How do I get my boyfriend to live in my house? Let parents accept us to live together?

Updated on parenting 2024-02-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's easy, I'll teach my girlfriend how to do it!

    Since we are all about to get married, it is not a big deal to live together, the most direct, but the most effective way is.

    It's late at your house, and then he says he's leaving, you say don't go, he can't stop it, there's time, and then you say, it's so late that you can stay here, he said okay, then I'll go to the study to sleep, call me early tomorrow, I have something to do! Then you said, don't go to the study, come to my room, I want to ask you something, he said, how bad is that (that's what it means) I'll go to the study, talk about it tomorrow, and then you get angry, love to go, tomorrow I don't like to talk about it, and then he pretended to coax you and say, okay, okay, then I'm sleepy and go to the study, and then I went, after waking up, let him be like his own home, eat some food and go out, and it will be much more convenient to come back next time.

    Of course, after he leaves, your mother will ask you some questions, and you can say whatever you want, and when you grow up and understand, there is no need to talk so much nonsense. ~!

    This trick works, I teach my object.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell your parents directly, if you want to get married, you have to get your parents' consent, I'll tell you a good way, find a rainy day, the kind that is extraordinarily big, and then say that he can't go back, it's natural to live in your house, and your parents are embarrassed to pick him up, haha, I'm too.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What about love, it's not cohabitation to reflect love, I hope LZ can hold back, because if you still have a long time to get married, just live together, obviously everything that should have happened has happened, and the man will feel tired, believe me, I feel this way, I hope marriage can give you a guarantee.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hehe! I'm about to get married, it's nothing in 10 days and 20, I'm about to get married and now I want to have a cave room, I don't think your mother will agree, I'm afraid that others will say.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Communicate well with your parents and share your own thoughts, I think maybe you will accept it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Go out and rent it yourself.

    I really don't want to, use your hands, bear with me, and the thousand-year-old daughter-in-law will become a mother-in-law, Amitabha.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you have the ability, you can rent a house by yourself

    It's too loud to come back, how embarrassing it is for your parents to hear it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's best to refuse directly, the reason can be that it's still in a relationship, I'm not ready to meet your parents, and when I think I'm ready, I'll go home with you, and I don't know how to tell my parents, and after the relationship between us is confirmed, it's not too late to go.

    Love should have a distance

    Two people in a relationship should definitely keep their distance, and there is distance to be attractive, especially between lovers. Being too close or too heart-to-heart will make the other party feel that your dependence and closeness are too cheap, and that you are too easily conquered, which will reduce the degree of attention.

    As the saying goes, "the more you can't get, the more you cherish", and keeping a proper distance can stimulate his enthusiasm and desire to conquer. Both lovers and couples should keep a healthy distance, each person is an independent individual, and they should have their own private space, so leaving each other free space will help to enhance the relationship.

    If the two parties are too close, the novelty will disappear. Presumably, everyone's love will go through such a process from vigorous to plain. In fact, this process is unavoidable, as long as we enter the marriage, after a long time, both parties will slowly change from lovers to relatives, and the relationship will become bland and warm.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    According to the thinking of most Chinese men, tell him directly, you do not accept premarital sex, and you have no intention of living together. Women don't hand themselves over easily, once they hand it over, it's worthless, your boyfriend will look down on you, thinking that you are a very casual person, you can sleep with anyone at will, he is cheap and obedient, you must remain reserved.

    Living together, eating, drinking, and Lazar can see, during the relationship, I still want to retain a little sense of distance, distance produces beauty, and living together has to face a lot of trivial things, I am afraid that living together too many trivial things will consume the feelings of two people, I am not ready to live together, I want to maintain this relationship first, feel the beauty of love, and now I don't want to live together.

    If you reach the age of talking about marriage, there is nothing unacceptable, now many female friends choose to live together before marriage, but the premise is to see if you can accept it, whether your parents can accept it, if you can't accept it, you can politely refuse, make it clear to your boyfriend, generally your boyfriend invites you to live in his house to prove that he wants to live with you, of course, whether you love you or not, you can feel this kind of thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you're not married, it's not advisable for your parents to stay overnight at your boyfriend's house, and if it's really necessary, it's best to find them a hotel outside.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, don't try to convince your father Duan Shen's mother, and don't live at your boyfriend's house, such a quarrel lowers your value of holding and respecting, and it is you who suffers. If you want to live on your own, you can consider buying or renting a house.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. There are two views on cohabitation before marriage, the first view is that it is normal for us to live with him and not know what his real life looks like, but the second view is that the older generation thinks that cohabitation is a very inappropriate behavior, that is, it is not good for girls.

    Let not let your parents know that you are living with your boyfriend.

    There are two views on cohabitation before marriage, the first view is that it is normal for us to live with him and not know what his real life looks like, but the second view is that the older generation thinks that cohabitation is a very inappropriate behavior, that is, it is not good for girls.

    Depending on the character of your parents. You can think about it all.

    If your parents are just peaceful and open-minded, then you can tell them, and you don't have to tell them otherwise.

    They are very open in some aspects of their personalities, but my father's personality is not very good.

    Then you have to think about it. Because the parents just said that they would not accept it under normal circumstances.

    Well, right. But I don't want to hide it from them anymore, they know we're dating, and we've been together for over four years, and by now, we're both 21.

    Then you can try to be tactful to get them to accept it slowly, and tell them tactfully, don't say it directly, if that's the case.

    Well, good. Uh-huh.

