A relationship that is close and far, do I still have a chance?

Leave it on hold for a moment.

We'll talk about it after the exam.

She guesses she's also under pressure, but you can see that he likes you, understand?!

It's very simple, I've come over, I understand.

There should be a chance.

Ask her if she likes you again, be bolder. Like is something to be fought for.

Anyway, you must ask for a result, don't keep dragging it out and it's not good for you or her.

Hehe. She's interesting to you. It's just that there are some reasons why I can't accept you.

Upstairs is right! She likes you too! But there may be some reason that makes her embarrassed, you be bold! Find a suitable time to ask.

Hazy Poetry What is Hazy Poetry.

So-called"Hazy poetry"It refers to the early contemporary avant-garde poetry movement with a generation of young people as the main body.

First, review the characteristics of poetry in the fifties and sixties.

China's special historical environment and the literary paradigm of the Republic determined that the basic paradigm of poetry in this period was: carols and war songs.

The times demand this from poets, as well as from poets to themselves:"It is necessary to have correct, strong, socialist revolutionary feelings, to depict the great material and spiritual changes of our time with a realistic creative method, to educate the people about communism"."Poetry is also the true and loud tone of the times, that is, the representative of the will of the people" .

In the creation of poetry, strong personal emotions are replaced by social, collective essences; The unique aesthetic factors of poetry, such as subtlety, suggestion, and ambiguity, are omitted and negative.

Hazy Poetry School: A poetry school that emerged in the late 70s and early 80s, and its representatives include Bei Dao, Shu Ting, Gu Cheng, Jiang He, Yang Lian, etc. As a creative group, "hazy poetry" has not formed a unified organizational form or issued a manifesto, but it has formed a "rising poetry group" with its independent and common artistic propositions and creative achievements. The hazy poetry caused controversy in the literary circles at that time.

The three levels of the spiritual connotation of "Hazy Poetry" are: one is to expose the darkness and social criticism, the second is to find light in the darkness, reflect and explore consciousness, and the strong heroism color, and the third is to pay special attention to "people" on the basis of humanism. "Hazy Poetry" rewrites the traditional mode of simply describing "reality" and ** policy in the past, and takes poetry as an important way to explore life, which has reached an unprecedented height in a philosophical sense.

In a sense, the rise of "hazy poetry" is also the rise of the tree of life in Chinese literature.

There are Jianghe, Shuting, Gu Cheng, Fang Han, Index Finger, Duoduo and so on.

You first have to know if it's a habit or a way of dealing with feelings, and then you have to determine if you can accept this habit or something else, and the best way to do it is to talk to him once, talk to him directly, about the lover, and say everything.

Don't show it in front of him, you care a lot about the way he looks! From now on, if it's not necessary, don't look for him, snub him! If he really loves you, he'll care! Chill him, you can really see his heart!

Feelings are easy to entangle, you can contact other people more, so that you can also keep busy, and you won't think too much.

。。。Maybe I don't care about you, have a good chat with him when we are together, and confirm his feelings for you.

I think it's appropriate to talk to him coldly, but don't go too far, just let him know how important you are, or I think you should talk to him, explain why he is doing this to you, and save yourself from thinking more about it!

Are you sure you like him, and can you feel that he likes you? If you're not sure, think about it. But some people's personalities are like this, they like a little free space, see if you can accept it.

Let it go, he doesn't care about you anymore.

Talk to him about this.

I don't know what kind of relationship it is. How long has it been? How deep do you feel for the other person?

And your character towards the other person. Do you know your character and family? The most important thing is how seriously you value the relationship?

If you feel that continuing this seemingly non-existent relationship will bring you only trouble. Then let's get together and disperse. But if your relationship has gone through a few years.

You used to love each other very, very much. Also, you know each other's personality and family very well. If the other party is still very good in these aspects, it is recommended that you consider it carefully.

The relationship has changed, it is nothing more than having someone else in my heart. I feel that the other party is not as good as I originally thought. Job.

The impact of mood on feelings in life. There is also a period of emotional burnout. This is often overlooked.

Don't want to feel like you're in love forever. It takes a lot of energy to create that feeling. And maybe money.

People are not made to be in love. He still has to work. And to live.

You also have to deal with relationships outside of love. Solve all kinds of difficulties. Falling in love is like a battle.

He has won you now. You can spread the energy that was originally spent on you to do something else. So I hope you will accept the blandness after falling in love.

Find the good of the other person from other angles.

Okay, to sum up. There are others except for those who change their minds. Everything else is easy to solve.

I'm not a psycho-emotional expert. That's all I know. Hope it helps.

That's right. If it really doesn't. You discuss it.

Don't break up, just be apart for a while. In this way, you can see your heart more clearly.

Let's find a chance for the two of them to talk about this issue, it's terrible that the two of them have nothing to say. Unless it's become a family relationship between you.

Love is not to find it if it is missing, and change it when it is tired, there is a crisis in the relationship between two people because you have not managed it well! You should be calm, find the reason from yourself, instead of blindly sighing, life is not just for sighing, but for us to live a real good life!

Don't be careless at this time, if you really love him, make a little action He didn't propose to break up, indicating that he didn't know whether to give up or cherish this relationship, maybe he was waiting for you to say something, love him once, and avoid regretting it later.

Since the long talk is ineffective, and if there is nothing, then go to the next one.!!

The ideal love is non-existent.

Yes, I read Qiong Yao's love books a lot when I was a child, and I always expected a perfect man, but there are almost none in real life, so it's good to lower my expectations.

