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Treat each other sincerely, four-word mantra. Don't always think about what you do to her, how she treats you when she treats you as a friend.
Haha, it took me a year to become friends with a classmate I like very much, (note, this Li's friend is not a general friend) She's a little cold, a slow type, but after really treating you as a friend, it's definitely good for you.
2.My good friend's criteria: no quarrels together, something to settle peacefully, sit together without talking, and don't feel lonely. It's the same as my own sister.
3. Just go with the flow.
4.Meet through your friends. I now have a friend I met through a friend, and the relationship is very strong.
5.Three or five friends are enough.
6。In fact, I can't say for sure, after becoming friends, I found out that they are the same kind of people, and they are all very good.
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Well, first of all, you must know that people cannot be perfect, there is no such good person around, this is the same for everyone, because if you always use your own standards to demand others, of course, you will not think that others are good. I'm also very introverted, but the interpersonal relationship is still good, it's not that I'm boasting, I have to have a different side to different people, it depends on whether you can look at people, I'm quite good at looking at people. If it sounds good, it is deep, and if it is bad, it is insidious!
But it's not that it's insincere. If you make friends, you still have to understand it, and sincerity and insidiousness are not contradictory. You can also make friends at home and play on the computer, the online world is virtual, no matter what you say, as long as someone communicates with you, it is a kind of talk!
Well, that's all there is to it ...
It's okay if you have a little humor, and people with a sense of humor make friends easily, don't they?
Then you should enrich yourself first. I don't know if you are a student or an office worker, no matter what it is, there are always some classmates or colleagues around you, you should first observe the characteristics and hobbies of these people. "Most of his and other friends have similar interests.
Usually you can talk about whatever these people like to talk about. If it's some formal occasions, it usually depends on his profession, and you try to get as close as possible to the topic of his profession. If it's a leader, you don't need to say anything, you just sit there and show that you care about what he has to say.
The other is age, for example, if the person you are going to chat with is a 40-year-old person, you can talk about topics such as which university is good, which major is good, and there is generally no mistake. If you are about 30 years old, you can talk about children and maintenance, if you are a man, you can also talk about investment, if the other party likes games, you can also talk about games or sports. If you're under 25 years old, generally speaking, you can talk about celebrities, which specialty stores have discounts, etc., and for men, most of them are games and sports, so there shouldn't be much deviation.
In short, it depends on who you are chatting with, simply put, you can't say those philosophies to migrant workers, and you can't speak Internet language to professors.
I wish you to find yourself.
Treat people with sincerity and have a clear conscience, so that the friends you make are reliable, otherwise no matter how much you have, it will not help.
It's easy to make friends, but it depends on what kind of friends you make. If you don't talk to people (but be careful not to share your personal information), they won't be annoyed, really! I don't recommend making friends online Drip la.
Gym. lixeg212lixeg doesn't know.
1 go. Do you still need to ask about this?Either people don't believe you, or you don't trust people, so there's no suspicion between friends, and stupid wisdom is a friend.
Tenryu Babu 2
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I believe that no matter what kind of environment you are in, if you want to make friends, you have to pay sincerely, not make friends for the sake of making friends, but on the basis of equality between both parties, respect each other, and maintain the relationship between two people, not by flattering each other but by attracting each other.
In college, everyone has grown up, experienced some baptism of people's hearts, become mature but also lost some childhood innocence, and the psychology of guarding against others is also heavier, everyone is not willing to pay really afraid that it is not worth it, they have a small abacus in their hearts, counting themselves and others, but if you want to make friends with someone, you must first pay your heart to show her, after a long time, she will naturally see your sincerity to make friends, in front of interests, Of course, try to put friends in front, think more about each other, tolerate each other more, don't worry about it, you have to fight for who is higher and who is lower, but also respect each other, both people should be equal. If you want to find a real friend, first of all, the three views are the same, only two people with the same three views can have a common topic and a sense of fit, and the three views are inconsistent will not become real friends. Making friends can not only ask for returns without paying, whether blindly giving or only asking for returns is not an equal relationship, there is also a return, real friends will not let you blindly pay without giving.
There are a lot of friends made in college, in addition to eating together and taking classes together every day, they never talk about their hearts, and they will not say anything unhappy to each other, so they are not real friends, real friends will have endless words, no matter how embarrassing things are, dare to tell each other, you know that she will not laugh at you, but will feel sorry for you.
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It is very easy to make friends in college, because the time in college life is more free, and there will be more like-minded friends around you, you can communicate with good friends in the dormitory, improve their mutual understanding, so that you can have better friends to support each other.
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The way of teaching in college is very different from before, and classmates don't get together very often.
To make friends, you must take the initiative, talk more in the group, add more classmates, and then slowly develop into friends.
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First of all, you have to remember that making friends is not a general friendship, not a bunch of so-called superficial friends, you should communicate your interests and hobbies with others, or let the other party know what your personality is, and then run in later. can be called true friends.
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There are so many people in college, so many men and women, and it's very easy to make friends, because you have a common topic, and you have the same profession to talk about, so you can be friends, and you have to start by getting to know each other, and then you become friends.
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If you want to make friends in college, you have to make friends in college, you have to join clubs, participate in a lot of clubs, so that you can make a lot of college friends.
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If you want to really make friends in college, you must cultivate the same interests and hobbies, have the same concepts, and give yourself sincerely.
