Mother Jia likes Lin Daiyu very much, why did she finally let Xue Baochai marry?

1, Daiyu's body is not good, for the sake of Baoyu's future life, she can't be straightened. But the old lady likes her, and there is a great possibility of doing a second room.

2, Mrs. Wang didn't want to lose power, because it was Sister Feng who was in charge at that time, and if Baochai married Baoyu, she could take back the rights to her own family.

3. Baochai's ability to deal with people is relatively strong, and the senior management is praised for it.

4. You can refer to the family relationship--- Bao Dai and the two are closely related.

5. From Jia Zheng's attitude, it can be seen that Jia's Group has a very clear orientation towards Baoyu's future, that is, career orientation. Although Baochai and Daiyu are both talented women, in comparison, Baochai can better help Baoyu embark on a career path.

6, Baochai wants to compete with Daiyu, and there is a relatively powerful force behind her, which is of considerable help to her success.

Although this result is not quite satisfactory, in terms of the form of the book, Gao E's writing also has a certain reason.

Well, that's all I have to think about for now.

According to expert inferences.

The reason why Xue Baochai can marry Jia Baoyu is because Jia's mother died.

Wang Xifeng should like Daiyu.

But Jia Lian divorced her.

Seriously, I suggest you do your own research, because there are a thousand Dream of Red Mansions for a thousand people.

I also want to tell you what I have to say, but I think that I can say it clearly without one sentence or two sentences, one paragraph or two paragraphs.

If you are looking for it, you can still find examples of Xue Baochai's love being better than Lin Daiyu's in Jia's mother's team, for example, Xue Baochai's birthday chose Jia's mother's favorite food and drama points, which made Jia's mother happy, Baoyu was beaten and everyone went to visit Baoyu, Baoyu was originally to praise Daiyu, but Jia's mother praised Xue Baochai in person, and never mentioned Daiyu.

Because of the family relationship.

The marriage between the four major families strengthens their position with each other.

Expand your power even more.

Marry Xue to Jia.

It is beneficial to strengthen this relationship.

Although Jia's mother loves Lin.

But because Lin was weak and sickly.

Jia Mu thinks she doesn't have a long time.

So there was no idea of matching her to Baoyu.

Because it was all written by Gao E, Cao Xueqin's original intention was not like that at all.

In "Dream of Red Mansions" (also known as "The Story of the Stone"), Jia Baoyu is a wealthy, well-educated, idealistic young man who is the protagonist of **. He fell deeply in love with Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai, both of whom were important people in the ** to dismantle the Lu book. However, Sidphge was unable to marry both at the same time for several reasons.

First of all, this ** is set in ancient China, where society, especially the upper class, did not accept polygamy. Jia Baoyu came from a wealthy and prominent family, and it was socially unacceptable if he had multiple wives.

Secondly, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are both deeply in love with Jia Baoyu, and it is very difficult to share Jia Baoyu emotionally with another woman.

Third, both Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are portrayed as strong-willed, independent women who will not be willing to share Jia Baoyu with another woman, and are likely to refuse such an arrangement.

In short, Jia Baoyu could not marry Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai at the same time in Dream of Red Mansions, because this was unacceptable in ancient Chinese society and emotionally difficult for them, and both women would refuse such an arrangement.

Because Jia Baoyu can only marry one wife, and he only loves Lin Daiyu alone, he only respects Xue Baochai, so he can't marry two at the same time.

There are two reasons, the first man, Jia Baoyu's social status is not high enough, he has no title and fame, and his father is only a member of the Ministry of Labor. The second woman's background is relatively too high, Lin Daiyu's Lin family has been a liehou for several generations, and Lin Ruhai was born as a flower. Even if Lin Daiyu marries Jia Baoyu as his wife, it is a low marriage, and in ancient times, it was important to pay attention to high men marrying women, and low marriages, if Lin Ruhai did not die, Jia Baoyu would not even have the qualifications to marry Qiao Lu or Lin Daiyu.

Although Xue Jiaxiaowu was born as a merchant, he was an imperial merchant of the Ministry of Internal Affairs, this is the servant of the emperor of the Eight Classics, and in the background of the Qing Dynasty, most of the Ministry of Internal Affairs were born in the Three Banners of the Manchu Dynasty, and the emperor's slave was not able to make a concubine for the white-bodied son of a member of the Ministry of Labor.

In Dream of Red Mansions, in fact, Jia Baoyu's family is a big family, and Jia Baoyu can only have one wife at that time, and they actually see Lin Daiyu who is not used to renting a bad house.

This is because Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are not ordinary people, and it is difficult to marry the same husband. And Jia Baoyu is also more dedicated.

