Ask for advice on how to deal with selfish people

Let's put it this way, from the perspective of family affection, your uncle chooses your aunt to unite, which shows that they love each other, as a junior, you must respect your elders, although it is impossible to love Wu and Wu, but everything is okay in the face of your uncle;

On the other hand, you can choose when your uncle is alone when you intersect with your uncle's family, and as for your aunt, you should avoid it if you don't want to; Her speech is her freedom, even if some words are unbearable, then forget it when the wind blows; Anyway, everyone knows who she is, if you follow the bar, you will be out of proportion for a while, and it will also embarrass your uncle, after all, he is related to you by blood;

The coming day is long, as long as you do your part, even if she picks it, she can't pick up the big waves, out of sight is clean, just show your demeanor, dissipate your anger, I believe you can figure it out.

I wish your father a soon** family, and happiness and health.

This is a question of the public saying that the public is reasonable, the mother says the mother-in-law is reasonable, you are standing in your father's perspective to talk about brotherhood, your aunt is standing in the perspective of feeling sorry for his husband, your aunt is probably afraid that your father will drag on for a long time, so she can't bear to let your uncle stay up late, in fact, you don't have to ask your uncle to stay here every night, every other day or once every three days, because people are in your house but sleep next door, in fact, it is your mother who is tired, but nominally your aunt also thinks that your uncle is tired every day, it is better not to let him stay here every day, But if he is here, he will stay in your father's room, and take care of him for a night, so that your mother can rest for a night, unless your father is going to die on the day he is going to die, otherwise the living also need to rest, to be honest, if you can ask a nurse, you might as well ask one, otherwise your mother should be the most physically and mentally tired.

To the selfish man is to be more selfish than he is to him.

Selfish people will always be punished.

Selfishness is the root of unhappiness.

Selfishness, as a continuous behavior, although it can get a moment of pleasure, is to make people lose the ability to be happy. I am not satisfied because I am selfish. Because he is selfish, he is cruel to those close to him.

Because of selfishness, he loses the respect and love of his friends and relatives. So I am unhappy, but I have never understood that the source of unhappiness actually comes from myself.

Selfishness is self-centeredness, living and doing things according to one's own interests and preferences. Generally, I put my emotions and thoughts above the world, and I feel that I am the king of the world. Ordinary selfish people can probably tolerate it.

Paranoid and selfish people never pay attention to the suffering of others and only see everything as all.

Selfish and bigoted, it is an extremely dangerous existence. Because all relationships in the world will not be absolutely stable. Once the tolerance for selfishness exceeds the threshold, there are extremely dire consequences, and the consequences are twofold.

The selfish person will fall into the thorny effect, and in the later life, it will be even more difficult to extricate himself. There will be more to lose. Therefore, so many husbands and wives, friends, lovers, these seemingly stable relationships will fall apart at some point.

Freezing three feet, not a day's cold. And this is not the most terrible, the selfish person will infect these paranoia to others, leading to the misfortune of a group of people. Don't ask me how I know, escape the thorny effect of selfishness, you never know how much effort and wall you have to put in.

Paranoid people are irritable. It's easy to get angry and angry about some small things, but in fact, they are all small things that can't be smaller. Probably because of selfishness, because I don't think from other people's point of view.

Paranoid people are very controlling, and if a person is not in his arrangement, he will be insecure, anxious, painful, and angry. Paranoid people are pessimistic, always worrying about everything they shouldn't worry about, and dragging their hearts down. Drag yourself down.

Selfish and paranoid people, unhappy. Happiness is rarely obtained. Because those close to them tolerate it and don't say it, most of them say it and it's useless.

Friends drift away, and they can't keep the good ones. And there are parents and children, and parents don't talk about it. The child is to be avoided far away, and this is not the most terrible, the most terrible thing is that this selfishness and paranoia invade the bone marrow, and the child is also unfortunate.

And this selfish person is only afraid of unfortunate misfortune in the end.

The saddest thing in the world is nothing more than that relatives are not hurting, friends are not loved, children are not filial, and partners are not accompanied until old age.

However, the selfish person can still be saved, for example, at this time he begins to recognize his own selfishness. Recognize the harm your actions are doing to those around you. Then start changing.

All relationships in the world are not going to be impregnable. Parents will leave, children will have their own families, and friends will have their own lives. If a husband and wife cannot get along with each other, they will also get divorced.

So what kind of life you have is completely dependent on yourself. In the same way, no one is responsible for your life, it is your responsibility. If you are not happy, ask yourself if you are always in a state of selfishness and paranoia.