What was it like to be very lonely in college?

Seeing a lot of people walking past you, but none of them can sit down and have a good chat with you in a calm and face-to-face manner, many times there will be a special feeling of trepidation.

I feel that I am particularly unsociable, I don't play with myself, sometimes I will be angry with myself, I don't know what makes me become nobody to play with myself, which is very painful.

Sometimes I am very confused and helpless, I was very lonely when I was in college, and I didn't have any friends around me, so when I encountered something, I secretly pressed it in my heart by myself, and I couldn't vent it at all, and sometimes it was very uncomfortable. <>

Be aware of depressive tendencies. If a person wants to walk alone, he must first be very strong in his heart, his ideals and hobbies can support him to go on, and he has the motivation and spirit to live every day, otherwise it will really be over. Many people start a vicious cycle when something doesn't go their way.

In the first half of the year, I ran for a student job and didn't get elected, and I cried on the lawn alone, but fortunately, my dad kept talking to me at that time, so I could sleep well all afternoon. Emotional adjustment is important.

This should be a feeling for many people, after all, everyone comes from all over the world, not everyone can get along well, everyone's ideological concepts, and values are different, so there will be different ideas.

It must be very sad, personally, I was very lonely in college, I didn't have any good friends, I only studied, although I won eight scholarships in a row, but I felt empty.

In fact, there are many ways to relieve loneliness in the university, and quiet people can choose the library and swim in the sea of books; Those who love to move can choose the stadium and sweat on the playground; People who love to learn can choose competitions and experience knowledge in competitions. What kind of person you are, what kind of way you naturally have. However, I personally feel that your roommates or friends in the dormitory are your most indispensable playmates during college, and they will make you forget about loneliness in many ways.

A very bad, very helpless, very sad feeling. Do you think you've done something wrong? As a result, no one else wants to play with me, and I will have serious doubts about myself. I think about a lot of messy things every day.

In school, try to keep yourself busy so that you don't feel like you're going to get cranky. But for your busyness to have its value, you need to know what you're busy with and what you're going to do next.

1. Overcome low self-esteem. Because of low self-esteem, they feel inferior to others, so they dare not contact others, resulting in a state of loneliness. This is like being bound by a cocoon, and if the cocoon of inferiority is not broken, it will be difficult to get out of loneliness.

In fact, people cannot be compared with each other, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and everyone is both the same and different. Therefore, as long as a person is confident in himself, he will look into the self-woven cocoon and overcome loneliness. 2. Communicate with the outside world.

If you're feeling lonely, you can flip through your old address book, look at your photo album, or write a letter to a friend you haven't been in touch with in a long time. 3. Have the courage to communicate. Feeling lonely with people can sometimes be ten times more than when a person is alone.

This is because you are out of place with the people around you, so when you get along with others, no matter what the situation, you have to be "selfless" and try to do something for others, you should know how to warm others as well as yourself. 4. Enjoy nature. When you are in a bad mood but don't want to talk to others, you will often run to the river or an open field to let the breeze of nature blow to your heart's content, and your mood will gradually become cheerful.

For students who have just entered the university, they have to face various problems in life by themselves when they first arrive in an unfamiliar environment, and loneliness has become a common feeling among college students, and many students will not be used to this feeling, no one can communicate and no one can complain or even simple communication.

There is a lot of contact with your roommates in college, but not every dormitory is very harmonious, and the headache in college is the conflict in the dormitory, and getting along with roommates also affects a person's mood, and for the dormitory conflict, you should face it calmly, reduce quarrels, and sometimes keep a proper distance, and leave yourself some space for yourself.

When you have your own time, you can learn what you want to learn, go where you want to go, and constantly enrich yourself.

Because dormitories are often randomly assigned, rather than walking together because of like-mindedness, it is normal for everyone to have disagreements due to different personalities, but many things in college are based on dormitories, and the relationship still needs to be eased. Although loneliness is a difficult feeling to bear, it is precisely when you are alone that you can gradually find yourself, try not to trouble others about what you can accomplish by yourself, and slowly understand yourself and see more possibilities for yourself.

And there is a reason for loneliness in college because I am more confused. After entering the university, we may often think about the future, and even panic about the future, and wonder why we want to study all the time, in fact, if we want to understand that all this is for ourselves, we will not be in a state of confusion for a long time.

More often there will be a feeling of loneliness because of mediocrity, we are used to thinking too much, from another point of view, in fact, loneliness is not a bad thing, we will grow invisibly in loneliness, face the world to see what life they want and what life they want to live, and then enrich themselves.

Some people say that loneliness and love are both normal in life. We have to adapt in order to grow, and I hope that every new student can find themselves and work hard!

In fact, you don't have to worry about being different from others, everyone is the same and different. It is precisely because of these differences that each person can have a unique charm. As long as you are confident and drill out of the "cocoon" of the weaving, you can enjoy a different kind of fun in life.

Many people who have had painful experiences say that when they are attacked and they are unable to confide in others, they will involuntarily go to the river, blow the refreshing river breeze by themselves, listen to their inner voice, and their mood will gradually become enlightened.

In this way, you will expel loneliness and feel warmth in friendship.

A person who understands what he lives for will not feel lonely; In the same way, a person who is alive and has something to love and pursue will not be afraid of loneliness.

Loneliness is not terrible, but if you are afraid of loneliness, go close to warmth, if you are tired of dealing with interpersonal relationships, start to enjoy loneliness, as long as the heart is full, you will not feel lonely, and give it to you worthy of all the good.

Dear, do you still have any questions? If you're satisfied, you can give me a thumbs up! I wish you a happy life and find close friends sooner rather than later to do what you want to do.

