Papi sauce angrily scolded Zhang Heng, how should the four suggestions put forward be viewed?

Everyone's opinion and thoughts are different, the Cold War is very common between couples, but Zhang Heng is a public figure, and his love object is Zheng Shuang, the daughter of the nation, people will inevitably be biased towards Zheng Shuang in their hearts, of course, Zheng Shuang and Zhang Heng also have their own ways of getting along.

In the new episode of the variety show, Zhang Heng and Zheng Shuang had a disagreement on one matter, Zhang Heng directly chose to have a cold war with Zheng Shuang, this way caused many people to be dissatisfied, papi sauce was also deeply touched when he saw this matter, and expressed four opinions, and many netizens also complained about Zhang Heng's various complaints, Zhang Heng, as a boy, should have tolerated his girlfriend more, instead of solving the problem in various cold and violent ways, instead of lowering his posture to solve the problem in the future, it backfired and made the contradiction even deeper, but fortunately, in the end, Zhang Heng hugged Zheng Shuang, which can be regarded as a perfect ending.

Disagreements with others, whether in life or at work, cannot be resolved with cold violence, and without a good conflict resolution mechanism, every outbreak of conflict will deplete your hard-won emotional foundation. Once a disagreement arises, it can easily escalate into an argument. After the quarrel, the boyfriend gradually reluctantly reluctantly coaxes him, and in this case, cold violence will continue for a long time.

Many times, how apathy and violence can develop in a relationship. The other party coaxes you and asks you, hoping that this matter will settle down as soon as possible, hoping that the feelings of the two people will be reconciled as much as possible, and they will love and do things together with a happy heart. But now, there are two voices in your heart.

On the other hand, you want to teach the other person a good lesson, you want to test the other person's bottom line, and you want to see how much the other person can tolerate.

She just put forward some of her own opinions, not to mention anger at Zhang Heng, love itself is a matter of two people, and then family.

This is not a suggestion, it is her own idea, and this is not angry with the other party, as for whether people like her ideas or not, she doesn't care.

I think papi-chan said not to mix work and feelings, and I think that's very correct. What should be separated is still separated, and feelings are not all.

She just put forward some of her own opinions, and didn't say that she was angry, but she put forward four suggestions, which I think are quite right.

This may just be her personal opinion on Zhang Heng, we should look at this problem rationally, and this issue has little to do with us.

I very much agree with her views and suggestions, after all, falling in love is the relationship between two people, so don't get involved in too many other things, so people will be very tired.

The four suggestions put forward by Papi sauce are good, but they are also a bit one-sided, love is the relationship between two people, and conflicts cannot be just Zhang Heng's fault.

She said that it was not easy for Zhang Heng to have Zheng Shuang's boyfriend, Zheng Shuang's agent, and Zheng Shuang's partner at the same time, in fact, it is best to separate love and work, which is very important for emotional stability.

1. In the daughters' love show, when Zheng Shuang was coldly violent, Zheng Shuang expressed weakness in time, so it is very correct to say that Zheng Shuang did this, if there is a problem between couples, it should be solved in a timely manner, and it should be communicated in detail, so that everyone can truly understand the original situation of the matter, and forgive the wrong party from the heartIf we do not resolve conflicts when they arise, but rather vaguely use them, there is a possibility that they will erupt at a later stage.

IIZheng Shuang and Zhang Heng had a dispute over a piece of clothing at that time, and Zhang Heng said that he was very angry at that timeWith a straight face, Zheng Shuang took the initiative to show weakness after seeing it, holding Zhang Heng's hand, but Zhang Heng did not coax Zheng Shuang in time, resulting in very aggrieved symptoms and crying, and then Zheng Shuang took the initiative to talk about the original situation, and finally the two reconciled.

