Why do people have no goals 18 25 years old come in and talk

Because there are so many things I want to do, when I don't know how to choose between choosing between trade-offs, I don't know what I want to do......

At this time, you will feel that you suddenly have no purpose in life.

Actually, it's not like that, it's just that at this time you need time to think, to compare, to make trade-offs, to make decisions, ......

I'm sure everyone will have such a period.

Everything will be fine!

Hey, this kind of question, how do you say it? Personally, the absence of goals is not because there are no dreams, desires, or desires, but because they all seem unattainable. And the bottom goal seems to be boring, so it feels like there's no goal.

As long as you face what you really want, no matter how far away or illusory, and don't run away from it, you will have a goal.

Find something to do that will help you in the future, such as if you like to study then continue to take exams, make time for research, for example, if you like technology, take time to learn technology. Learning is everywhere. For example, you can learn through a certain channel.

IE or books, materials or teachers, even those who are younger than you can be your teacher, as long as he knows more things than you.

That's society! Very realistic, the goal is to look at their own, on the current prices, income level will make many people feel that there is no goal in life, coupled with traditional Chinese education, leading to some parents to be conservative, for their children is to study hard to have a way out, so I think as long as you feel that you should do it, as long as it is not illegal, it is also a life experience of your own, you will naturally know what goal you should develop towards, think more about your own reasons, At the same time, you can refer to the opinions of the elders, after all, their life experience is richer than your own, and it can also make you take a little less detours! Good luck

I can only tell you that things are not as simple as we think.

We always simplify the problem, but in fact, what our parents say is right.

I used to be very confused. Why didn't my parents support me and didn't understand me, but now I'm 22 years old and have stepped into society on my own. I understood my parents' feelings and felt sorry for them.

When you open up a little more, you will understand, the society is sinister, the human heart rests on the belly, sometimes you can't survive if you think about it carefully, but you have to persevere... Hey, I think God has it. I hope you don't think too much, the more you think, the more tired you will live

Actually, I can't say that I don't have a goal, I used to think that I didn't have a goal, what should I do when I go out in the future. But when you dedicate yourself to a major you love (well, that's a college thing), you'll find out what kind of goals you should have. You just need to study hard now, and then you will like a certain subject, and then you will be admitted to the ideal university for further study, and you will find your own position!

First of all, you must find your own interests, in the future life, what you want to do, what you want to get, this is the goal, if you don't know, then look at what you have now, think about what you can do in your current state, if you compare with the world around you and feel that your ability is insufficient, then try to prepare more, enrich yourself, improve your ability, and know what you want in the future, what you want to do, so that you will not only have the goal but no ability.

Life is like morning dew. We all come to this world sooner or later, and after a hurried journey, we all have to go to the same place, and this journey is the whole of life, and from this point of view, all people are equal. This statement is not a negative view of life, and only by understanding this can we better treat life and cherish life.

Comparing hearts to hearts, everyone is meeting difficulties and challenges, and everyone's life is not simple, whether the status is humble or noble, it is important and worthy of respect.

People are always like this, there will always be a period of confusion This also proves that you are more sensible and can think about things If you are still studying, try harder If you are working, sooner or later you will solve the things in your heart Reading and holding a book all the time There is no way to solve the doubts in your heart But it is also a matter of time.

Simplicity, self-confidence, do what you want to do", this is my life motto, as long as you make up your mind to do something, you will be able to do it well. Everyone will go through this stage of your current situation, young and not mature enough to think. When you really think about it, you won't be bothered like this.

Don't think about it so much, I thought that way at the time, but it was just a way of thinking, a view of life, an understanding, a rebellion, and a growth process unique to that age. Now that I have graduated from college, I have found a job I like, and I have done it diligently and steadfastly, and living is a good life. Down-to-earth!!

I don't know what your family situation is, but I used to have the same knot with you, and now I'm married, brother, I'm not saying that you, your life is the same as everyone else, I'll tell you about me, my three brothers, I'm the eldest, and my heart is imprinted with the figure of my parents suffering for us, and when I was thirteen years old, I said to myself, I must work hard, work hard, and let my parents live a happy life...What I want to say is, brother, there is no mountain that cannot be crossed, there is no river that cannot be crossed, once when I was seventeen years old, I thought about opening a shop, I thought about doing business, and I wanted to start a small business...I was disappointed that I didn't understand my parents, but time made me and my parents' hearts stronger...

Life is really good.

People have no goals in the first place, only when we have needs or under a certain pressure will we give ourselves a goal to achieve our goals!

The goal is too high to achieve, and after a long time, it becomes depressed.

The goal is low, easy to achieve, not much fun.

Goal is really just a height that you set for yourself

Only by grasping the present can we look forward to the future.

Then you should go to the social field to hone a little bit more so that you can improve your social experience.

Knowledge can change fate, but it is not the key, life should not only learn knowledge, but also learn the way to survive. Step into the community as soon as possible, where you will meet more and learn more. Some of the skills of dealing with people must be exercised as soon as possible in the society, and these things will be used wherever you are in the future.

Knowledge is only one aspect, since the foundation is weak, don't stumble on it, to observe, to discover, life is full of opportunities. There are many undergraduates who graduate for only one or two thousand yuan, which is not interesting, but it can be seen that the ability in the heart is the real ability. Come on!!

Keep experiencing and precipitating!

Listen to them when you're fine, here are some of the questions you're thinking about helping you solve.

1. Work can bring a salary (if there is no salary, then a person can't do anything at home, such as friends come to you to hang out, such as who gets married on their birthday, and at that time they will regret that they don't have a job).

2. If you work, you won't be looked down upon by others (if a person doesn't work, not only your parents but also relatives and friends will treat you with strange eyes, because I have rested at home for more than half a year, so many people have not said it, but the pressure on me is heavier than Mount Tai, and I can't bear the pressure - try to find a job).

3. Work can enrich one's work experience (only in the work can you learn a lot of professional knowledge, I used to think, I want to do interior design, then I will learn my ability online at home, and then I will go to work differently?) The internship salary is also not enough, and now I realize that only what I have learned in real work is the knowledge of practice and truth).

4. Work can get a broad network of people (this is undoubtedly a necessary part of life in terms of career or life, a person will only fight and kill in online games at home, and pay more attention to righteousness, but when you get married, there are several guilds of brothers to celebrate you, and when you encounter difficulties at work, several guilds of righteousness and family brothers will lend money to pull you along).

So work is a must for everyone, and parents will always grow old! Regardless of whether the landlord is mm or gg, since you can't change your fate, let's change your psychology!

If you are not interested in anything now, then I advise you not to look for a job with such an impetuous mentality, you might as well calmly and independently think about what work you do that will make you happy, if you still don't, you can try some strange work that you have never done before, and maybe in the process you will find something that you strive for.

Hello, have confidence in yourself, mindset is everything. You can ask me.