Today, we are going to solve the problem of children in the University of Book Education, the so-called children of the University of Book Education, the key is how the children of the University of Book Education need to write. Understanding what kind of existence the children of the book education university are is the key to solving all problems. Everyone has to face these problems.

In the face of this kind of problem, and these are not entirely important, the more important question is that books educate the children of the university seems to be a coincidence, but if we look at the problem from a larger perspective, it seems to be an inevitable fact. This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. What is the crux of the matter?

It's inevitable. And these are not entirely important, the more important thing is that we generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved. We all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered.

And these are not entirely important, the more important question is what is the crux of the matter.

After the above discussion, what happens to the children of the University of Book Education? Everyone has to face these problems. In the face of this kind of problem, P. Drucker once said a philosophical saying, there is no management without organization, and there is no organization without management.

The management department is a special organ of modern organization, and it is precisely by the activity of this organ that the performance of functions and the survival of the organization are possible. This seems to answer my doubts. We generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved.

Johan Hawud once said a philosophical remark that wealth makes people often hurt and never have peace. This sentence pierced my heart like a tattoo. The so-called children of the University of Book Education are the key to how the children of the University of Book Education need to write.

Zhou Yi Family once said that a gentleman has something in his words and has perseverance in his deeds. This sentence seems simple, but the gloom in it can't help but make people think deeply. The Zhuang people once said that the rooster wants to clap its wings, and the man wants to speak before and after.

This sentence brings us to a new dimension to think about this problem: Qing Zhang Jian summed up his life experience into such a sentence, teachers are the mother of education. I hope you will also understand this statement.

In life, if the children of the book education university appear, we have to consider the fact that it appeared. Hu Hong inadvertently said that those who are virtuous and rich take advantage of wealth to benefit things; Those who are rich and noble without virtue will take advantage of the trend of wealth to lose their bodies. This makes me think deeply.

Under this difficult choice, I thought about it and couldn't sleep well. From this point of view, how to do the occurrence of children in the book education university, and how to produce the occurrence of children in the book education university. Everyone has to face these problems.

In the face of this kind of problem, I have also thought about it carefully and thought about it every day and night.

Balance the relationship between study and practice.

University life is very varied. There are many clubs, associations and social practice opportunities in the university, and these organizations usually hold a variety of activities to enrich the cultural life of the campus. During the university period, freshmen can participate in some practical activities appropriately, so as to improve their communication, organization and other skills, and can also learn a lot of knowledge that is not in books.

However, it is important to know how to make trade-offs when dealing with the relationship between academic and social activities. For example, some students will delay their studies in order to participate in social practice and accumulate work experience, and it is very likely that the gains outweigh the losses.

Learn to handle interpersonal relationships independently.

At the university level, freshmen are away from their families and spend time with their classmates, and the relationship between classmates has become an important part of interpersonal relationships. Freshmen may have many conflicts due to differences in their growth environment, living habits, personality characteristics, psychological quality, and ways of dealing with problems. At this time, tolerance, understanding, and mutual cooperation are very important.

You need to take care of your daily life calmly.

Freshmen enter the university, away from their parents, many students feel that this kind of life is like a bird flying out of the cage, no need to ask for instructions, no need to report, no constraints and supervision, and finally can freely arrange their lives according to their own wishes. Therefore, some students relax their requirements for themselves as soon as they enter the school, do not sleep at night, do not wake up during the day, eat irregularly, and often replace meals with snacks; Staying up late to play games leads to mental exhaustion and inability to attend ......classes normally

In order to make college life not wasted, freshmen should consciously cultivate self-management skills and learn to manage their daily life from the moment they enter the university. Taking care of daily life includes a wide range of contents, including food, clothing, housing, transportation, etc.

Participating in the collective life and gaining a sense of honor in the collective can reduce loneliness.

Improve yourself so that you have something to do, so that you can gain and have a sense of achievement. This will reduce your loneliness.

Make more close friends, have friends to accompany you can reduce loneliness, and play with your best friend and best friend.

Improving your ability to swim in the ocean of knowledge can reduce loneliness.

First of all, feeling lonelyThe first thing is to enrich yourself first, and only when you fill yourself up will you not feel empty and lonely.

The first way is to join a group study or club。Every university has a lot of clubs and group learning, join a group study or join a club, there will be team building in that, there will be group learning activities, in the laughter of the classmates team building games will make you meet a lot of new friends, chat with new friends, life will naturally be lively, there will be no loneliness.

The second way is to observe your interests, such as going to a Go club or participating in an event if you like Go. Do something related to your interests, not only to make yourself feel fulfilled, but also to let yourself have a skill. When the time comes, you will have a lot of people who will adore you when you win the certificate in various competitions.

You will be filled with a sense of honor, and you will be alone, and you will naturally disappear.

The third method isChoose sports according to your characteristics and preferences, the hormones secreted during exercise can make loneliness bye-bye. You can choose some ball sports, such as basketball and table tennis. If you're more flexible, you can do some gymnastics.

Fourth, if you love to learn, you are particularly interestedYou can choose to go to the studio led by the teacher, and in the studio, you can study with the seniors or juniors of Zhihe and study togetherThis is very good, there are exchanges and activities in the group to discuss with your classmates, knowledge will fill your head and drive away loneliness, you can also harvest a lot of good friends, and it can also help you in your future work.

The fifth method is yesto chat with my former junior high and high school classmates, the campus runs around the playground and runs in circles, moreParticipate in some various competitions, there are still a lot of competitions in the school or in the hospital, and it is not difficult to win prizes, and you can also meet seniors. The certificate will give you your resume

Making money can keep you busy, how can you be lonely when you see money coming into your pocket. You can also improve yourself and increase your internship experience. What's so lonely with money?

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