Is there such a problem? Is it a third person, or is it the main character?

The third party, commonly known as Xiao San, was an instant hit by the rise of a well-known electric ancestor drama, and most of the time it is used to describe the destruction of other people's families and happy women, which is a derogatory term, of course, men are also applicable, just like a supporting role in a movie; This kind of supporting role is often thought of hiding in the dark corner, although living a good life, but still a big negative character, and the injured protagonist on the other side will earn the tears of the audience, although most of them end in failure, but still get many blessings; And the junior turned positive, successfully upgraded to the protagonist, and became the new master of the eyebrows; has seen a lot and tasted a lot, and people are talking about whether it is the so-called Xiaosan's cheeky welcome, or the secret manipulation of the other protagonist; In other words, the appearance of a third party may make the protagonist's ordinary or crumbling feelings rekindle, compared with the existing protagonist, only to find that this is the most suitable, many third parties are passive, at the beginning did not know that there was another person around her (he) in their hearts, and when they couldn't extricate themselves, they were told that they were later, but they couldn't get out of the long-term love nest, only to choose to leave or face the next storm; It is inconvenient to evaluate the third party here whether it is good or bad, whether it is the protagonist or the supporting role, after all, some people are happy and some people are sad, everyone has a balance of human nature, right and wrong, the good or bad acting skills of the actors, or it is up to the audience and time to judge.

Perhaps, there is always someone you can't let go, so that you are always thinking about it. But you have to know that there is nothing in this world that you can't let go, and if it hurts, you will naturally let go. A cup of boiling water is overflowing, and if you happen to be holding this cup that is overflowing with boiling water, you will let go immediately.

Some people say that every girl is a third party, because after she combines with her husband, it becomes an obstacle between him and his mother, which is also the reason why many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are not handled well; The third party, commonly known as Xiao San, was an instant hit by the rise of a well-known electric ancestor drama, and most of the time it is used to describe the destruction of other people's families and happy women, which is a derogatory term, of course, men are also applicable, just like a supporting role in a movie; This kind of supporting role is often thought of hiding in the dark corner, although living a good life, but still a big negative character, and the injured protagonist on the other side will earn the tears of the audience, although most of them end in failure, but still get many blessings; And the junior turned positive, successfully upgraded to the protagonist, and became the new master of the eyebrows; has seen a lot and tasted a lot, and people are talking about whether it is the so-called Xiaosan's cheeky welcome, or the secret manipulation of the other protagonist; In other words, the appearance of a third party may make the protagonist's ordinary or crumbling feelings rekindle, compared with the existing protagonist, only to find that this is the most suitable, many third parties are passive, at the beginning did not know that there was another person around her (he) in their hearts, and when they couldn't extricate themselves, they were told that they were later, but they couldn't get out of the long-term love nest, only to choose to leave or face the next storm; It is inconvenient to evaluate the third party here whether it is good or bad, whether it is the protagonist or the supporting role, after all, some people are happy and some people are sad, everyone has a balance of human nature, right and wrong, the good or bad acting skills of the actors, or it is up to the audience and time to judge.

From the perspective of theory and morality, the one who is late is the third party, the one who destroys the happiness of others; But from the perspective of love, the one who is not loved is the third party, because she blocks two people who love each other.

In the eyes of a third party, he may be the protagonist, and the protagonist sometimes feels that he is a third party. Now the concept has long been turned upside down.

It's up to you to see it!

<> "Why is it a third party?

The third party can be divided into two kinds: passive and active, knowing that the other party has a pair of tomatoes, but still investing, this is the active third party, this kind of people often tremble with a kind of craving, a kind of addiction. There will be a general performance:

Loving the other person and constantly attacking him, questioning him for being unfair to him, will have a complex attitude towards his lover, sometimes wanting to attack, sometimes very childishly longing for reconciliation.

But there will also be a strong sense of inferiority, guilt and guilt, and they will condemn themselves and constantly punish themselves when they think that they are doing bad things and do not need to be condemned by others. In this kind of love triangle, the key to psychology is not to fight each other, the key is to compete for people, and I will hope that this kind of decisive battle will never end.

But this is not a simple competitive relationship, on the contrary, there is ambivalence, on the one hand, the desire to succeed in competition, the desire to obtain true love; On the other hand, there is a fear of success, accompanied by a strong sense of guilt, guilt, and punishment. In the triangular fantasy, it is the desire to reconcile the relationship in the early years.

Therefore, he constantly takes the initiative to create a relationship between sadistic and masochistic Lu Bi, reproduces the early imbalance of intimacy, and wants to make up for it. The imbalance of love gives birth to a third-party complex, longing for someone to love you more than all, rather than the one who is ignored and abandoned. The more we perceive and understand ourselves, and see our deep-seated needs, perhaps we will be able to receive love without repeating the mistakes of the past and getting hurt over and over again.