My girlfriend said something that made me very depressed

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Stupid! She's scared and worried that you're going to break up! It's stupid. As stupid as my boyfriend.

    I also just graduated from high school. We are accepted into different universities. Originally, we applied for the same choice, but I recorded the first choice, and his score was too low, so I asked the second choice.

    I really want to cry without tears!! ~

    I'm so worried! At that time, everyone will have fewer opportunities to contact and more people to know. Feelings will fade!

    As I said, I don't know how long we'll be able to make it out! How I wish he would say, rest assured! No, we'll always be together!

    It's not like I'm not thinking about college life, I'm looking for one. But I don't have confidence in myself, I think, your girlfriend probably thinks the same as me!

    Maybe you can't give him a promise, but you can give her some confidence! Talk to her about some reassuring words

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She loves you, and when she gets drunk, she often says what is in her heart What a woman says when she is sober is not her true words He told you that we will definitely break up in the future Are you sad to hear? You are sad and she can feel that you love her She is also afraid of breaking up My wife used to make me sad and sad She can read how much I love her when she says I am sad Before she made up her mind to marry me Hehe Don't think too much about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Actually, she loves you.

    It is because I love you.

    That's why she's like this.

    She's worried about your future.

    She was scared. So sometimes say things that are so realistic that they hurt a bit.

    It's to remind yourself.

    In order to prevent possible future injuries.

    I love you on the one hand, and worry about you on the other.

    In fact, her heart is very bitter.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let it be.

    Who can predict what will happen next?

    Besides, none of you have stabilized now.

    Of course, it didn't work out.

    It's just that your girlfriend might be a little too straight.

    It makes you feel a little unsure.

    Don't think too much about it, cherish the present.

    Be kind to her and make good memories for you.

    Being happy in love and thinking too much will only add trouble to yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, your girlfriend wants to be with you as long as possible.

    I don't care on the surface, but it's actually because I care very much in my heart.

    I'm afraid that you will know it, cherish the person in front of you, the wine is so good, she wants you to marry her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She should be a more realistic girl (she told me very simply that we will break up in the future, but her heart is unwilling to accept it (last time she was drunk and asked me if I would marry her), so she usually looks very decisive, but when she gets drunk, as the saying goes, "spit the truth when you are drunk", she will be depressed and vomit, which is the contradiction between reason and emotion.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, she just said that.

    That is, to prepare for the worst.

    Actually, she is the same as you think.

    She doesn't want to be separated from you later.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    She is very conflicted, afraid that you will break up after going to school, in fact, she loves you very much, and she can't let go of her son, and she is afraid of being hurt.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    High school, look at it, it's not unsuccessful.

    But don't worry too much about this kind of thing, it's normal, others just don't plan to go on with you for a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm dizzy, your girlfriend is too similar to me. Don't worry, she loves you very much, and the more simply she is, the more afraid she is of losing you, so cherish her. I wish you all happiness!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you want to get married, you have to have the ability to support your family, have a sense of security at home, and a sense of responsibility.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to be admitted to Tsinghua University and graduate with an annual salary of one million.

    She knows you wherever you go, and if you want to, you will get married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You will take whichever university she goes to! (Give up your studies to pursue your own happiness) and weigh for yourself whether her studies are important or important.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Grasp the present, love is a feeling.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Because listening more means that when you understand her and say something, you just listen to it, because she is most likely just talking, and you don't need you to tell her what to do directly, and if she does, she needs your advice, and then you will say your views and opinions.

    Hello, can you tell us more about the situation? I'm better to help you.

    Did something happen to your girlfriend?

    He only told me that he was depressed, and I didn't ask him why.

    Well, then you can say "what's the matter, honey, what's going on".

    Then listen to what she has to say, and here you need to pay attention to it, listen more and don't judge.

    Because listening more means that when she understands her, when she says things, you just listen well, because she is most likely just talking, and you don't need to tell her what to do directly, if she does, you need your Changsun advice, and then you can say your closed-chain views and opinions.

    In addition, you should think from her perspective in your reply, because she is depressed and wants your support and understanding.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not good for your girlfriend to say that what you said is too bad, but you still have a chance. It shows that you are not good enough, you must throw off your arms and work hard, so that the love and career of the two of you can be harvested, and the love between the two of you can be sweeter and happy!

    When a girl likes a boy, her behavior for this boy is different from treating other people, for the person she likes, she tends to be more intimate, delicate, pay attention to every detail of his life, as long as you find it carefully, you can easily know whether the other party has a good impression of him, the following is a girl like a boy specific performance:

    1. A sense of worship and identity.

    When a girl likes a boy, there is a saying that can especially describe their mentality: "The person I like is a hero of the world." It's like the sentence "I don't know what you like about him" when many boys pursue the goddess and can't pursue it.

    When a girl likes a boy, she will often praise him, and often express her appreciation and recognition of him in communication, so she probably has a strong affection for him.

    Second, motherhood is stimulated and begins to "worry" about you

    When a girl likes a boy, she will derive two completely different mentalities: she has a sense of worship and identification with him like a little girl worshipping a hero, and she has a motherhood towards him, and wants to take care of him and take care of him from the bottom of her heart.

    3. Be willing to listen to all his thoughts, whether it is good or happy, as long as it is what he says, he will keep it in his heart. Worry about what he worries, and enjoy what he enjoys. When he's unhappy, he'll try his best to make him happy.

    Fourth, as long as I am with him, I feel extremely proud, and I feel that no man can be better than him. Walking on the street, I think he is the most beautiful scenery.

    Fifth, he is all in his eyes, and he doesn't want to be with him all the time. I want to record his every move, and I think he is handsome, smart, cute, tall and ......All good words can describe him.

