How did you become a man of few words?

Maybe it's because we grew up, we were unscrupulous and self-conscious under various shelters when we were children, but as time goes by, there will be more and more complicated things that will entangle us, such as study, love, career, etc., these things are pressing you, and you want to talk and complain. But there may be people around you who don't agree with you or people who don't know you at all and make wrong comments about you, so I find that I don't like to communicate with people more and more, and only by carrying it silently is the best solution, and then I will become the kind of person you say is taciturn.

I'm optimistic and cheerful and taciturn, my change is that I used to love to talk, I don't like to talk, I don't like to argue, I don't like to talk nonsense, I don't like to talk in groups, I slowly like to delve into what I like to care about, it has nothing to do with me, I don't express my opinion, it is related to me, if the other party is low, I don't say anything, if the level is high, I don't say anything, listen to him, and see if I can learn anything, if I can't learn anything, I don't listen, I talk less, my mental activity becomes more, and my life becomes clearer, There are rules, rarely hurt people, rarely general acquaintances, can save a lot of unnecessary trouble, I think it's good, so, peaceful, very calm.

In the past, I used to see everyone "hahahaha" every day, although some happiness is not pretended, it is real, but I am happy with anyone, that can only prove that I am not happy. The more unhappy I am, the more I have to tell others that I am happy, so that you will not pinch my weakness and laugh at me, and later, I found that I couldn't pretend, I deleted some people, left some people, I became silent, no longer casually tell others what was on my mind, no longer rely on the outside world to gain strength, no need to obtain external recognition, in the face of doubts and criticism, also laughed off, silence, silence, exploded in silence, died in silence, my silence is not silent without feelings, It's silence with a smile, so even if I'm silent, there will be many people who come to me because silence with a smile is a kind of tenderness.

Because of passive isolation in elementary school. Parents don't know how to communicate and always digest it by themselves. The family relationship is poor and hard, and gradually disappointed and closed.

Emotional setbacks many times. Because I hope to get what the family can't give, I blindly pay without seeing if the other party needs it, so that the other party is disgusted, and I also fall into a dead circle of depression.

I have a lot of contact with people, and contradictions naturally develop from them, my emotional feelings are more sensitive, and I am naturally deeply hurt by the negative parts of these contradictions, so I want to stay away from people, I can clearly feel their emotions, but they can't feel my emotions, they don't know the proportion and weight of their actions, they unconsciously hurt others, I want to stay away from such a world.

I'm not a very optimistic and cheerful person. Is it possible to be a little "cheerful" in elementary school? Later, I think it's anxiety and depression. But there's nothing wrong with accepting yourself, and it won't affect others or the outside world. Recently, I have been learning "sanity".

I seemed to be an optimistic and cheerful person in elementary and junior high school, but then in high school, Kenny became more and more reticent because of his declining grades and poor sleep. Now I feel like I'm not the same person as I was when I was a kid.

Knowing how disgusting people are, the girls in the dormitory form gangs and exclude others, sometimes secretly glad that they are not the innocent girl who was excluded, but they can't do anything about her being bullied, so they can only protect themselves and have to be silent.

met a two-faced man who was fat and not generous, because he didn't do anything for him in one of the ten, and since then he has embarked on the road ......of being sowing discord, being rumor-mongered, and being smeared

Summary. Hello, change the bad words, we can have more opportunities to show ourselves, improve ourselves, make more like-minded friends, and get more opportunities to develop ourselves. Hope mine can be helpful to you.

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Hello, change the bad words, we can have more opportunities to show ourselves, improve ourselves, make more like-minded friends, and get more opportunities to develop ourselves. Hope mine can be helpful to you.

Thank you. Teacher, not good at words, what plan to make in interpersonal communication to change yourself.

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Hello, first of all, we must change the fear of communication psychologically, no one is born to express it, and it can be changed through learning. The second is to read aloud more, read aloud, and practice more. Third, we can take the initiative to participate in public speaking activities, conference exchanges, and express our ideas.

Fourth, people who are good at words must have a vocabulary, we should read more, expand the scope of knowledge, increase the connotation of knowledge, and lay the foundation for our speaking.

If you think about it every day, you can practice it yourself in front of the mirror.

Personality dictates, if you want to force yourself to change, you have to be ruthless.

If you are not good at words but can live well, I don't think you need to change yourself, but if you are not good at words, you have lost a lot of development opportunities, and you have no security in your own life, then you need to change yourself.

I have a brother-in-law, he is a person who is not good at words, but his ability to work is particularly strong, although he is not good at words, but his action and the benefits brought by your company, so that the leader is very important to him. In fact, in the process of getting along with my sister, he is not particularly good at saying sweet words, but he is so down-to-earth, which my sister appreciates and is very satisfied with. My brother-in-law has a successful career now, his family is harmonious, and everything is harmonious and beautiful, so I don't think if you are such a person, you don't need to change this characteristic of not being good at words.

Because he is not good at words, his words from this point of view are not a drawback, and it may be that you are a character who will make those who appreciate you appreciate you more.

But if you lose a lot of job opportunities or development opportunities because you don't speak well and don't know how to deal with others, I think you need to change yourself. Because in this world, it is a more realistic problem to be fed and clothed, and if you just pursue the so-called ideals or other vain things, this is unrealistic and unnecessary.

