Only when there is no fantasy can there be no suffering.

Why is fantasy the enemy?

Chinese education often describes young people's imagination as utopian, and they always do not understand that thinking is the ladder of progress. And a lot of thinking is the so-called utopian imagination. Albert Einstein said:

Imagination is far more important than knowledge because knowledge is limited, whereas imagination encapsulates everything in the world and drives progress. Imagination is the source of the evolution of knowledge. ”

2.How to not dream, to put it bluntly, is to keep yourself busy, so busy that you don't have time to think.

Young people can't be called young people if they don't fantasize, and the key is that they can't just dream without implementing them. Imagination is the characteristic of young people, and low eyes and hands are also the fault of young people, so you must not only be able to think, but also be able to do things.

Do things steadfastly, don't believe in pie in the sky, don't be greedy, do things in a high-profile manner, and be a low-key person.

Make a plan, and then do everything possible to implement it, no matter how hard it is, don't back down, and work hard to achieve your goals!

Utopia is also called dreams, let him earn his own money and endure some hardship. It's good to know that money doesn't come easily.

Start small, learn to be down-to-earth, and pay attention to the things in front of you.

Get out and see more. Get out and walk more.

Go to the mall as a salesperson

Nothing to worry about

It's good to be a customer service operator, although it may be tiring, but the salary is quite high

Go to a night college to supplement some social knowledge, and the ability of the post-22 generation to deal with things in society should be greatly improved.

If you keep going like this, you will regret it when you grow up, go learn some skills, don't waste your youth.

Find a goal, it should be worth your struggle, to chase Don't care about the efforts of 3721 to move towards the goal.

Or work for a few years and wait to get married, and be a good wife to others.

Then give yourself a chance to succeed or fail, I often tell my husband that people must not regret coming to life once in the next life.

Then move, we are in a similar situation.

Then establish a goal.

If someone comes up with a wonderful idea on a whim, but can keep working on it, even never giving up, then it can also become an achievable ideal. For example, the great inventor Thomas Edison is here.

In the process of inventing the electric light, he conscientiously summed up the failure experience of his predecessors, and after 50,000 experiments before and after, he experienced countless failures, but he was not discouraged, and finally made charcoal silk from cotton yarn and put it into a glass bulb, and the life span of the bulb reached the end.

By forty-five hours. Later, Edison put the carbonized bamboo silk into a glass bulb, and after the electricity was turned on, the bamboo light bulb was continuously lit for 1,200 hours, and its appearance marked the official opening of the history of human use of light bulbs.

Begin. Therefore, only if the heart is moved and the action is made, then the fantasy will also be transformed into an achievable ideal.

The result of comparing with others is that you have low self-esteem, and all your energy is used to compare, and there is no energy to improve yourself. Then, learn to compare with yourself, accumulate energy and ability, and after a few years, you must not compare with your friends, but your friends will compare with you. Be young, look at the present, then, you will lose more.

Truth be told, it can't be done! On the other hand, there can be a lot of space!