    I've decided to tell them about it tomorrow. Good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Hello, pity the parents of the world, generally parents will not agree to their strange boy living with you in a similar situation, you have to understand their good intentions. I suggest you take your boyfriend home if possible and get in touch with your parents, first of all, to get them to know your boyfriend.

    How to get parents to agree to live with your boyfriend.

    Hello, pity the parents of the world, generally parents will not agree to their strange boy living with you in a similar situation, you have to understand their good intentions. I suggest you take your boyfriend home if possible and get in touch with your parents, first of all, to get them to know your boyfriend.

    I've been engaged to get a license, but I haven't done a ceremony.

    Generally, traditional parents will refuse, and promoting feelings does not have to be solved by cohabitation. Parents also need to understand their intentions, can you understand what I mean?

    I know, but my boyfriend can't do it, and I'm in a dilemma.

    Parents will certainly insist on their opinions, and you can also go on a short period of cohabitation and don't let your parents know.

    We're in the same city, and we're only a five-minute drive away, so if I don't go home, my parents will call me.

    You have to properly control your desires, you two have already achieved positive results, don't offend your parents for the sake of momentary thoughts, do you understand what I mean?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think couples living together should inform their parents. First of all, I think cohabitation is a serious thing. Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, but it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of the relationship, if you decide to live together after serious consideration, please be sure to tell your parents, first test your parents, tell your friends about the cohabitation of your friends, or listen to your parents' opinions on cohabitation.

    If your parents approve of the couple's cohabitation, congratulations, you can talk less, but if your parents don't agree with that, don't contradict your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in the world, slowly infiltrate in daily life, and let your boyfriend be good to you, so that your parents slowly accept.

    In modern life, men and women are basically unmarried and live together, they want to start a family with each other, and think that living with each other is more free than living with their parents, or they regret that for other reasons, they are all rushing to get married anyway, and sooner or later they don't have to care, and they can make each other's lives more comfortable, and men and women naturally walk together.

    If you decide to live together, you must first make certain mental preparations. 1. The shortcomings of the other party will become more dusty in cohabitation life, because two people live together, they can't be as casual as one person's life, and they must consider all kinds of unaccustomed in life, so they must learn to see all the shortcomings of each other, and how to accept each other to adjust the rhythm of life.

    2. Keep your own privacy and respect the privacy of the other party. In a sense, cohabitation is to look at yourself and the other party, in fact, exposing your privacy too much will not only not make the other party feel fresh, but also treat the other party's privacy too much, and you will make the other party feel suffocated.

    3. Cohabitation is not marriage, there is no need to share finances, cohabitation is to let the other party understand themselves, and they can understand each other, but cohabitation is not marital intimacy, nor is it shared economically, so as to reduce unnecessary contradictions.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can tell that life is given by your parents, that you are responsible for yourself and your parents, and that your boyfriend will not necessarily be responsible for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, it depends on how old you are, and it doesn't matter if you can be independent.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Anyway, you'll regret it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think you still have to think carefully, after all, there are too many scumbags now, you have to think clearly about the consequences of cohabitation, as long as you think you can, you can do it, other people's opinions are just a round shed reference, you must think clearly.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    <> love is not uncommon in today's society, and parents will not object to it as an adult in love, but I think that as a woman, you should consider it carefully, and if you have decided to live together, it is necessary to tell your parents about it. Let parents have a preparation.

    Parents are from the past, and some opinions parents have high-quality advice as children, after all, they have not experienced some storms and waves. It is inevitable that there will be a deviant attitude emotionally, Although it is not illegal to live with Wang Laoqing, as a girl, the most important thing is to know how to protect yourself, and you can also listen to some suggestions from your parents and consider carefully before making a decision.

    First of all, cohabitation is actually bad for girls. I'm not against you. in the emotional.

    At its peak, you choose to live together. Since you are living together, I think you should bring up the marriage itinerary and set a specific date to legitimize your relationship. Relationship.

    Long-term cohabitation is actually not fresh for people who are in love, and it may deepen the disgust between you after a long time.

    There are some men and women around me who live together for a long time, and after a long time, the boy has some disgusting thoughts, and he will not enter into marriage after separating from the girl. If you don't have the idea of getting married, just cohabiting. Then I don't think it matters.

    If you want this relationship to be stable for a long time, then marriage is the most reliable way. Cohabitation can also lead to unplanned pregnancies for girls with fingers. The physical damage to a girl from a miscarriage is very great. It is irreparable for life.

    After living together, you can find each other's shortcomings. It is equivalent to you entering the stage of getting along in the marriage mode. Before getting the certificate, these bad problems were exposed in front of the other party, and there was a performance of seeing through the other party, and the boy could leave at any time, but for the girl, he accepted the mental and physical damage.

    It's a heavy burden.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think couples living together should inform their parents, even if the parents do not agree, they still have the right to know the behavior of their children. It is a sign of respect for the parents and a sign of respect for the relationship between the cohabiting couples.

    In the consciousness of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will move towards marriage in the future, which is equivalent to a trial marriage. And in today's young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome. This gap in consciousness will not only affect the communication between parents and children, but may also affect the direction of the relationship between couples.

    When feelings are hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions. In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, when two people have a certain understanding of each other, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits. If you still decide to live together after you have thought about it, be sure to tell your parents first.

    You can choose to talk to your parents tentatively, talk about the cases of friends living together, and listen to your parents' views on living together as a couple. If your parents agree with the couple's cohabitation, then congratulations, you can spend a lot less words, but if your parents disagree with this matter, don't quarrel with your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in the world, you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and good things for you in your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and wait until the time is right to tell your parents about it.

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