My parents have been married for 26 years, should I get a divorce?

Seeing that you have said so much, it is certain that your family was very happy in the past, and now we have been very happy together. Don't look at how good other people's homes are, how much less you are than others, in fact, life is like this, day by day.

Call your mother more**, and then let your dad pick up**, so that your mother will feel that she is still an important person at home, play a few tricks like this, and you will feel that your mother has changed.

Be careful!

One day husband and wife 100 days, 100 days husband and wife like deep water; Do your parents understand this? It's been 26 years, what a long love, why do you want to be stiff because of the little things in life? How many 26 years are there in a person's life, two people have walked hand in hand and sincerely walked through 26 years, and they should go hand in hand to the next 26 years; It's because you've been together for 26 years that you shouldn't always quarrel, it's not good, you should cry and ask them:

It's been 26 years, what have you seen? Do you only see each other's shortcomings in life? Will love last as long as you do?

Isn't it interesting to be thinking about it all day long? "Then just watch them silently and say nothing, and if your mom and dad know what you are, I think, they'll give it up.

I'm having this problem too, and so is my mom.

My dad can't help it, he's handsome, and he has a good job. My mom also brought this pathetic thing into our lives, and it was annoying.

I think divorce is a secondary issue, the most critical problem is that your mother is now in menopause, this is menopausal syndrome, at this time your father is also very difficult, as a child can only be coaxed on both sides, take your mother to see the old Chinese medicine doctor, recuperate.

According to your description, your mother has periodic emotional instability. This may be endocrine related, it is recommended:

1.You can see a doctor, there are Chinese medicine or other conditioning treatments**.

2。By arranging for their parents to travel, housewives tend to have a narrow vision and breed conflicts to regulate their mediocre lives.

3。Encourage your mother to increase social activities, such as attending senior college.

Whether you should leave or not is not up to you, it depends on the feelings of the parents to decide, in fact, if it is really not harmonious, it may be better to separate!

It's their own business, let them decide for themselves.

You are also a member of the family, play your part.

You can regulate relationships in the family.

Believe in yourself.

I don't think you should persuade them to divorce, there are some things that are hard to imagine, can you imagine the days after their divorce, that is multifaceted, and the members of your family.

First of all, I don't think you should persuade your parents to divorce.

It's up to them to decide.

As a junior, you should not have heard it.

Haven't they all come over for so many years?

Your mom's menopause has arrived. It is recommended to buy yengendan. Inside there is a menopause onwards test, super accurate. (My mother tested it, and the medicine works).

Divorce is not about leaving if you want to, try not to divorce.

Young couples and old companions You should have heard this for more than 20 years, and the one who dares to say that they have no feelings? There's nothing to do with that couple, it's up to you what to do.

Since you don't feel at home from your parents, why don't you make your home warm with your husband?

My parents are also divorced, and I also have a headache when I come home for the Chinese New Year. I spent my Chinese New Year's Eve at my mother-in-law's house, and I went to my mother's house first in the third year of junior high school to visit my mother's relatives with my mother, and went to my father's house in the fourth year of junior high school to visit my father's relatives with my father. It's quite troublesome anyway, but you have to learn to adapt.

Anyway, it's like this, it's better to be happy, live a warm life with your husband, don't think so much, don't involve the feelings between you in the previous generation.

Anyway, I think I'm pretty good now, the small family with my husband is very warm, and the feeling of home is very strong.

Life cannot be smooth sailing, there are things that do not go well everywhere, this is natural, this is life. Nowadays, there are many such divorces, but they are all harmful to children. Children have feelings for either parent and should be seen.

But in your current situation, I think you should first think about it, love your object, love this home, and find the warmth of home, and secondly, you can not run away from your parents, but you must often say a ** greeting.

I'm just like you. My parents divorced when I was in the second grade of elementary school, and I have been with my mother all the time. I go to my dad's a few times a year.

Now they each have a new life. I'm not married yet, but I find it troublesome to think about a lot of things in the future. It's really annoying the more you get older.

And my dad's new woman is also very annoying, so I don't want to go to my dad's. But I'm afraid that my father will be sad, really, I usually hold it in my heart and don't want to show it in front of outsiders. I often want to cry when I think about it.

It's really troublesome, to balance the two sides. I don't know what to do, and sometimes I want to leave it alone.

In fact, I didn't feel anything when I was a child, but now that I have grown up and become sensible, I am becoming more and more vulnerable, and I want to cry when I am slightly wronged. I don't know why I have to bear their fault.

The only thing I hope is that if I don't do it properly, I hope my parents will understand my difficulties...

You can spend the New Year at your husband's house and then go back to your parents for a hundred years, or want to open a little, I hope you have a good mood when the New Year is approaching.

Dear, I believe that life is beautiful, there will always be things that make you feel happy and happy, and you should be optimistic and positive about life.

Then you don't go at all. I'm tired of running around, but I also have to be noisy. Make a **, tell me about your situation, and say that you are too short on time. Fake is not enough.

Why work so hard, if you don't like yourself and your husband at home for the New Year, don't compromise on everything.

Women marry chickens and chickens, Chinese customs are like this, your parents will understand, it is impossible to say anything. It would be nice to go to them again when I get back.

I take the liberty to say: First, your husband doesn't know "you" very well, and he can't know what you want and what to do for you. Second, if there is, then do you not understand the "good intentions".