Lin Ruhai disturbed Lin Daiyu with more than 2,000 blind travel 10,000 taels of dowry, and was used by the Jia family to repair the Grand View Garden, Mrs. Wang has always looked down on Lin Daiyu, but she can't pay the money, Xue Baochai entered Beijing to choose to enter the palace, she can't look down on the big face treasure, Lin Daiyu's character can't be the housewife, Qiao Dan Jia Baoyu has always regarded herself as a girl, and Lin Daiyu is a girlfriend love is not love, and attacking and Keqing is for desire, a group of children play at home.

It seems that Lin Daiyu is here to repay her kindness with tears with her eyes, Bu is blind, her tears are dry, and her life stops, and Xue Baochai follows Shi Zun from the elders to marry Jia Baoyu, who is unlearned, unskilled, and inactive. Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu have a lot of love but can't be husband and wife, Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu have no love but get married. Cao Xueqin:

fly in the ointment". There is no such thing as perfection.

Since ancient times, the love of the husband (can not be shared equally by two women), even if the opposite sex attracts (Bao Dai), the same sex must be repellent, just like the sun and the moon cannot appear in the same place at the same time....

There are differences in age and emotion.

Because Baoyu has Sister Lin in her heart.

It's not that Xue Baochai wants to choose Jia Bao to imitate Wang Yu, there has never been an ambiguous shooting between them, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai are the orders of their parents, the words of the matchmaker, and the marriage arranged by the elders is a great filial marriage!

It's safe to say that there was a time when Baochai really couldn't help but fall in love with Baoyu and showed extraordinary enthusiasm.

In ancient times, they would listen to their parents' matchmakers, and men and women who reached the age of marriage were basically unable to make decisions about their marriage, so the two had to obey their parents' arrangements. Xue Baochai also married Chang and quarreled with Li to Bao Nai Chi Yu for the sake of the family, but he also had a good impression of Baoyu.

The person Jia Baoyu really wants to marry is Lin Daiyu.

Jia Baoyu has been deeply loved by Jia's mother since she was a child, travels in a gentle and wealthy township, loves to make fat powder, and is close to her sisters and maids at home; He and Lin Daiyu were childhood sweethearts, confidants of each other, and developed into a pure relationship that is rare in the world; He valued affection rather than courtesy, and befriended Qin Zhong, Jiang Yuhan, Liu Xianglian, King Beijing and other sentient men.

He was fond of the poetry of Yu Sui and the omission of temperamental literature such as Qufu, disgusted with the Four Books and Bagu Wen, criticized Cheng Zhu Lixue, and called those feudal literati who pursued the imperial examination and career economy "Lu beetle". The women he admired were dead and scattered; He married Xue Baochai in a daze under the family arrangement, causing Lin Daiyu to die in tears.

Jia Baoyu's appearance description:

He wears a purple and gold crown with a bundle of hair inlaid on his head, a two-color gold butterfly with a two-color gold butterfly and a red arrow sleeve, a colorful silk knot with a long spike palace silk, and a stone blue flower eight groups of forging row tassel gowns, and a small court boot with a blue satin foundation.

The face is like the moon of the Mid-Autumn Festival, the color is like the flower of spring dawn, the sideburns are like a knife, the eyebrows are like ink paintings, the nose is like a hanging gall, and the eyes are like autumn waves. Although he is angry and sometimes seems to laugh, that is, he is staring and affectionate.

The short hair around the head is turned into small braids, the red silk ends, and the hair is accumulated to the top of the fetus, and the editor-in-chief has a big braid, black and bright as lacquer, from the top to the tip, a string of four large beads, with a vertical hail to open the gold eight treasure pendant corners, wearing a silver and red half-worn coat, still carrying collars, treasures, name locks, amulets and other things, the bottom half of the pine flowers sprinkled with flowers and silk trouser legs, brocade edge elastic ink socks, thick-soled red shoes.

The more the face is like Fu powder, and the lips are like grease; Turn to be affectionate, and the language is like a smile. A natural charm, all at the tip of the eyebrows; There are thousands of feelings in life, and they are all in the corners of their eyes. Looking at its appearance, it is the best, but it is difficult to know its details.

In spite of oneself!

Baoyu's body can't help himself: Gao E's continuation of the book is completely unknown to Baoyu, Wang Xifeng's use of the package adjustment trick, replaced Daiyu with Baochai, when the hijab was removed, Baoyu went crazy....Gao Yi was not cruel enough to let Daiyu watch Erbao get married, and Daiyu was already dead by then....Daiyu is very lonely, and she still doesn't know what is going on until she dies, and she still resents Baoyu. From this moment on, Baoyu became the most lonely person!

Because it is a very painful thing to be misunderstood by the people you love!

Xueqin's body can't help herself: it's a beautiful thing to have a lover who eventually becomes a family, how can Xueqin not know! From the social background, literary effect, and tragic tone of the book, Baoyu cannot marry Daiyu, and this perfect and vulgar ending is unfair to Xueqin, Bao Daichai, and even us.

It's not something he can decide, it's a microcosm of feudal society.

Daiyu is dead. It's the same with immortality. Parents' orders.