What should I do if I am spoiled by my husband after I get married?

I can't be spoiled like this anymore, I have to have a dominant position in this family, the kind that I can't do instead of relying on men for everything, improve myself, and be responsible for this family.

Then you can be a full-time wife, because your husband loves you very, very much, so he is not willing to let you do any work, at this time you have to be more considerate of him, and then very caring.

If it's your husband's pet, then you just start doing it slowly, and you should get something back quickly, and if you don't want to become a good-for-nothing person, it's better to start doing things as soon as possible.

The first thing you need to understand is that your husband can't be by your side all the time, you need to learn more basic life skills in your spare time, learn more about common sense of life, and don't rely on others for a little thing.

This is very dangerous, men spoil women as princesses, which seems to be as beautiful as a fairy tale, but in fact it is full of crises. Once the pampering is gone, your life will also be ruined.

Spoiling is a thing with a shelf life, and what men say "I raise you" is not reliable. Therefore, you still have to have your own financial independence.

It's very happy, but you can't do nothing, you still have to have the life skills you should have, you can assign family tasks with your husband, so that you can be happier.

If you really like this kind of life, then indulge in it, but if you are not willing to be ordinary, then you must learn to live and do what you have to do.

Spoiling you very much will make you feel comfortable temporarily, but women do not require a husband who is obedient, they need men to be wise, masculine, decisive, and thunderous to do a good job in their careers, and these are what weak men lack.

After getting married, your husband still spoils you in these ways, even if it is only one item, you are a blessed person.

Many married women have such feelings, since they got married, their husbands don't care so much about themselves, don't they love me anymore? In fact, from falling in love to getting married, life has to be dull. It is impossible to be so sweet and sweet every day, kissing me and mine, this is not realistic.

If after getting married, your husband still gets along with you in this way, even if he only accounts for one or two of them, you are a blessed person.

1. Hold the economic power of the family.

If after getting married, your husband takes the initiative to hand over the economic power of the family to you, and he will also take the initiative to report to you if he has any other income, which means that your husband trusts you very much and is willing to spend his life with you, you will be content! Nowadays, many families are generally in charge of their own finances, and the husband and wife jointly contribute to what valuables they want to buy. There are really too few husbands who take the initiative to hand over economic power.

2. Everything must be measured with you.

If your husband has to discuss everything with you, it means that he has you in his heart. For example: what to add to the home, large items, parents' pocket money, children's education, etc.

3. Friends will always take you with them.

My husband likes to take you to a friend's party or an event at work, and takes the initiative to introduce you to everyone. Such a husband is ***, in front of you, you know all about what friends he has, and there are no secrets at all.

4. Filial piety to both parents.

After getting married, your husband has a similar attitude towards both parents, and often goes home for dinner, often chats with his parents, and takes his parents out to play from time to time. If there is a conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, they will also reconcile in the middle and deal with the problem from a fair standpoint. A person who is good to his parents will not be too bad to his wife, and he knows that he is distressed, and he is definitely a good man.

5. Take the initiative to undertake housework.

Generally, the family is dominated by the female protagonist and the male protagonist is outside, and the husband generally does not do housework. If your husband takes the initiative to take care of the housework, clean the house neatly and tidy. Don't dislike your husband and mother-in-law, and do some trivial things every day.

It's a blessing for you to meet your husband who does housework.

6. Nag at you.

I'm afraid you'll be cold and hungry. Remember to let you add clothes when it's cold, and remember to remind you to eat when you order food. If you are going on a business trip, prepare a salute for you long in advance, for fear of forgetting to take this or that, and always remind you to bring your things with you.

When you arrive at the destination, I will call you **, telling you to pay attention to safety and remember to eat. When you meet such a husband, don't think he's verbose, he really loves you, please cherish such a person!

7. Don't dislike you for being fat.

Many mothers gain weight after giving birth. After weaning off breast milk, there is an idea, if your husband says at this time, what to lose fat, as long as it is not particularly fat, it doesn't matter, what you want to eat, the body is the most important. When you eat less, your husband silently puts vegetables in your bowl, although there are no sweet words, but this kind of love is the most sincere.

With such a husband, you can steal the fun!

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