Third, on your parents' side, did they form their own families? If so, you don't have to go. Of course, this has to be talked about, whether you and your husband's family are really a family. Best wishes!

Since the parents chose to divorce, it must be a last resort, and it is futile to be together again if the relationship is gone. You're getting married now, so you should have plenty of hope for married life.

When the children grow up, the Lord takes himself as the main family, and if they want to leave their parents as soon as possible, they usually go back to see one or two when they have time

It may be that your parents' divorce has caused a shadow on you, so think about what you are happy about, and think more about your future life with your husband.

Look at the point, parents have their difficulties, and children can only do their filial piety.

Maybe it's your home that is broken, that's why God will give you a warm home, you should cherish it, and your parents don't want you to be so unhappy.

It's better to live your own small home, and your parents want you to live well.

I spent the New Year at home by myself, and I got married.

Everything has a good side and a bad side, and if you don't want the bad side, you won't get the good side.

The best way to do this is to go to whoever you like.

I think you should let go of your selfishness and support your parents to remarry。As long as you really want your parents to be happy, you will be very happy when you see your parents overflowing with happiness in the future. On the other hand, if your parents are not happy and it is difficult to laugh every day, it is estimated that you will not be able to laugh no matter how good your mood is.

Don't try to stop your parents from remarrying, eitherOnce they are happy to remarry, you will find that you will also be happy for their happiness. It is best for parents to make their own decisions. It is better for children not to have any attitude, as long as their parents feel happy and have a happy life.

However, monogamy is full of contradictions, and if the elderly remarry, how much understanding and tolerance must be paid by both parties to achieve happiness.

Your parents once loved each other so much that they came together and gave birth to a child, you! However, because they didn't know how to get along, or their values changed, they didn't want to continue to be together and divorced. Luckily, they each met the love of their hearts and wanted to start a family again.

Do you love your parents as a child? Want them to be happy? That's for sure.

It is difficult to imagine that the old man remarries with happiness at all, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, and mutual supportYou can be happy when you are old, and I hope that the old people who remarry will be the same.

But now that fathers are able to find a happy partner to spend the rest of their time with, as children, why should they be prevented from continuing to seek or get happiness? After all, they have lost a lot of their youth or years, and there is still joy. Now there is someone to give to them, or let them rediscover a happy or happy future.

As a child, we must not only focus on our own feelings and ignore the needs of our parents. If they are lonely, it's okay to want to find a companion, and you can do whatever you like at home, no one says that you are not, if the other party treats you sincerely and does not treat you as a nanny, you can also consider it.

Choose to accept that they have been divorced for many years and you should accept this reality. It is not easy for parents to find happiness on their own now. You should bless them.

I don't think there's anything bad about it, the most important thing is that the remarriage partner must be reliable.

It's good to support your father, but as a child, you can't let him die alone.

After all, it is not easy to remarry in old age, and it is not easy to find someone who really wants to live.

First of all, if you don't divorce your husband legally, you should never talk about marriage with another man, it is not allowed in law, and it is illegal. Then there is the man you are looking for, whether you know that he is married. Failing to tell him is deception.

It's okay for you to talk about love with him, but it's not like talking about marriage. Now that I have broken up with him, what kind of marriage are I going to finish with him?It's really funny.

This man is mentally ill, you should quickly deal with the relationship with your husband, and do whatever you want. The man left him alone. Just don't make yourself insane.

The easiest way is to ask your mom to come back and go through the divorce procedures with your dad, who have been separated for many years and can divorce by agreement.

If your mother insists on not coming back for divorce, then you can only sue for divorce, you sue and file a case, and the follow-up court will arrange, I think your mother should not have remarried, because it is now all online, if you remarry online, you can see the marital status online, so the crime of bigamy is not easy to judge.

Now let your father and your mother go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to make up for the divorce, that is, to officially handle the divorce, your father can get the divorce certificate and remarry, and your mother may not get a marriage certificate for the second marriage.

That's right, mother gave birth to you. But she has harmed your life ... Did you know?

The children of divorced families I have met have very special personalities. They all have one thing in common is that they have no habit or consciousness to take care of other people's feelings, and they are especially self-centered. There are very few friends, and the view of marriage is basically distorted.

They don't believe in marriage, they don't seem to value it at all, or whether it's marriage or divorce, it doesn't matter to them.

It's a vicious circle.

I guess your father was afraid that you would be like this, so he insisted on not getting divorced. Mother gave birth to you, will she be great, born without raising and not teaching, this is a great sin.

What did she call her relatives to do and want to recoup all these years!

But generally this kind of occasion is divorced, and in order to look good, the mother will be invited to go through the motions, and some are not allowed to come.

It doesn't matter if you come or not The key is that you must grasp the role of the wife or husband Think about whatever you encounter If you are him or her, how will you react The relationship between husband and wife is not easy to grasp in this society Adopt more Tolerance and tolerance are the key Remember that no one in this world owes you anything, and no one will have to do anything for you, and happiness depends on yourself.

You can recognize your uncle as a godfather first, and your godfather and father can not only participate together, but it will not affect your relationship with your father, and shorten the distance between you and your uncle.

You don't need to have two weddings, just invite them all at once. Just introduce your friends truthfully [this is my father, this is my uncle]. Why do you have to have two weddings, what a waste.

It's okay to go together, no one will say anything. Didn't say anything. Don't worry, do it all at once.

Don't waste money, it's not easy to make money. Listen to me right.