I once knew a speech instructor who was not good at words at this stage from childhood to high school, and he would blush when he said anything to others, but after entering college, he began to slowly train himself.

Because he feels that in this society, the development path of people who are not good at words is hindered. So he went to speech contests on his own, went to participate in all kinds of outdoor activities, and after graduating from his senior year, he was taken by an educational institution and hired to be the director. His change from being a man of few words to being eloquent has brought him wealth and status.

I think from this point of view, a person who is not good at words needs to change himself, because if he does not change himself, he will not be able to conform to the requirements of this era. Darwin's theory of evolution also says that natural selection of the fittest survives.

As for changing or not changing, it depends on your actual situation, the first one, then you don't need to change, the second one must change, if you want to have a happy life.

Especially need, if you are not good at words, you can't speak, how to communicate with others, how to express your inner thoughts or feelings.

It's not that he can't speak, but it's difficult to even communicate with others basically, and I used to think he had a psychological problem, but I was told that he still knows people who can still say hello, but his voice is very low. Therefore, it shows that he is a normal person, in fact, knowing that he is a normal person feels even more shocked in his heart, if I am like this, how worried my parents are, I am alone in the field, and I am about to lose even basic interpersonal communication.

Therefore, those who are not good at words, as long as they can change themselves, try their best to change, talking and chatting with others is not as difficult as imagined, in fact, it is very simple, as long as you take the first step, you will be brave to talk to others in the future.

Personally, I think that people who are not good at words need to change themselves. This is what life needs, and there is no way.

Everyone knows that we live in this society, and we need to communicate and talk to people. In this way, we can understand each other and communicate with each other, which is conducive to the satisfaction of our feelings and life needs. This is very important and necessary.

I believe everyone knows this, has experienced and understood. We also started from a young age, and we were taught by the people in our family and parents to speak well and sweeten our mouths, so that we would be popular; In school, under the education of teachers, you must learn how to express yourself well and communicate and talk to others. These are the educational qualities and skills that we have received since childhood.

The reason why our parents, as well as our teachers who guide us from elementary school to university, pay so much attention to our verbal communication skills, is because these oral communication skills are so important to us! This will have a profound impact on our future studies, interpersonal relationships, and work and career.

I believe that everyone agrees with and understands the importance of speaking and expressing skills. You said that in daily life, if we want to get along with others, we need good eloquence, right? When chasing a girlfriend, do you also need a dexterous mouth to be eloquent?

And in the work career, there are many places to express eloquence! Everyone knows and understands it.

People who are not good at words must be more or less affected in study, life, love, work, etc. This affected him no small. If you want to change these situations in front of you, you must need to change your situation of not being good at expressing your eloquence.

I think I need to change myself, after all, in today's society, there are fewer and fewer people who are not good at words, and if you are a professional, then speaking will become your daily routine. You need to be able to speak when you communicate with people, and you also need to speak when applying for various jobs, and if you don't even know the most basic language, and you don't know how to be tactful, then you will be abandoned by this society.

People who are not good at words do not mean that you need to change yourself completely, but that you need to change yourself in one or several aspects. At least not like before, not saying anything, it would look particularly wooden. Whether you are studying or working, then you need to talk to others, and even many times, we need to give speeches.

For example, in school, we need to compete for a class leader, and whatever position in the student union must have a part of our own speech. In this way, others can know your most basic speaking ability, communication ability, if you are not good at words, can not express your thoughts and speak your ability well, then you will not be selected.

Therefore, people who are not good at words need to change themselves. When we get a job, we need an interview, and if you are not good at words, then the leader of the company will definitely consider whether or not to use you. If you are not good at words, you will affect the communication with customers.

Poor speech is not only lacking in the ability to speak, but also lacks an organizational ability, and not speaking well enough is also a defect in language. In the process of communicating with people, this kind of communication is very subtle, and we need to think carefully before we can express it correctly.

People who are not good at words sometimes say a sentence that they think is a good word, but the speaker has no intention of listening to it. When it comes to other people's ears, it becomes a bad word, so you need to change the way you speak, organize the logic and art of language. Sometimes it is said that it is also very much necessary to practice and change.

People who are not good at words need to change. Now that this society is full of capable people, we should first learn to express our ideas, and then try to make ourselves appreciate.

No company will be willing to have an employee who is not good at words, and no one will want to make friends with someone who is not good at words. If we restrain ourselves and force ourselves to change, so that we can become communicative and able to express our ideas, this is a very progressive process, and we will only get more opportunities to appreciate ourselves after taking this difficult step.

People who are not good at words are not unwilling to fight for opportunities, but lack courage. If you want to change yourself, you must first have confidence in yourself, believe that you can change, and learn to change yourself in various ways. Find more people who share the same topic to talk about your own thoughts, and then humbly ask others what they think.

Don't think that if you can write it, you will be able to say it. We should memorize some things, and there are some interviews that will give the examiner a different impression if they are not written or given a written speech. We have to read what we have written several times and then talk in the mirror that this kind of training is essential if we want to really change it.

Although it is difficult to change, it is very helpful for one's future.