What should I do if my boyfriend hits me and it s not very serious?

Updated on healthy 2024-02-09
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, what you need is to be tolerant of each other, He really loves you, but his bottom line may have been touched by you, and his temper has changed. Sometimes it's normal to have a little fight, but after being together for a long time, you will find more shortcomings, and you don't have the feeling you had when you first fell in love. You have to try to change yourself, starting with your appearance, and changing into you that he doesn't know.

    Then change yourself from your heart, and feel that you are his favorite, and he is also your favorite, without any suspense. It's best to start with your temper and change slowly. It's best to control and don't fight, maybe your man doesn't like you like this.

    You try to change for him, and I think a man who really loves you will appreciate your good intentions.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think it's a big deal for a girl to beat a boy" This idea is not right, men and women are equal, and they can't be beaten. "I used to hit my boyfriend hysterically" This is not good. "I'll just pull the steering wheel with my hand," it's your fault again, it's dangerous, and you can't do it next time.

    He's not a man who gets worse, "Originally, my boyfriend was either capable of making me dare not get angry... Otherwise, I'm still very gentle no matter how unreasonable I am... That's not the way to go. Don't compare your current boyfriend with the previous one, you are not "tolerating him" but he is tolerating you now, you don't go too far, he won't tolerate you then.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't think that if he loves you, you will treat yourself as a little temper, if he is a little disgusted with you, any woman can replace you, don't pull the steering wheel and joke with life in the future! Give him face in a public place! It's okay to give him a look when he goes home and opens the room!

    What's more, it will stick.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Please respect men! To respect a man is to respect yourself.

    When two people are together, they are methodical.

    It's not coquettish, beating, or scolding all day long.

    Don't think that a woman can do whatever she wants.

    Men are also human beings, and even if they love you very much, they have a bottom line.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He's your boyfriend, not your slave, who can make you scream and drink, fight and scold and always bow down in front of you.

    You are so brutal and disrespectful to others, how can you possibly find a man who is willing to love you.

    People who don't respect others will never be respected by others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is difficult to tear your face and then make up for it, if you want to correct yourself, you may also change when you become a boyfriend, think about the pros and cons yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as they are tolerant of each other, I believe it will be much better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he really loves you, he will never hit you. A breakup is good for both of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to strengthen communication, if it really doesn't work, just break it up To be honest, I look down on this kind of man who beats women.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you make a very serious mistake, your boyfriend hits you, and if you can't forgive, you just break up.

    How can I get back if my boyfriend is disappointed in me?

    1. Re-understand yourself, develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses.

    After the breakup, you need to reflect on yourself, what did you do wrong when you had a conflict, causing your boyfriend to become more and more disappointed in you. Is it because he is too willful and vexatious?

    Or do you lose yourself because you don't have principles? Find the root cause and work to overcome it. In addition, think about your own strengths, think back to when you were in love, what did your boyfriend appreciate about you, did it change after you fell in love?

    Re-recognize yourself, change your shortcomings and develop your strengths, so that your boyfriend can change his opinion of you.

    2. Give your boyfriend free space.

    A woman's desire to control is the most unacceptable to men, and many women will make such mistakes in love, thinking about worrying about their boyfriends abandoning them all day long, so women can't help but send him a message to grasp their boyfriend's whereabouts. When the two are together, they can't help but look through their boyfriend's mobile phone ......These behaviors will make your boyfriend feel that you don't trust him, and gradually he will get bored and try to break free from your control.

    The most taboo thing about love is that couples don't trust each other, every man needs an independent space, doesn't want to be disturbed by anyone, and doesn't like women to control themselves too much. He has a circle of friends of his own, and if you are too strict, it will make him feel very stressed. What men need is freedom, as a girlfriend, they should trust each other, and keeping a certain distance can also increase the sense of mystery!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I can appease my boyfriend properly. Boyfriend may be very angry in his heart, but because he likes you and is unwilling to hurt you, he can only punish himself, at this time you don't disdain it, but stand next to your boyfriend to provide him with care and warmth, so that each other gets along more harmoniously, when your boyfriend is very angry, you don't want to provoke each other, but two people have a good talk, in order to eliminate the anger of both parties as soon as possible.

    You can find a mutual friend of both parties to mediate, and then quarrel at this time, which will only expand the conflict, and can allow a third party to intervene, such as someone who knows both of them, to persuade your boyfriend, after all, in anger, no matter how much you say, your boyfriend may not accept it, if your boyfriend keeps hitting himself, it is likely to lead to internal injuries in the body and leave sequelae, and resolve the negative emotions in the boyfriend's heart in time, so that the boyfriend does not punish himself.

    You can communicate and interact with your boyfriend calmly. It's not a big deal after many problems are explained clearly, but there are some misunderstandings between couples that will inevitably lead to conflicts, and your boyfriend also has violent tendencies, at this time you can hold your boyfriend, your arms can make your boyfriend feel the purest love, and can reconcile the contradictions between the two sides very well, you must not ignore it on the side, then your boyfriend will only hurt himself more and more.

    We must not look for violent tendencies when we are looking for a partner, which is very easy to cause domestic violence, and it is difficult to maintain the relationship between two people, if there is violence in a marriage, then the relationship will also break down, we don't care too much about the other half's wealth, more importantly, look at each other's character and those reliable people get along together, life will be much happier, couples must communicate and respect each other, don't worry about some trivial things, You can't solve the problem with your fists.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can take the initiative to leave the other party, which means that the other party does not have a particularly good character in life, and if you live with this kind of person for a long time, you will let yourself be hurt.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He is saying such things now, but there is no guarantee that it will not change in the future. I suggest that you should break up with him immediately.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you must counsel him more when you encounter this situation, he may have some problems with his psychological state, he doesn't beat you, he must love you, so he is not willing to use violent means to hurt you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend hits you, I think you should choose to break up, which means that your boyfriend is violent, and the man who hits you is unforgivable, because I think the relationship between the two people is equal, and if the other party hits you, you should be brave enough to refuse.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    should break up immediately, because there was domestic violence before getting married, which shows that this man is really not a particularly good man. Also, if you really love the other person, then you should tell the other person not to do it, because doing so may cause you to leave the other person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In such a situation, you should break up decisively, because your boyfriend has the psychology of domestic violence, and there is no point in being with such a man, and there are only 0 times and countless times to beat you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You should break up right away. Because your boyfriend has domestic violence, never forgive, because domestic violence is only the first and the umpteenth.

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