Hurry, hurry, hurry! I m going to see my girlfriend s parents tomorrow

In this case, the elders will generally take a closer look at your background, understand the reasons for her previous divorce, what are the shortcomings of your ex-husband, and you should have a target! It's not a problem to be young, but if it's a problem if you're immature, then talk less, but it's not too dull and sycophant.

Bring gifts, not shabby.

Dress appropriately for your age and status.

Don't behave frivolously, don't brag, or give people a sense of unreliability.

You have to look at your face. Don't be nervous ......

Hehe, what's the matter, ask your girlfriend to buy her parents something to eat, or daily necessities, just say what you need to say, just treat it as if everyone is playing together, don't be too restrained, that's not good.

It's not important to be too sophisticated to speak, but if you go, let's talk about something else, how to say it? If your daughter's parents are working, you can help him and say some polite words, and treat your daughter's parents as if they were your own parents.

Relax a little and help out when you get to her house. The most important thing is to make them feel that you care for their daughter, and these things can be seen in the details. In fact, the biggest requirement of parents is whether you are really good to their daughter.

Buy some practical greeting gifts, which can be discussed with your girlfriend.

Just be steady, and don't say anything that you don't have. However, there are some things that are better not to be said. Keep calm.

Just go with a normal heart!

Hello friends:

Here's for your reference:

Pay attention to the dress, etiquette, demeanor, and love you have for your girlfriend.

It doesn't have to be a suit, just don't be too casual (i.e. don't wear slippers or anything). Dress neatly and cleanly (pay attention to details: trouser openings, cuffs, collar, socks). In winter, a shirt, a cardigan and a down jacket will do.

Etiquette refers to how you behave, and remember to bring some gifts.

Attitude and behavior are neither humble nor arrogant, careful and considerate to girlfriends, listen carefully to the words of elders, and answer questions simply and generously. Be sure to pay attention to details, such as closing the door casually, sitting firmly, and standing up straight. Also, the elders will definitely ask about your career, salary, family, etc., if you are not particularly competitive in this area, it is good to be honest and concise, focusing on your strengths, remember not to be cynical and unhappy, after all, people do not give daughters to others to live a hard life.

In terms of gifts, it is actually quite a test, not too expensive, and not too shabby. If it is the first time to visit, it is more appropriate to control 300-500. Food is a conservative choice, wine (this should be investigated in advance whether your father-in-law has this habit), cosmetics for middle-aged women are also good, if you want to please your mother-in-law, and your mother-in-law is not repulsive, jewelry is also a good choice.

But be sure to ask your girlfriend beforehand about her family's habits, give priority to what her family likes, and if your girlfriend says whatever, you can choose something else.

Demeanor is actually a kind of mentality, don't be nervous when answering questions, don't tremble, don't stutter, answer clearly, convincingly, and be true and sincere. The best way to be personable is to think about all the situations you may encounter when you go to her house, think about the questions that the other parent's may ask, and think about how to change the answers.

Finally, it's your love for your girlfriend. It is mainly reflected in whether you will let her and think about her.

In short, remember the principle: highlight your own strengths and show your good side. Let the parents feel that you are sensible and reasonable, have good conditions in all aspects, and will not treat her girl badly.

1.Occupation, position, job content, salary (sometimes this is not asked, and the elders will speculate through your occupation and position).

2.Family: Home is in **, whether the parents are alive, whether they are divorced, what is the occupation. Someone else in the house.

3.How did you and your girlfriend meet, how long have you known each other, and what do you like about her** (this one doesn't necessarily have to be asked).

4.You live in ** now, what do you plan to do in the future. Will you get married, and how to think about it when you get married.

Hope it helps,

It's right that a person doesn't know, they all know after eating this meal, go to the woman's house as long as the attitude is humble, ask what to answer at home, most parents will not be embarrassed, as long as their daughter is happy!

It depends on the situation, and it is better not to say more if you don't know what to say, and it is more wrong to say more.

Be natural, don't be too nervous, if you were so nervous before, there will definitely be problems, be yourself, be polite, be diligent, be generous, don't be too nervous, good luck.

Character!!! Parents only care about character!!

Gifts are necessary, but also to say some kind things, it's up to you.

1, cigarettes are to be brought, although not to bring means that you do not smoke, this is a good habit, but since his dad smokes, it means that his dad does not think smoking is bad, bring a pack, bring a good one, if his dad smokes his own cigarettes at that time, you take it out, give him the cigarette you brought, your girlfriend knows that you are not a smoker, so it is estimated that her father also knows, see that you think so thoroughly, the impression will definitely be good. Don't bring too many cigarettes, smoking is harmful to the body, and the elderly should smoke less.

