is in your own hands is truly reliable and truly unchanging, especially for women.

    And you have to think about it, your boyfriend has the experience of studying abroad, even if he returns to China to develop, you get married. But according to common sense, you are no longer on the same starting line, and your outlook on life and values will not be the same, so will you be happy? Would you have gotten married every time you had an argument or conflict with him, and didn't choose to study abroad in the first place?

    Think for yourself, the outside world is helpless, but it's really exciting.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If he stays in Japan for a few years, even if you don't go to Singapore, he has no reason to hold you back, it is better to go to Singapore, not everyone has the opportunity to study abroad.

    If he comes back soon, you can consider whether the relationship is important or the future career is important.

    Remember, you can wait for him, and he will be willing to wait for you, feelings are equal, but also to pay, for the sake of the other party's future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can only ask yourself

    If you think which of the two is more important to you, choose whomever you choose.

    But you can't regret your choice

    Wishing you happiness no matter what

    My boyfriend was also going to Australia, and he was thinking about it, but he was a man who had nothing to do about his future

    I understand very well that as long as two people love each other, no matter how far away it is, it is not a problem, and besides, you are still young, it doesn't matter if you wait a few years, you can stand the test by experiencing a little more affection

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hehe, anyway, if you study abroad, you will definitely get points

    If you cherish this relationship, then don't go out, if you think I'm so-called, then it doesn't matter

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's hard to talk about the feelings of studying abroad, but the career is always your own.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your boyfriend is too selfish, why is it okay for the two of them to be separated if he is studying in Japan, but not if you are in Singapore.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Study abroad, if he really loves you, it should understand you, understand you, and support you!! Don't let your children's affection affect your future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People can't control it, but their own path is under their own feet, who can guarantee what people are now? Don't be stupid.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Study Abroad Choose what you can control.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In my opinion, I think you should continue your education, because you can only say no when knowledge becomes your own, do you understand what I mean? Furthermore, we must know how to grasp the opportunity, everything will change in the future...Finally, I would like to say down to the selfish!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on which one you value more, everyone is different, if you value your feelings and stay, your boyfriend will also be moved...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Study abroad ......

    Selfish man, ......

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you really don't want to break up, don't study abroad.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Boyfriends are everywhere, and time waits for no one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This is really uncertain ( o ) Oh said to go to school in other places. But at least in China, I still feel closer, and you can go to each other's place to play after a holiday or something. But abroad for five years.

    God knows what will happen in the next five years, and it's not unreasonable for your friends to think about your feelings. If you want, it's not hard to wait, as long as he comes back in 5 years and the result is as you wish. You can try to talk to him.

    If it's really fateful, you will still be together when he comes back.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Who can guarantee you with him, after all, it is five years, how can the variables be **, now he says that he can guarantee, but a year, two years later, love is not insurance, what is left is pain, can only be said to go with the flow, if you are more realistic, then I mind if you still divide it, this ** is too risky, 50% of the chance, for women can not afford to lose, if you are more emotional, then you can bet on it, if you don't bet you will definitely not be able to let go, even if you lose, you will die, But the price is too high.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    ...My boyfriend is going to school out of town.

    Some people are suitable for long-distance relationships.

    How to say it. You have to trust it fully, haven't you experienced a lot of things, and if you really love each other, this kind of difficulty is nothing.

    It's good to keep in touch with each other on the Internet.

    Both of them are very single-minded, so what are you worried about.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I basically agree with the first floor You should talk to him and tell him Five years is not a short period of time There are too many uncertainties We don't know what will happen in the next moment But since you love each other and you are both single-minded people It can be seen from the beginning of his concealment of you and the current confession You don't have to mind too much about what others say After all, it's your own business As the first floor said Slowly get used to it It's impossible not to contact you when you go abroad I believe you will find a solution I wish you two happiness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Nothing will change in 5 years, you will wait for him silently, maybe he is also waiting for you, or maybe he can't bear loneliness alone, 5 years Do you think that distance will produce deeper love, or distance will produce distance, or maybe 1 year and 2 years will wait for 3 years and 4 years, and there will be no other people around you, and some things will not change when they are said... You can wait for him, but in these 5 years you may also change, and time will tell.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Time will give you the answer, it's better to love it to the fullest.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It depends. Don't make a promise for 5 years as soon as you say it...That's a long time.

