Let s talk about the pros and cons of trial marriage

Feelings don't come by planning, unlike buying a radish and cabbage, you can plan when you should eat which, things between two people can only rely on natural development, don't deliberately think about something, understand?

Trial marriage?I think it's popular now, but there are a lot of factors in it that are not possible, for example, after trying it, you don't feel right and separate.

Although you are innocent, who believes it?

It's not a feudal society now, and there is no way back if you try it in the feudal period, but it's good that it won't be questioned by social ethics or anything, I always feel that it's better to be cautious about trying to get married.

Benefits: Be able to see if your lover is worthy of your life's love.

Disadvantage: If you break up, it will cause a lot of damage to your body and mind!

It's better not to try to get married, it's not good for women.

You have to stick to your own point of view. Don't be open when the two are good, and be very conservative when they break up.

In fact, I think it is necessary, because now because of the different generations, many people do not look at marriage very seriously, and with big data, we can also see that the current divorce rate of the masses.

It is getting higher and higher, and this is because I got married with the other party without fully understanding each other, which is a very hasty thing, and the trial marriage is the main direction and way to understand whether the other party is suitable for you before marriage, and to understand whether you and the other party are suitable for marriage together.

When determining this question, the first thing we need to understand is what the purpose of the trial marriage isWe can analyze the purpose of trial marriage from the following aspects: the first is to test the sexual function of both parties, the second is to observe what the other party's living habits look like, and the third is to observe whether the other party's parents are easy to get along with. These three points are the main purpose of the trial marriage, and only by thoroughly understanding these three points can we determine whether the other party is suitable for marrying you.

But now many people are still very resistant to the concept of trial marriage in their hearts, because they feel that trial marriage represents distrustSince you don't trust each other, what else is there to get married, but in fact, this idea is wrong, everyone can have their own views on trial marriage, but the trial marriage is mainly for both parties to be better together, In order to live a more satisfying life in the future, I think no one wants to have a marriage that divorces after three days of marriage, so the trial marriage is for the stability of the future as a guarantee, as the cornerstone, not simply because I don't believe it.

Therefore, from a psychological and practical point of view, only through a trial marriage can we understand all aspects of the other partyIn fact, many people are already in the potential trial marriage, isn't the cohabitation of couples a process of trial marriage, so trial marriage is becoming more and more common, but many people do not find themselves in the process of trial marriage.

It is not necessary, it cannot stand the test, and the trial marriage does not mean that the relationship between these two people is particularly suitable, but it may hurt the feelings.

It is necessary, because falling in love and getting married are two completely different things, so you should also try to get married before getting married.

It is still necessary, because marriage is a lifelong event, so you should also get to know each other well before getting married.

What are the disadvantages of living together before marriage?

The first time I heard the term premarital cohabitation was in the mid-90s of the last century. At that time, CCTV News reported that due to the sharp rise in the divorce rate in Russia, the local ** called on couples to live together for three months before marriage and try to marry again. to curb the high divorce rate.

Premarital cohabitation. Premarital cohabitation with the goal of marriage should not be opposed. Although it is possible to break up for some reason during the trial marriage. But a breakup is always less hurtful to both parties than a divorce.

If you say that both parties are ready to break up when they live together. So who can say who didn't prepare for divorce before getting married?

There is no responsibility without love, there is no trust without responsibility, and cohabitation without trust How can a happy marriage be.

Premarital surname acts.

Two people love each other, and it is not surprising that any love-related behavior occurs. As for loving the wrong person and being deceived, then don't do anything else.

Discuss. Of course, you can't justify being stupid.

Illegitimacy vs abortion.

Unmarried cohabitation is more likely to have children born out of wedlock. Children born out of wedlock are often less cared for than children born out of wedlock. And when you grow up, it is easy to form a vicious circle. Therefore, having children without marriage is discouraged. Of course, having a child should not have an abortion either.

Abortion, unless the child has a birth defect, any abortion is irresponsible. Any justification for abortion is an excuse.

Discussion of the marriage model.

Traditional model: love – marriage – sex.

Modern model: love – sex – cohabitation – marriage.

