Who s going to help me analyze this relationship?

After reading what you said, to be honest, I don't support my suggestion either.

It's all about marriage, and you've never even been to his house, and you haven't even figured out his parents or anything, which means that you have never fundamentally understood him, and you can't prove that what he said is true, and you are gambling with happiness and joking with happiness, and what if he lied to you?What if he had a wife before?Maybe after you go to his house, he will be the father of other children (maybe not so exaggerated, but there are many such things now), you should at least go to his house to see what the situation is, not to see his family's family background As you said, you don't care what his family background is, you must at least know the truth of the matter, this is the minimum self-protection, you haven't even done this, just talk about marriage?

It's a little too casual.

Sentimentality is nothing, but be sensible, be smart, sentimentality can't make you a fool, otherwise you will be hurt, and you will also affect your relatives, he is important, is he not important, and his relatives are not important?

Learn to be kind to yourself, be kind to all the people who care about you, and don't break the hearts of so many people for the sake of your own negligence

I think you should go to his house first, see his parents, and also respect the elderly, maybe he has something unspeakable. Maybe he's lying to you at all, first figure out these basic facts and conditions before considering feelings.

If there's a problem, then you don't have to think about it so much, it's complicated.

If it's okay, as you said, you think about him so much, you care about him, you can test him in the test, you can spend some time with him.

And this situation is all his fault You shouldn't be in a hurry to contact him It should be that you ignore him and he takes the initiative to contact you He's anxious about you Things are reversed Some things can be forgiven Some things can't be too laissez-faire He has other women, is it just a sentence?You just let him go?It's good to care about understanding, don't spoil it

If he really loves you, he will come to you again to beg you, and you can see that you love him very much, then you don't deceive yourself, and he boldly continue to love each other, after all, the future of people is unknown, and it should be more practical to pay attention to the immediate happiness.

If he doesn't hit ** and doesn't come to you, then you can deal with it at your discretion and consider whether he really loves you and whether he deserves your love.

But I'm sure he'll turn back, it's only a matter of time.

If you can love, you can love, no matter what the future holds, at least let yourself be happy in front of you!!I envy you to be together.

Let's start with the first question. It's not surprising that the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds, and this woman is really shameless.

The second question: It depends on how far he is with the woman now? If he is bored and cohabiting, you should give up.

I don't think you should put too much hope in him, girls should still be independent, it's not that they can't live without anyone.

If he wants to marry you, he will not give a woman such a swinging gesture.

And if a man cares a lot about a woman, he will be eager to tell him about the situation at home.

Don't care too much about him, don't lose yourself, in the world of feelings, the more you care about him, the less he cares about you.

Sometimes being together and breaking up is just a matter of one sentence, girls generally believe that a love will continue, boys generally have strong self-esteem, and it is common for good horses not to eat back grass. I broke up with my girlfriend some time ago. She proposed the breakup, and a week later she told me that she missed me again.

But I didn't accept her, because the word breakup hurt me very badly, to be honest, I was very tired with her, because she was a more stubborn and disobedient girl who loved to play with her temper, but I had a sense of responsibility to take good care of her. But one day she told me that she was going to break up with me, and I thought what was the purpose of my previous kindness to her? often coaxed her, often still let her lose her temper, and in the end she broke up as if she had done unpaid hard work.

Although I think she still loves me and wants to be with me, and I can't forget her, I can't accept her anymore. Women need security, and so do men. If the word breakup is so easy to say, why should I accept her?

Maybe after accepting her, she will say to me one day: Let's break up!

Since you have summed it up with him, and it is still bad, it proves that you are still disappointed in him.

It's just that you are in a four-year relationship after all, and it's impossible for you to let go all at once, and you've gotten used to it after a long time together, and you're used to each other's existence. In fact, breaking up is also changing the habit of liking that person.

Maybe after a long time or you meet a good man again, you won't miss him that way. Try to keep yourself busy and try not to think about these things. Already 24 believe that you are capable of handling it well. Stop holding your phone and waiting for his message.

There can be another one behind your back, which shows that he is not only a matter of character, he is not responsible, at least for you.

Now you still can't let go, but time will change everything, trust your own decision, give up!

Kindness... It's complicated, so think about it.