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If you want to make friends in college, you have to have the opportunity to meet your friends first, and high-quality friends usually appear in competitions. You can choose the competition you are interested in.
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In fact, it is relatively easy to get a boyfriend in college, as long as you can take the initiative to communicate with the other person.
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How do I make friends in college? The child's admission to university means that he has entered the door of society, and he has to rely on his own strength to make friends, schoolmates, because when he lives in the school, his schoolmates are the same as his family, you treat them well, and they treat you well, so if you help your roommates, they will treat you kindly.
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In college, if you want to make real friends, you first need to know what your learning goals are. People who share your goals are likely to be your friends, and you also need to know your interests and hobbies, and like-minded people are likely to be true friends.
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Spend more time with each other, accommodate each other, have a few more heart-to-heart conversations, say something, understand more, become acquainted, slowly open your heart, and have a close relationship.
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Attend one or two clubs. This is the easiest and most effective way to meet people with similar interests. Don't be embarrassed to go it alone, be bold.
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The first and most important point is to be honest and not to be that kind of hypocritical person, and the second point is not to stay in the dormitory all day, but to go out for a while.
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Just don't be too high-profile, and then treat others more sincerely and kindly, and over time, everyone will gradually trust each other when they become good friends.
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I think the most important thing is to be sincere, whether it is with friends or family, the most important thing is to be sincere and sincere.
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First of all, you have three views of medicine and politics, and there are people around you who have three views, delete the two of you have the same hobbies, and there are topics that can be talked about together.
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Go to more events, meet more people, and there will always be people who share your interests and become friends.
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You can add more clubs or activities, and then meet friends and become good friends with them.
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Participate in on-campus activities: Participating in on-campus events is a great opportunity to meet new people. Joining student societies, participating in sports, participating in academic discussions, or volunteering activities can allow you to meet like-minded people.
Social: Expand your social circle with social platforms. Join a university's social group** or follow your classmates in the same grade so you can connect through chat and interaction.
Take the initiative to communicate with others: Be bold and take the initiative to communicate with others. Discussing topics with classmates, asking questions or asking for help in class, doing homework with roommates or classmates, or greeting people in public places are all great opportunities to network.
Join study groups: Join study groups or form your own study groups to discuss learning and help each other with your classmates so you can learn more about each other and make connections.
Support and respect each other: When interacting with people, be supportive and respectful. Listen to others' opinions and ideas, express interest in them, and give positive responses. By supporting and respecting each other, you can build deeper friendships.
Common hobbies and interests: Find people who share your interests and hobbies, join relevant interest clubs or participate in related activities. This way you can find like-minded people and it will be easier to build deep friendships.
Positive Expression of Friendship Intentions: If you have found a potential good friend, don't be shy or hesitant to express your willingness to friendship with them positively. Inviting them over for dinner, an event, or a study together can further deepen your relationship.
Patience and honesty: Building friendships takes time and patience. Be open to friendship development and be honest about sharing your thoughts and feelings. Honest and frank communication with friends can build stronger friendships.
Remember, making friends is a two-way process that requires you to be actively engaged and genuine. Don't be afraid to take the initiative to communicate with others, stay positive and optimistic, and trust that you will meet good friends who are connected to your heart.
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Go with the flow, be yourself, and make yourself good first, and you will always attract excellent people.
In fact, to put it bluntly, the relationship between people, in fact, is a kind of interest relationship, some friends feel more comfortable with you, you can let yourself relax, or have your company and be happier, he is also to get happiness from you, which is also a kind of interest relationship, or in another case, you have a certain skill that can let him learn, maybe it is very utilitarian, but on a higher level, it is actually a matter of lead and a solid thing.
Therefore, it is not recommended to give up oneself for the sake of utilitarianism in this world, which can improve a lot of time for oneself.
In college, you can express yourself appropriately in your self-introduction to attract more people, those who find you interesting will naturally approach you and understand you, you can also join more clubs, participate in club activities, make more like-minded friends with the same interests, and you can also participate in some departments to expand your social circle. But remember to do everything you do to make yourself clear that you don't want to make friends for the sake of making friends. Sometimes a right amount of independence can help you grow on your own.
The personality becomes a little lively, the words become a little humorous, the character becomes a little kinder, the three views become a little positive, it is great to do this, don't deliberately cater to others, rather be a maverick pig, than go with the flow and lose yourself.
If you're playing outside of your home or are introverted, your social circle may just be stuck in your dorm room. At this time, there is no need to be anxious, there is no need to cater to your roommates and play games, every day is crazy or something. Instead, I think it would be great to go to the library more often to improve myself, or read more books.
Remember to be sober in the world, in fact, many people are just passers-by in your life, there is no need to take others too seriously, but when making friends, remember to make friends with others sincerely, and you will be sincere.
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First, cherish the friendships you meet in the early stage of the improvement of life values.
No matter who it is impossible not to contact with the outside world, with the rapid era, the flow of ** integration, can better reflect the value of integration into the group, the belly still has goods, the employer does not want, on the contrary, enthusiastic and cheerful and lively hiring.
Second, the main focus in the university is to study and improve the personality charm of both internal and external students.
After completing the homework, participating in club activities in your spare time is to help improve your comprehensive ability, believe in your own work, and persist in living up to your efforts.
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