Both models have their own justifications. There is nothing inherently wrong with both modes. It's just that sometimes, these models are used by some people with ulterior motives, and those with ulterior motives are hateful to use both models in order to achieve their own goals.

Whether it is a traditional model or a modern model, it is not difficult to find that the beginning of both models is love, and the most ideal ending of both models is marriage. Therefore, the "love-marriage" model is the most acceptable model.

"Trial marriage", how to try the law? It's really fresh! What do you think of getting married?

Is it child's play? Can both families agree? When a man marries a bride, does he say that he is trying to marry a bride?

No one can accept it, getting married is different from dressing and buying shoes, you can change it if it doesn't fit!

If two people can't talk about it, they can not talk about it, so why force it if they can't get along? Marriage is a result, and the run-in process is very important, just like signing a contract, you can not sign it without thinking clearly, but you can't say trial signing, right? This is also not allowed by law!

Where is the trial marriage" to the families of both parties? How do they accept it? How many gossips will be encountered!

Therefore, "trial marriage" does not work, you can choose not to get married, or you can choose to postpone marriage, but "trial marriage" is unacceptable! The "trial marriage" itself is a distrust of the other party and a desecration of the marriage.

If the marriage is successful, it is nothing for the girl? If the marriage is not successful, it will hurt the girl the most. Once you give up your precious things, it will not be easy to marry a good person again!

It's better for the girl to be pretty! As a girl, you should think carefully about the major events in your life! Thank you for your question!

There is no need, try to marry two people to live together to see if the temper and temperament are suitable, and then consider marriage. In this way, it is despicable not to take chastity seriously, and to treat the most precious things as experiments. Get to know each other well before you get married, and don't try to get married.

What is lost is more precious than what is gained.

I don't think it's necessary to try to marry before marriage, most people are well thought out before marriage, and they know each other very well, each other's temperament and character, and the way of doing things are very well understood, so that the two will get along very well in the future.

It is necessary, after all, if you want to live together in the future, you can experience what may happen in the future by trying to get married in advance, which can not only make yourself psychologically prepared, but also feel that the other party is not suitable and break up now, which avoids a lot of trouble.

It is generally not recommended to try marriage, because if it fails, it will affect your reputation; If you have to try to get married, you must pay attention to protecting yourself, whether it is a man or a woman, and the safety measures must be done; After all, trial marriage and cohabitation are not marriages, and if they are forced to marry because of pregnancy and other factors, it is irresponsible for the future of both parties and their children; The economy is as independent as possible, after all, if it doesn't work, there are not too many economic disputes; I also wish you peace and prosperity.

I don't think it's necessary at all, and if it's not suitable, it will also cause trouble to both parties, especially the woman's life in the future. If you want to know each other's personalities, living habits, etc., you can go to a meal together, watch a movie, or travel together, but you can't do anything deviant. The woman must be clean and self-conscious, if you give it to him completely, he may not respect and care for you so much.

If it is not suitable, you will still get married in the future and be responsible for your future husband.

It's necessary. I met my partner on a blind date, and when I went on a blind date, the introducer praised him for being honest and motivated, having no bad habits, and meeting my standards in all aspects. After dating for a while, I felt that the other person was also very good, so we were soon ready to get married.

Before we got married, we lived together. After living together, I gradually realized that we were not a good fit. My sleep is very light, and if I don't rest well, it will affect my mental state a lot.

As a result, I found out that the subject had a problem with snoring, which was deafening and seriously affected my rest.

In addition, he also has a very strong masculine mentality, never does housework, and feels that these are things that should be done by women.

So, every day after work, I have to cook dinner for him, clean up, and clean up the house. He would just lie on the couch, playing his own game, never asking for help.

There are still many details that make me feel unsettled, and I feel that this state of life is very tiring, and I can't find anyone to share it with. Before I got married, I was already scared of my life after marriage, so I quickly proposed to break up.

If you don't try to get married, you never know what kind of married life you're going to face. Therefore, girls should not be afraid, boldly try, and strive for better happiness for themselves.

If you don't get to know a person in depth, you won't know what kind of impact he will have on you. So, don't be afraid to give yourself a chance to try and make mistakes, even if you encounter someone who is wrong, you can stop losses in time.