    It's hard to believe. 5 years is a bit too long.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Be sure of your heart, love him or not. And then firm.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hehe, then you first tell him that you try your best, and then slowly get used to it for a while, and if one of the two can't do it, break up.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Trust your own vision, trust your feelings, and give each other a chance.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    A long-distance relationship requires a lot of patience and perseverance, as long as the relationship is deep, this is not a problem, take it one step at a time, there is no need to make a decision so early.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Accept all possible changes with a good vision.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You don't have to worry about it, in fact, if he wants to go abroad, your opinion can't decide anything, he should still go out, and if the family supports it, other people's opinions are meaningless. I advise you to think about it, it will take a few years for your boyfriend to go abroad, the changes in people abroad are very amazing, it is difficult to say whether you can walk together, girl, be careful, people are very lonely abroad, especially if there are no relatives, there is no family affection, people are easy to use love to numb themselves. Moreover, you hope that he will have a future in the future, but it is difficult to say whether he will go down with you in the future, so in fact, you don't need to contradict it.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Your teacher is right! Anywhere, as long as you study well, you can't go wrong!

    But the question is, can you study hard and learn the top?

    The economic conditions of the family are average, if the grades are also average, I recommend studying for a master's degree in the UK, a master's degree plus a master's degree, a total of two years, tuition and living expenses are almost 500,000 yuan, and I work by myself, saving 100,000 yuan is still about the same.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I can only say that your teacher is fooling, if you go abroad so well, how many students will come out. If your family is generally a family, you can only rely on public funds, so you can ask your school if there is public funding.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's better to go to Australia or the United Kingdom, and there are some things you don't know clearly, are you IELTS or TOEFL? You are from that school, it all has to do with the school you can go to, if you are not 76-77, you have to go out to a second-rate university, you can go out and find a first-class university to study, if you have any questions, you can ask me, mine.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If the average score is not 80, it is basically impossible to go to a slightly better university, like those prestigious schools require a score of 85 or more.

    Which country to go to shouldn't let netizens give you ideas, you have to ask yourself, where do you want to go? Where can you go? If you really don't know or don't understand, you can go to a reputable education agency for a free consultation.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Now that the financial crisis is in place, it is most appropriate to study in the United States, where tuition fees are greatly reduced, which is better.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You can take a look at the Australian International Study Abroad Network, the teachers there are very professional, and the service attitude is also very good, you can consult it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You should first think about what major you want to study. Then think about the school. And do you have any requirements for the places you want to go abroad? ~

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Landlord, hello, studying abroad can increase knowledge, expand horizons, should be a good idea, I don't know which country the landlord is going to go to, I think the landlord recommends going abroad 78, I hope the landlord can refer to it, help you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Forget the girl's words, I'm too tired.

    If you are a boy, you can spell the top 100 in the United States, and there is still hope It is not just a graduate, mainly depending on your work experience The more famous the company, the easier it is to apply for scholarships.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Accounting is a major in the United States, and almost all universities and community colleges offer it

    But applying is a very delicate thing, and it doesn't just depend on your undergraduate grades

    If you apply seriously (recommendation letters, PS, resume, TOEFL and GRE are all good), the top 100 of the whole prize is definitely no problem, and even the top 50 is very likely, but you need to be more prepared

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Break up, there's nothing to say, who made you have to go abroad, from another perspective, who let him go out with a scholarship without the ability?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Girl! Think about it yourself, is this man really worth your hard-earned money to him?

    But whoever has a little backbone, no matter how poor he is, he will not ask for a woman's money.

    You have to be careful yourself, and be careful of both people and money.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Gosh, the web is all about it. I advise you best.

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