My boyfriend always likes to have a cold war with me, but I hate him like this, what should I do?

I can give you two choices, the first is to be decisive, since your boyfriend always has a cold war with you, then you just break up with your boyfriend, so that no one will have a cold war with you from time to time in the future, and your life will be pure. There is another kind of thing that you directly tell your boyfriend about the problems between you, what is there between couples that you can't say, you say that your boyfriend doesn't change it's your boyfriend's problem, but you don't say it's your problem.

First of all, let's talk about the first one, which is that you and your boyfriend break up decisively. Isn't falling in love just hoping to find a boyfriend who can support you no matter what happens, and is willing to tolerate yourself when you have a little temper? Anyway, I want to find a boyfriend like this, then your boyfriend is like a girl, always loves to have a cold war with you, what use do you want him to have such a boyfriend, it's time to divide it, you're all free.

The second is that you really like your boyfriend, so it's unrealistic to want you to break up. Because you are willing to give up a lot of your own things for your boyfriend, how can you think that such a thing will give up your love.

Since you are reluctant to give up your love, then you have to clearly tell your boyfriend that you don't like your boyfriend. I'm sure your boyfriend also knows that if something goes wrong between you, you have to fix it. You have to clearly tell your boyfriend that he should believe in you enough, only then can your relationship develop more smoothly.

The above is my suggestion, I believe that emotional matters are clear to the authorities and bystanders. The advice I offer from the perspective of a bystander is the fairest.

In response to this phenomenon, I think you should have a communication with your boyfriend, you can tell him what you think, you don't like him to have a cold war with you when you quarrel, you tell him what you like, you can say anything, and after saying that, the two of us will be reconciled as before, there are many times, you just want to get a comfort from him, instead of a cold war when you quarrel and no one will talk to anyone, which makes you feel very uneasy.

Then, you have to tell him that your relationship needs two people to run together, don't always rely on you to pay alone, it won't last long, and one more thing, I think you also have to think about yourself There is nothing wrong with yourself, your boyfriend loves cold war, is it because you are angry and always can't listen to what others say, so don't always blame your boyfriend. <>

In the end, I think you can look at this from the perspective of both parties, tell your boyfriend what you really think in your heart, what you like, what you don't like, what he does that will make you annoying, and say it directly, which will be more helpful to your relationship.

During the eleventh holiday, my husband and I went back to his hometown, met a few of his children, and we had dinner together. During the dinner, everyone complained that my husband has a bad personality, he likes to have a cold war with others, as long as he is angry, he will ignore others, and his facial expression is very bad, frowning and pouting, which makes people very uncomfortable.

You say you have a problem, you say it, why are you doing such a cold war? But that's his character, and it's really hard to change.

My husband and I almost broke up because of his indifference to me. Later, because his friend told me that he and my husband broke up because of some things, and after a few years, he took the initiative to find my husband and reconcile. So, you know, it shows that my husband is still very good.

Otherwise, a man won't take the initiative to bow his head and find my husband to repair the friendship again!

So, your boyfriend loves the cold war, and his personality is really very bad. But this does not affect that he is a very good person, does not affect that he is a responsible and responsible person, does not affect that he is a good man, does not affect that he is a boyfriend and future husband who can be relied on.

So don't always feel how annoying your boyfriend is, he must have a lot of good qualities in him, otherwise you won't fall in love with him, be with him!

If you can appreciate the good things in your husband, but you can't tolerate his cold war and his bad temper, then you need to adjust yourself, if you can't accept such a him, if you think he is really annoying. Then break up with him early! Don't embarrass yourself and don't let yourself miss out on the opportunity to get along with others.

Finally, I wish you all the best and happiness.

You can tell your boyfriend that if there is a problem, just open the skylight and say something bright, don't force people to compromise in the Cold War, and tell him that if there is a problem, solve the problem directly. I'm sure he'll consider your suggestion.

Boyfriend and girlfriend are the most taboo cold war, and after your boyfriend is angry, the two of you find an opportunity to talk openly and honestly, tell him what you think, you hope he can change after every fight, and tell him how you want him to be (a little change).

Two people have a good talk!

I think you can communicate well with him, you can tolerate each other normally, if you really quarrel, then you must calm down, and then communicate well to solve the problem.

I also think you should make it clear to him, you hate him like this, you have to learn to communicate, only you know, others don't know, and you are still worried about yourself.

If it were me, I would have said to him directly, I don't like to have a cold war with you like this, let's do it!

Personally, I don't think it's that he doesn't love much, but he doesn't love enough, or that his personality problems cause him to not like to express his dissatisfaction directly.

1. It's not that you don't love, it's just that you don't love enough

If two people can enter a relationship, there must be some excitement and liking. But this excitement and liking vary from person to person, and it is not the same. Just as boys often have a cold war with girls, they can't be one-sided that they don't love him, maybe it's just that this love is not so much compared to girls.

He has become accustomed to the other party's efforts and the other party's initiative to seek peace, so he is always self-centered, even if he knows that the cold war will make the other party feel sad and sad, he still wants to solve the problem in this way. In fact, I personally think that if your boyfriend always behaves like this, don't get used to him, or let yourself be tougher and solve the problem in another way. After all, the Cold War not only failed to really solve the problem, but also kept itself in constant fear and insecurity.