Third, Zheng Shuang's father said when he saw this incident that Zhang Hong did not do very well, because he did not make Zheng Shuang cry because he was so big, and this incident also showed that the Cold War was a bit terribleIf the Cold War had arisen and had not been resolved in a timely manner, the contradiction would have been kept in our hearts forever.

Fourth, if there are other problems in the later stage, they will break out together, then there is a hidden danger in the later stage, so warn the young people not to engage in a cold war when there are problems between the two sides, to communicate in a timely manner, and tell the other party in detail what happened in their hearts, so that they can solve the problem well and will not let the contradictions erupt in the later stage.

Zheng Shuang handled it very correctly when he was subjected to cold violence by his boyfriend, which is worth learning from.

When there is a conflict between couples, it is best not to be "cold violence", but to communicate in time to solve the root cause of the conflict, rather than to "cold violence" to solve it.

There must be no cold violence between couples, because this situation is difficult to solve, and it is the hearts of two people who are hurt in the end.

, If there is cold violence between couples, I think it is not far from separation, and cold violence is not as pleasant as a big quarrel.

Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, when encountering cold violence, it must be communicated and resolved in a timely manner to prevent the conflict from being brought into the next time.

I think it's hard to solve if there is cold violence between couples, which means that two people have already felt their heads and should break up.

I think papi-chan is very right, for cold and violent couples, there is really no need to be together anymore.

Cold violence is the biggest killer of feelings, and I think that once a couple has cold violence, they will definitely end up breaking up.

The conflict between couples is best to be solved by themselves, as the so-called bell still needs to be tied to the bell, if it can't be solved, then it will be completely separated, there is no need to force together,

In fact, if there is a conflict between couples, don't use cold violence, you can sit down and make it clear. Slowly things will be sorted out.

In the face of cold violence, it is still necessary to talk openly and honestly, and show enthusiasm for customers.

For such cold violence, in fact, it is necessary to solve it through your own enthusiasm.

At this time, what is more needed is a solution and peaceful treatment

In the face of cold violence, it must be a good communication, and if you can't communicate, you will be cold and cold.

Cold violence is really terrible, and if one party is not willing to communicate, then there is no good way.

Celebrities will pay attention to their cold violence, but ordinary people will not pay attention to them at all.

The best thing to do is to break up quickly, don't be together, it will become more and more cold and violent after a long time.

Because cold violence is like a knife cutting your flesh.

It's better to accept this life from the beginning. Only one can swear that I can't set my own circumstances, and that the process of deceiving myself is avoided, the pain of stupidity is alleviated and the mental retardation of freedom and ease is mitigated. Always hot in the face of cold violence, over time, cold violence will be crushed into hot domestic violence.

Actually, if a person is good for you, it's a matter of concern. He wants to be nice to you, but he doesn't know how to be nice to you. He doesn't want to be nice to you.

It's getting worse for you. He thinks it's good for you, but it will make you feel like he's not good for you. The end result.

It's the same: the way he treats you makes you very unhappy.

Because cold violence will make people suffer in their hearts, if they quarrel, they can still accept it, but they are most afraid of not even saying anything.

Because cold violence is the number one killer in relationships. Ignoring it is the greatest harm to the other party.

Because cold violence will make a person's love gradually cool and gradually lose hope.

When encountering cold violence, you must first be calm, don't be controlled by emotions, find the real reason for what happened, and then learn to communicate, express your thoughts and feelings, there is no one right or wrong in the relationship, if the other party is not soft, you will first accept the softness, and give the other party a step down. If there is a lack of communication for a long time, it is just a matter of dealing with problems through cold violence and ignoring each other. Slowly, this resentment will expand, and it will make the relationship between the two people farther and farther apart, and weaker and weaker.

In a relationship,Communication is very important, no matter how loving couples are, there are unpleasant times, so there is definitely a reason for cold violence. It is impossible for a person to be cold and violent with you for no reason, and it is impossible for a person not to talk to the person you like for no reason, so at this time, don't be in a hurry to quarrel with the other party and debate right and wrong, but first calm down and think about what the other party is arguing with you for what the reason is, why the other party did not respond to your emotions, find out the reason, and observe the other party carefully.

