How to overcome the problem of girls not daring to speak in public

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You tell her that you are also a human being, and others are also human beings, and there is nothing to be afraid of. People can talk, you can too, you don't have to be afraid or nervous, what does it matter if you make a mistake, how boring life is without making mistakes. What can you do if you make a mistake?

    Isn't there anything you dare not talk about! I'm much better than them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Put pictures of your classmates at home (the more the better) and say what you want to say to them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, I was like this at the beginning, I didn't dare to sing when I went to KTV, for fear that others would laugh at me for not singing well, but I'm a girl, you have to be confident, since they talk to you, you should answer them out of politeness, otherwise they will definitely think that this man is so ignorant and cold, but they will be more disgusted with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You don't have enough confidence in yourself, this is something that needs to be cultivated, take your time, start with the girl you are familiar with, of course, the kind you don't feel for her, it's just a relationship between friends, otherwise you will definitely not be able to let go, just step by step.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, I don't dare to face some girls because you care about them, you want to try to get some spiritual satisfaction from them, and there is a feeling of being afraid of being discovered by the other party or caring about the other party's views and ideas about you, so you start to be afraid and dare not approach.

    What you need to do is to treat them as if they are girls like other girls or they are human beings like you, nothing special, so that they don't have special ideas; And when talking face-to-face, don't think too much, your thoughts will affect your emotions, and don't deliberately prepare your lines, going with the flow is the most important thing.

    I also had a situation like you when I was in junior high school, and now that I'm in high school, I just don't care too much about girls, and I just talk to the girl I had a crush on naturally, and there's nothing awkward about it, it's normal, but I feel like I'm a lot more mature.

    I hope the above experience will be helpful to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Women generally like boys who have a sense of security, but how to make people feel secure varies from person to person, and it is best to know what kind of boy you think the girl you like is called to give her a sense of security!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Can you try to get in touch with more girls? Slowly, you will feel that you dare to talk to her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you're handsome, that's not a problem, and it will make some girls think you're mysterious, and if you're not handsome, it's useless to say it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you afraid that the woman will eat you? Don't think that you are afraid of her, but also think that she actually doesn't dare to talk to you, at this time you must take the initiative as a man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Understand the psychology of girls.

    2. Anticipate the worst in your mind.

    Before accosting a girl, you should simulate the chat scene in your mind, and you can think of a few more countermeasures. The main thing is to make a mental prediction of the worst outcome.

    If the girl is friendly to you and you have a good chat, then everyone is happy. If the girl greets you coldly, then you have to take measures to deal with it, how to leave gracefully and gracefully.

    3. Knock hard to the end.

    Some boys are afraid of girls and dare not talk to girls, thinking that girls are fierce and will definitely not take care of themselves. These are all imaginary scenes in the boy's mind.

    Some boys don't know girls at all, and they haven't been in contact with her, so they put their assumptions on girls. In fact, boys don't have to be afraid at all, girls are also human beings, and they also have emotions and sincerity, summon up the courage to talk to her, maybe girls will be very friendly to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's been a long time, and I don't dare to talk to girls, aren't you afraid of being single for a lifetime, be bold, girls won't eat you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Take your time. A little bit to try to contact the opposite sex more.。。 Even if you talk to them a few times a day, it's a good start. Believe in yourself, have the courage to say to yourself I can do it. Go for it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Analyze yourself first, why don't you dare to talk to girls. Whether your consideration is true. Then break through your own habitual thinking step by step.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Talk to the mirror more, and then start with the more familiar girls, and slowly you will dare to speak.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should take the initiative to get to know the girl, try to communicate with the girl on the initiative, be brave, and you will overcome it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To train yourself, try to communicate more with girls. Be bold, there's nothing to be afraid of.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can exercise slowly, talk to girls on the Internet first, and then talk to girls in reality step by step.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you still want to find a wife? If you want to, then be bold, in fact, girls are not as difficult as you think.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's the hardest at the beginning, so be sure to cheer yourself up and take the first step in talking to a girl.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You have to overcome this mentality, because it's impossible for you not to talk to girls.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Exercise your courage and boldly try to chat with girls, and don't have a psychological burden.

    In today's society, many friends start with communication, and if you talk to a girl and people feel that they have no common topic with you, then it will be a failed communication.

    First of all, in the process of chatting, you need to pay attention to listening, if there is really no topic, take the initiative to cut in according to your own thoughts, try to find the topic that the other party likes, and be careful not to switch topics frequently.

    You can talk to girls about TV, which girls like, such as TV dramas or anime.

    In life communication, it is necessary to establish a meeting between two people first, so first invite each other to watch a movie or eat, and only in the process of face-to-face can a topic be generated.

    The best way is to start with life, such as if you encounter a funny thing today, or see a funny thing on the Internet, you can share it with the other person to get a topic.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Try to communicate with girls, and you will find that girls are very cute creatures.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What should I do if I don't dare to talk to a girl? Maybe it's because your self-confidence is not enough, or it's more inferior, and you feel inferior to others everywhere, this is unnecessary, as long as you are brave enough to face the success of the sui, it must belong to you.

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