    Sixth, he is willing to follow ** when he goes to **, he feels willing to pay everything for him, as long as he smiles at himself, it is also the happiest time.

    As the saying goes, companionship is the most affectionate confession, and sometimes, if a person is willing to accompany you for a long time, it is more touching than spending a lot of money. Generally, most of the people who ask for companionship in a relationship are girls, because they are often the most emotional. But if a boy starts to ask for companionship, it proves that this boy has this girl in mind, so he wants this girl to be by his side all the time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think my girlfriend said so. For you, there's almost no chance left. I think you should take the initiative to let go of this relationship. Because the other person doesn't like you. Such a strong twisted melon is not sweet.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My girlfriend said that what I said was too bad Do I still have a chance My girlfriend said that you spoke too badly That means that what you said hurt your girlfriend's heart too much You should use your sincerity and sincerity to impress your girlfriend If there is a misunderstanding, you should solve it face to face As a man, you should be broad-minded and be considerate of your girlfriend to tolerate her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The key is that she will give you such an evaluation because of what you said, whether she will speak is a manifestation of a person's emotional intelligence, what a person with high enough emotional intelligence will always make people feel happy, and if she doesn't speak well, people who can talk to death will make people speechless, fall in love, fall in love, the important thing is to talk. Of course, if you have been in love for a long time, he may be a little disappointed in your performance this time, so he will not break up, if you have just known each other, it is difficult to say.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your girlfriend says something like this, maybe he doesn't like it when you talk to a woman You should be gentle and interesting when you talk to a woman, but there is no hope to be specific, then it depends on the way you contact him in the future and speak.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If a girl says this to you, I don't think there will be much chance, girls don't love someone to say such things, if love will never say such things.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you want to keep the relationship, you should work hard to change and strive to get your girlfriend's approval as soon as possible.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My girlfriend said that what you said was too bad, just think about whether it was really bad, if there is a misunderstanding, just explain it clearly, it's your problem to improve later.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No matter what, if you have a chance or not, you still have to improve your speaking level, which will be good for the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The first girl is very beautiful, and the beautiful figure is good, **, the show is very right, very right, very brave, but friends of friends they all come to each other and are happy with each other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The interpretation of "if the people are rainbows, they will know that there is one when they meet each other": when you meet such a person who is pleasing to each other, it is like seeing a beautiful rainbow, no matter how beautiful others say, you have never seen it, and you feel that it is really so beautiful when you see it with your own eyes.

    This sentence comes from a line in the movie "Heartbeat": "But every once in a while you find someone who.""s iridescent, and when you do, nothing will ever compare。It was translated by the famous writer Han Han as "If a person is like a rainbow, he will know it when he meets it".

    Heartbeat is a niche, special movie that puts you in a warm, funny, and humanistic atmosphere, until the end gives you a beautiful story that doesn't seem so unreliable. The famous writer Han Han commented on the movie: "Some people live in high-rise buildings, some people are in deep ditches, some people are bright, some people are rusty, there are thousands of people in the world, floating clouds do not go to seek, if people are rainbows, they know that there is one above."

    It can be seen that Han Han has a high evaluation of this movie.

    Turn left|Turn right.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is a girl with a lot of connotation, she is confessing to you euphemistically, I hope you can cherish it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Confess you, you are his rainbow.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It means that the person is like a rainbow, and you don't know that there is this thing until you meet it. Show that I like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If this person is very good, he can meet the above is creation!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    She felt happy, she understood.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He said it would be around eight o'clock tomorrow morning.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you like it, chase it, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you respond.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Girlfriend said to you that she is also very troubled, may be emotionally problematic, I think if you like her, you should treat him with sincerity, slowly let him feel your love for him, eliminate his side, your relationship will be more harmonious In fact, both men and women will care about these details, will care about whether you have a ta in your heart, and women may be more sensitive to this.

    If a man does not have you in his heart, his attitude is obvious, he will be indifferent to your affairs, he will not care about your affairs, as if you are a person who has nothing to do with him.

    And if that person likes and cares, he will naturally behave differently, he will be jealous, he will be unhappy, and he will make you to him through all efforts.

    This is the difference between love and non-love, love will react to you, and when you see you with other members of the opposite sex, you will feel threatened, afraid that you will be robbed, and afraid of losing you from now on.

    This reaction will make him nervous and make him jealous, and if he likes you, he will naturally hope that you are the only one in your heart, and you can't be with other people.

    Therefore, it is very simple to know if there is you in a person's heart, and look at how he behaves when you are with other members of the opposite sex, and it will probably understand.

    The person who has you in his heart will not be indifferent in the face of you, especially when he sees you with other members of the opposite sex, he will be very jealous and will feel hurt.

    Maybe this kind of behavior of his is naïve, but if it weren't for deep love, he wouldn't have this reaction, his jealousy, his injury, but because he cares too much about you and is afraid of losing you.

    Whether a person has you in his heart or not, you can see from this small thing about the banquet, that is, to see if he will be jealous of you, and to see how he reacts when he sees you with other members of the opposite sex.

    People are contradictory, when he is jealous, or when he minds you being with other members of the opposite sex, you feel that he is not generous enough, but at the same time you want him to be able to do this, because you know, he reacts this way because he has you in his heart and cares about you.

    If a person pretends to be a brother and doesn't care about you at all, he won't care who you're with, let alone be jealous because of it, feel threatened, and feel like he's going to lose you.

    A person who has you in his heart will definitely have an exclusive mentality, he can't stand your contact with other people at all, his heart will be very anxious, and his heart will be full of worries.

    Through this little thing, you can also reflect your status in his heart, and the person who has you in his heart will not be unresponsive, because he cares, he will be nervous, and because he cares, he will be naïve.

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