When encountering cold violence, don't be cold and cold, let alone blindly tolerate and doubt yourself, and don't think that you should be fully responsible. Instead, analyze the problem calmly and objectively, and if you want to change the situation, you must have the courage to change your strategy and immediately stop the posture of over-compromise. If you are determined and not afraid of conflict, you will force the abuser to have a showdown or even fight back.

The only way to bring about change is to act resolutely and put the crisis in front of everyone. When you perceive that you have a problem or other bad signs, then you have to take the initiative to talk, sit down with the other party to talk, talk about each other's thoughts, you always need one person to take the initiative, so that the other party will also find the stairs, so that the cold war will not continue.

Many times we quarrel with each other because we want to urgently let the other person know how we feel now, and then calmly talk to the other person about our inner feelings, let the other person know what we think, instead of judging our impression because of the irrational language we speak, so that the other party is willing to let down their guard and be willing to communicate with you.

We all know that it is not easy for two people to start a relationship, in this relationship we may encounter a variety of problems, many times these problems will make us have some new contradictions, such as domestic cold violence or some other problems, family cold violence, this should not be tolerated, because cold violence will gradually escalate. In the end, it has developed to the point of no return, so in the face of cold violence, we must also actively speak out and actively protect our rights and interests.

Cold violence is actually quite annoying If two people don't communicate, they are actually getting more and more indifferent Cold violence can't solve the problem, but it will backfire If two people are just relatively small contradictions, it's better to use big and small to reduce nothing Anyway, communication is much stronger than cold violence But now many people say that you need to be quiet after a quarrel And then in fact, this is cold violence I also like cold violence and don't like to bow my head But this really causes a lot of trouble to everyone Maybe because two people don't want to bow their heads You are like strangers Two good friends become two strangers Or a stranger who will be embarrassed when you meet Many times there is no timely communication, or it will not be cold and violent anyway.

Cold violence, as the name suggests, is first and foremost a type of violence, which refers to solving problems not through violence such as beatings, but manifested in verbal ridicule, deliberate neglect, avoidance, indifference, contempt, alienation and indifference, etc., resulting in mental and psychological violations and injuries to others. It has a wide range of manifestations, mainly in the family, work and school, etc., which has directly caused many social tragedies, it can be said that the excessive appearance of cold violence is directly related to the indifference of people's hearts and the dilution of emotions, so we can only continuously improve our own moral outlook and constantly improve our emotional cultivation in order to avoid our lives from being destroyed by cold violence as much as possible, so as to make our lives more harmonious.

Then there's when you talk to the other person a lot, and the other person only replies to you with a few words like an um, or oh. There is also the situation that if you don't contact the other party, the other party will definitely not contact you, which also belongs to the category of cold violence.

My attitude towards you depends on your temperature towards me, you ignore me, if I love you, I can try to adjust, dissolve, if I have worked hard, you are still a stone that can't cover the heat, save enough disappointment, the baby will say goodbye to you, never again! Feelings are always a matter of two people!

When encountering cold violence, both people must take the initiative to solve the problem, otherwise it will only make both people tired.

The beginning of every relationship also comes with the risk of tears, and the most beautiful thing in a relationship is emotional and rational love.

When you encounter cold violence, don't care about it, cold vs. cold to see which one is hot first. If it's not a big deal, you can also take the initiative to reconcile.

When you encounter cold violence, don't stick to your face, the other party will go up, ignore him, just be colder than him.

In recent years, due to the estrangement between husband and wife, cold violence has led to cold violence, and cold violence is particularly harmful to the woman. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to it, and it can generally be resolved through good communication between the two parties and the elimination of misunderstandings.

When encountering cold violence, you must first communicate, and if the communication is fruitless, I think there is no need for this relationship to continue.