If your boyfriend had a lower education and a lower salary than you, would you marry him?

Updated on workplace 2024-02-28
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A happy and beautiful life is created by the joint efforts of two people, the beginning may not necessarily determine the result, even if the initial is not rich but I believe that as long as there is love, two people will work hard for their own home and the future, and finally they can have good living conditions, if there is no love, only money is of any use, one day the soul will be lonely.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I make a lot of money, enough money to pay for my kids, to buy a house, to buy a car, to live the life I want to live, he doesn't care about the money, as long as he loves me.

    If the material is not satisfied, the woman feels that she is willing to be happy.

    It depends on what each person is looking for, satisfaction.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nope....When you are in love or considering a marriage partner, you will brush it off.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There will be contradictions after a long time, there will definitely be, I am struggling with this problem similar to yours, I am very distressed, I can't get married until the problem is solved.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Unless I love him a lot, I won't.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    With material assurances, I will

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Less educated than you, so is there a common language? Can differences in cultural level not affect? I don't think it's about money, it's about the common aspirations of the two people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What about this problem? First of all, you have to know if you really like him, and that's the most important thing. Everything else is secondary. Maybe he's succeeded? Do you think so?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you have love, you can do it, as long as you can live

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You just marry and forget about academic qualifications

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love someone accountant more than these?

    Unless you don't love him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you love him??? Is he tolerant of you? Do you know him? There are a lot of questions worth thinking about and testing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A happy marriage is generally one in which the man has a higher education level than the woman, and the woman has a lower education level than the man. It's more natural. It's a bit embarrassing to break out of the box.

    Qian Zhongshu also said it in "The Siege". Generally, a male high school student marries a junior high school girl, and a male college student marries a female high school student. Such a marriage is more natural and happier than a male junior high school marrying a female high school student.

    If you investigate and count, I am afraid that the majority of marriages in which male students have higher educational qualifications than female students. The laws of nature should still be observed.

    The reason why marriages with higher education for boys are more natural than for girls is because this is a patriarchal world. This is a world where men marry women, men sit in the bank, and men are the bankers. In a gambling place where cards are played mahjong, the dealer is the winner.

    A woman marries a man, and the man is the dealer and the winner.

    If there is no dealer winner, then there may be no gambling in the world and no one plays cards.

    The world is male-dominated, and the protagonists are male. The world is a big stage. Whether it is in the TV series, in spiritual products, or in the real world and real life, the protagonists are all men, and when they are the mayor, they are all men.

    Many parents only focus on the development of boys and not girls. If you don't know if a certain wild mushroom is poisonous or not, the easiest way is to let the girl taste it first, and if the girl eats it, then the boy can eat it.

    Because of these reasons. Also, in terms of height, the most ideal marriage, the most enviable marriage is also a marriage in which men are taller than women. There is no woman in the world who does not like a man as tall as Yao Ming.

    It is always much easier and easier for a burly man to talk about a girlfriend than for a short man. Unique.

    In all respects, boys are above women. Men are the pride of God, the pride of heaven.

    The only possible scenario is that in a world where the concept of money is increasingly valued, only money has the power to break the stereotype that men are more educated than women. In an era of rapid economic development, it is not surprising that female college students marry male junior high school students.

    This is in the minority. There is also no authority on happiness that stipulates how many years of marriage must be in order to be happy. In this way, if you can get married, become a husband and become a husband and a mother, how can it not become happiness?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not going to be happy. Because of the different academic qualifications, the problem will be viewed differently, and it is very likely to cause disputes. It will take a long time for the two sides to run in.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Two people will not be happy together, because the two people's educational qualifications are different, and sometimes the communication points are also different, and there will be a big generation gap.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think it's hard to be happy if there is a big difference in education between two people, after all, it's easy for the two of you to have no common topic.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Essentially, as long as I like this person, then I am willing to accept the culture, and people who are lower than me fall in love.

    The level of education is only one degree of universality. The level of education of your other half does not mean anything, but more importantly, it depends on the essence of this person. Many excellent people have not had a high degree of education, and there are many reasons, such as family economic problems and so on.

    Moreover, the level of education can be caught up and made up for later.

    If the communication is unhindered, the ideas have always been the same, what does it matter if there is so much high level of education; On the contrary, if the other party has a high level of education, but you can't communicate and communicate, then what's the use?

    Of course, if you don't understand each other and have no emotional foundation, it's like choosing a mate in the form of blind dates. Then let's take a look at the other party's academic qualifications, after all, the general view is that high education also represents high personal quality. In the absence of other hardware to compare and reference, it is better to choose a higher education or equivalent than yourself, so that you can have considerable topics and ideas, and there will not be too much gap.

    One person reads books every day, and the other chases soap operas every day, and it is difficult for the two to have a common language.

    On the contrary, if the two themselves know each other very well, the emotional foundation is also deep. Then it doesn't matter if the level of education or whether it is a match or not. It's good to love each other, and it's good to understand each other.

    Although some people are not highly educated, they are very cultivated, very emotionally intelligent, and very considerate of each other, so such people are also very attractive and must be very likable.

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