It's tiring to love someone, and being loved is happiness, and he may have shortcomings, but who can guarantee that he will be perfect.

Every woman has that kind of idea of you, the ideal lover.

Man can only see the happiness of others, but cannot see the pain of others, because man will hide his pain and let others see his happiness.

Cherish the present, and you will regret it if you miss it.

People often do not cherish what they get, but only find its preciousness when they lose it.

I fell out of love yesterday, and I can still take advantage of the hot and cold.

Hehe. Ordinary hearts are fine. It's okay to get busy yourself.

The feeling of not being able to grasp is subtle... Like a thousand-year-old agarwood, it is fresh and pleasant, but you can't figure it out. Wouldn't it be more fulfilling to have a little more ethereal feelings in reality!

Then let's have a good experience, the feelings can't be forced.

You may not want to listen to my advice, but I mean it, please be patient, if you have any questions, leave it behind, and I will help you answer.

I think you really should be apart for a while and ask him to think about how it feels to you.

You also need to think about whether you really "love" him or just subconsciously "I'm his girlfriend, so I'm going to be nice to him."

It's a kind of relationship for the sake of falling in love, and it's not really what you think, it's the illusory psychology that you tell yourself, "I love him very much", and you feel that you love him, you value him, and think about him!

Don't say you don't know what he needs, and he doesn't even know what he needs.

So don't ask.

You don't need to know how guys want to feel.

What you need is to take a good look at what you need!!

It's better to stand far away so that everyone can see themselves and others clearly.

Because he didn't consider your feelings, so it's useless for you to be anxious by yourself, it's better to see the facts clearly and make a right choice for yourself and the other party!

It's an illusory relationship that can't even give a clear answer to the other party.

But if you are sure that you are truly "loving" him (please understand this love well).

And you feel that you will have a good future, and you are sure that he has feelings for you, and he wants to accompany you in the future.

Then please don't let go!

I've had that experience as well, and now I'm fine with him)

Insist on your tolerance for him, and you try to maintain even illusory feelings.

Even if he tells you: he doesn't know what he's doing, what he's thinking, or.

He doesn't want to be with you now, but he can't bear to part with you, etc.

You have to tell him: no matter what you think, I'm going to be here until you think about it, and then tell me your options

Because your love for Him is clear, this love is placed here, to be or not to be forced, you can't force Him.

You can only pay silently and wait silently until he chooses!

First of all, I think your relationship is at a bottleneck right now, and it's dangerous. But there's really nothing wrong with your relationship at all. Mainly because he has too many plans, you should hold off on taking drastic action.

You should start by asking him about his work plan. When he is in a good mood, gently remind him that your relationship needs to continue to develop (marriage).If he understands you well and promises to give you good news within a certain period of time.

I don't think I have to push him.

In case he is disgusted and agitated by the question, I will first wonder if he is in a bad mood when he is frustrated. If not, I'm going to doubt the purpose of his association with you.

In short, you need to have a long talk with him with the attitude of a bird, and no man is immune to this kind of move. At least it won't make things stiff. The concept of a man's face is more ingrained than you think. Give him face, and he will give you sunshine.

Expect him to have good news for you

Or you should give him a period of calm, I will teach you how to maintain this relationship from a man's point of view, you have been with him for a long time, think about what a woman should do, how much you have done! Now you will accompany him silently and express your cherishment of him with love! Let him feel that there is something very abnormal about you during this time!

He'll definitely ask you why you're so nice to him! Then. You don't need to say much.

Only one sentence! Because I love you and don't want to leave you!

It can be seen that you are a very considerate and gentle girl, I think you have shown yourself well in love, but love is unreasonable, even if you are so good, he may not need it.

In fact, you are so good, you should find someone who knows how to love you better.

You've lowered your worth, so let's give yourself a little dignity in the end!!

I think he may have met another girl, and a nice one, and he was wandering about what to choose, or his friend. Or a relative who disagrees with you, and they also give reasons that sound plausible, and now he feels conflicted and doesn't know what to do. I think you can calm him down, or try to disappear from his sight for a while, and let him know that it's painful not to be without you (depending on how much he loved you before and what role you played in his life, of course).

I wish you all happiness.

You find an opportunity to communicate with him, tell him what you think, and let him understand; Then give him a little time.

To be honest, as a man, you have to be refreshing, so that you will not delay yourself, let alone you. If it takes a long time to think about whether you like or love someone, I think it's dangerous, and now it seems that you are active, he is passive. Otherwise, he would have something unspeakably distressed.

There are a lot of good boys! He doesn't love you! There's no need to stick to it!

You're a good girl! Heaven will reward you! The reason he is thinking about it is that he is afraid that he will not find a woman who is so good to him, and he likes you only because you are good to him.

When he meets the good ones, he will dump you! It's better to be chic and find someone who understands you! No one is anyone's own, no one in this world is the same, and you are the same!

Support you to find a good one! The tighter you wrap it, the less he will cherish you!

"I still like you at the moment, and it's not very strong,"

Let's see if there is another object of hesitation in this sentence.

Are you going to choose one of the two?

For example, who is really needed more?

I'm just guessing.

I don't think I need to pay too much attention to this

If he really loves you, he will definitely come back to you

It's useless to think about it now.

There are too many people in this world who are never satisfied.

If only each other were satisfied a little less.

No one will be hurt again.

We need to learn to put ourselves in their shoes.

Hope you understand.

Go your own wayLet others have no way out.

Wear someone else's shoesLet someone else find it.