Second, personality problems cause him to not like to express and vent

Of course, there is also a possibility that the boy's personality problem causes him to only use his own cold war method to express his dissatisfaction when dealing with problems, rather than directly venting. For example, I have a boy friend who doesn't like to talk and rarely gets angry, so when he is very upset, he likes to use this cold war to inform others of his emotions. Maybe he himself feels that this way of always colding others is not good, but it is difficult to change.

All in all, when you meet your boyfriend who loves a cold war, you still have to tell whether he doesn't love you enough or is caused by a simple personality problem. As long as we find the root cause of the problem, we can better solve the problem. At the same time, girls should also learn to express their emotions and directly inform boys that they cannot accept the cold war.

I believe that if he still cares about you, he will definitely learn to communicate with you normally and deal with problems.

He really just doesn't love you, because a person who really loves you is not willing to have a cold war with you at all, and I suggest you leave this person as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will be even more miserable in the future.

I think it is possible that he really doesn't love you, because if he really loves you, he will not be willing to fight with you, and he will apologize to you first.

Yes, because your boyfriend is very indifferent to you and is unwilling to coax you and communicate with you, he doesn't love you.

If you're the kind of person who has feelings, then I don't know. You can try to communicate, and you can probably feel the attitude of the other party.

I think of a sentence, quarrel is two people trying to find a way to be together, the cold war is to adapt to life without each other, he takes the cold war against you in disguise and gives you the time and opportunity to reconsider the relationship, calm down and think clearly that you will naturally know what to do, love him and take the initiative to contact him if he can bear everything, and don't complain about anything later, because you are completely to what you want, if you feel unacceptable and understandable, then not delaying each other is the best choice, and there is nothing to regret.

Generally, ignoring the other party for more than a day is cold violence. And the man knows very well that his cold violence is not good, and he also understands that at this moment, the girl is psychologically sad, he may want to be quiet for a while, and he wants to calm down and think about it. Maybe the starting point of this behavior is not malicious, but there are often men in love who have cold and violent behaviors, and their personality traits are more selfish, once there are twice, once for one hour, three hours, one day, three days, or even ten days.

The starting point for this pattern of behavior must not be love.

Girls who are in love for love should pay attention and understand that this is absolute, it must be disrespectful to you.

You can break up with such a boyfriend, because the cold war is the most undesirable way to deal with it, and there is such a behavior as the cold war, which means that the boyfriend does not particularly value you.

You should also have a cold war with your boyfriend and let him feel how you used to feel, if he doesn't mind. I believe that your relationship has come to an end, and the two of you can break up.

First of all, your boyfriend is primarily responsible for this matter. He as a man needs to take on this responsibility and obligation to be good to you. When the Cold War broke out, he should take the initiative to solve this problem.

But it also depends on what is the reason for the emergence of the Cold War, is it your problem? If you're also at fault. You need to take the initiative to apologize and make amends. After all, both sides need to be understood and tolerated.

When your boyfriend is in a cold war with you, you decide to show your 100% enthusiasm. When a particularly cold person sees this kind of enthusiasm, he will instantly be unable to hold back. So. As long as you don't continue the cold war with him, the relationship between the two will be the same as before.

When a boy often has a cold war with you, then you play a scoundrel with him, and if he doesn't talk to you, you will bombard him indiscriminately, until he reluctantly replies to you, only one party lowers his head first and talks to the other party, so this feeling will not disappear from the cold war, so sometimes girls can take out their level of playing scoundrels to deal with his cold war.

You can communicate well with your boyfriend, don't let your boyfriend often cold war with you, because when the two of you are cold, you will also destroy your relationship, so have a good communication with your boyfriend.

I think when two people have a conflict, the best way to solve the problem is for two people to sit together and talk about their thoughts, it shouldn't happen for a long time, this kind of cold war can't solve the problem with this method, so you have to make changes and ask the other party to change.

Your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, so you should take the initiative to find your boyfriend to solve the problem, because if you are cold, it will lead to a breakup, so you must become the one who takes the initiative to communicate.

Your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, which means that he is not mature enough in this relationship, and he will only be willful, and I think if he continues like this, it will be very tiring to fall in love with him.

When you encounter such a thing, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, because the cold war in a relationship can easily break people's feelings. If two people encounter a problem, it should be solved in time to avoid the situation of the Cold War.

If your boyfriend often has a cold war with you, then you respond to his cold war in the way you play a scoundrel, doesn't he not talk to you? Then you just bombard him and talk to him, and I think he will definitely get back to you, and you will get a great sense of comfort in your heart, and you will feel very happy and relieved.

Adopt the way that the enemy does not move and I do not move, don't feel anxious, whoever is in a hurry first will lose? And you should think clearly, if you continue to get along with him, then it will be like this after marriage, and it will be like this after having children, and how painful you will be at that time.

When he is in a cold war with you, you should not ignore him, let him realize his mistakes, and take the initiative to talk to you, so that he may change his behavior.

Of course, it is to make your thoughts clear to the other party, and the Cold War is actually a very hurtful thing, so you can clearly tell the other party whether you don't want to go through it.

In such a situation, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, and when the two parties quarrel, you should take the initiative to apologize and try not to have a cold war.

This kind of boyfriend who is violent in Salam at every turn? Do you still keep him for the New Year? Break up early, because guys who really love you won't treat you like this!