2. It doesn't matter if you shake hands or not, and it's not about business when you see your parents, but your mouth should be a little good, and your uncle must say greetings such as hello.

3. You can not bring gifts, because you are treating, not to visit their homes, but, but if you want the elderly to be more satisfied, you still have to bring drops. As for what to send, I think it's very good to make up wine, ginseng wine, ** wine or something, health care products in fact, the elderly don't like to eat, if they don't drink, send royal jelly, bone strengthening powder and the like.

4, grandpa is the same, nutrition, you should find out more news from your girlfriend

5, show your true feelings, you must be considerate to your girlfriend, people marry their daughters, and the most important thing is whether they are good or not.

1. You want to buy, although you don't smoke, but you have to learn to smoke (after smoking, both hands go to light the fire), if you are preparing to meet your future father-in-law, it is best to come to the door, so that you pay more attention to your girlfriend's family.

2. There is no need to shake hands, because shaking hands is a kind of business etiquette.

3. Gifts are a must, whether it is to meet your girlfriend and her father outside or go to her house to meet her family, gifts are essential, of course, when choosing a gift, you have to discuss with your girlfriend, she knows what her family likes, and the gifts for the elderly are easier to pick some, nothing more than some nutrition or health care products for the elderly.

4. You have to ask your girlfriend if she is the only one in her family and whether she has other relatives or other relatives.

5. When you go to see his family, you should have a sweet mouth, be diligent, take the initiative to do things, grasp the proportions, in short, show a gentleman's demeanor and a man with flexible vision.

His dad smokes a cigarette and sends a cigarette, just say hello when you meet, the gift is sure to be brought, ask your girlfriend what hobbies his parents and grandfather have, and then decide what gifts to buy, the elderly had better buy some nutritional products, dress formally, don't dress too casually, and talk more about the topics that his dad is interested in when dealing with him.

First of all: you have to learn about your girlfriend's personality, habits, and hobbies. Do what you like? It's a must!

1.Cigarettes should be bought from the brand he smokes, and you can smoke them but don't be too restrictive.

2.Of course, you have to shake hands calmly and powerfully, so that he can feel your youth and vitality.

3.Gifts are dispensable, the main thing is not to make him feel troublesome. It's not too late to have a chance to go to his house and bring it again.

4.It doesn't seem polite for you to ask him to bring gifts to his dad and gifts to his grandfather, but what about the rest of the family?

5.Etiquette Needless to say, politeness is not to mention, and you must show enough respect for him. Don't talk too much Try to let him talk. Your youthful energy in front of him is something he thinks must have.

1. This is generally not asked directly, they will observe.

2. Say what you really think and plan.

3. Just be generous and decent, don't be too expressive, the first time you meet, be safe first.

4. Fruits alone are definitely not enough, hometown specialties, tobacco and alcohol can be. If there is a red envelope, it should be given to you by them.

5. Wear something appropriate and casual to look sunny. Shirts, trousers, and leather shoes look silly if they are not worn well.

Generally, I don't ask you directly about your age It looks childish, so dress up generously and maturely, in fact, it seems childish, mainly in talking and doing things, speak more steadily, and his parents chatter about homeliness, don't talk too casually, don't be too restrained, take the initiative to find a topic to talk about, will come Although you are a guest, but serve tea and pour water, light cigarettes and pour wine, as a junior, you must come, so that her parents will leave you very sensible.

Put forward your life planning goals, house and car problems, you can discuss with your girlfriend first, see what kind of idea his family has, if you can, of course, it is best for two people to work together Of course, you must say that you have to rely on yourself to make money to buy these things, but with your own salary, you will definitely not be able to do it in a short time If the two of you really get married in the future, her family will definitely help you, after all, if you want to get married, you have to have a house, but the most important thing at present is to let them accept you first.

Be talkative, don't be too restrictive, think about more topics, for example, ask her about her parents' work, body, life, etc., and then talk about your family, yourself.

Gift wine is a must, if her parents don't smoke, it is enough to prepare a box or two of cigarettes, maybe his parents will call other relatives to come, if there are smokers, you have to light cigarettes, buy some fruit, red envelopes, don't use it.

Trousers and leather shoes are not needed, just wear a generous and simple hairstyle, short hairstyle, neat spirit, don't be too individual, too handsome, etc., that is, be simple and generous.

In summer, wear a T-shirt with a collar, slacks, and casual leather shoes.

Does your girlfriend really fall in love with you, the most important thing is your girlfriend's attitude, and the attitude of her parents, you must have enough confidence to impress your family.

Be yourself, and be honest in what you say and behave is the most important thing.