Because of the high sunk cost, the couple who had no choice but to get married, what happened to the

Either continue to live helplessly, or the chickens and eggs will be beaten, and the chickens and dogs will jump at home. So, do what you do to be happy.

Husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and they flew separately when disaster came. Many people may think that this reality is not. A marriage that is chosen in desperation, after all, without a strong emotion, may collapse sooner or later.

Don't treat marriage casually because you have reached the marriageable age, marriage represents a kind of responsibility, if you choose marriage because of helplessness, I think two people will not be happy, just make do with life, two people will inevitably quarrel frequently in life, whether it is unfair to children or each other.

You can't get married because you get married, I think those couples who get married without helplessness will choose to divorce in the future, and it really feels like a widowed marriage.

Later, because there was no tacit understanding and enough love in the days together, and then the meager love was consumed in a quarrel, and finally they got tired of seeing each other, and then they became strangers, and they could have been good friends.

Couples who get married because of helplessness do not have a very good life in the future, and the purpose of their marriage is to live. There is no love, only a life of improvisation.

Couples who get married too early, first of all, they are not prepared, so it will be a little difficult to live after marriage, there is no clear goal, there is no accurate plan, money is relatively scarce, marriage is a serious issue, or ready to get married.

I don't really want to get married, I think it's a partner to live, in most cases, life will be relatively dull, and there is no emotional support.

Most of the couples who choose to get married because of helplessness will not live very happily, and the happiness of marriage is based on love.

Since then, the two have been separated from each other and have never interacted with each other again, but through some news from friends, I still know some things about my ex-girlfriend. Love is not a transaction, nor is it a sale, but the sincere feelings of two people, if love becomes a transaction, then this is undoubtedly quite painful.

My friend Xiao Wang is like this, he and his girlfriend love each other very much, but due to the bride price problem, the last two people broke up, and the bride price of 300,000 yuan is for a rural familyThis is undoubtedly a heavy burden. And they can't afford to pay the bride price at all, even if they borrow money from outsiders, for the time being, they have no ability to repay, and others have not lent them this money, so the two finally broke up helplessly.

In fact, I personally think that the woman has a certain responsibility, if she insists on it, then the two will definitely enter the palace of marriage, and the bride price is not important at all, Another friend of mine, Xiao Li, is like this, he and his girlfriend ended their 10-year long-distance love run, and finally entered the palace of marriage, and the woman's family did not ask for too much dowry, but only asked for 3,000 yuan.

After Xiao Wang broke up with his girlfriend, the two never contacted each other again, and through the understanding between friends, he learned that his ex-girlfriend was marriedAnd there is no excessive bride price money, after all, it belongs to the leftover women, who are relatively old. And I learned from a friend that my ex-girlfriend was not happy at all, because the two of them quarreled every day, not because of material things, but because of their love life.

So for a person in love, the bride price may be a touchstone, this is a matter for two people, but if the relationship collapses because of the bride price, the relationship may be lost for a lifetime. Personally, this is a huge loss, after all, love is the first thing for two people, the relationship is the first thing, everything else is not important, it's just floating clouds, so there is no need to choose to break up for the bride price, this is irrational behavior.

Let's talk about the man first, the man is in love with the woman, and after a few years of love, he may feel that his girlfriend should not ask for a bride price and marry him directly with the dowry, but he didn't think about it, even if the woman has been in love for a few years, she still wants to go through the procedure to get married, so when the girl proposes to ask for a bride price, he may not be willing, and he is unwilling to pay a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan, so the two people have a conflict, and in the end it may be that the two people are separated.

Then the woman may have chosen to get married on a blind date in a hurry, and chose to marry the boy her parents chose for her, and the man is likely to be choosing all the time at this time, after all, his previous ex-girlfriend only needs a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan, and he will not want to find a girl who is higher than these tens of thousands of yuan, so he has been picking and picking, and in the end he may have picked a girl who is several times higher than the bride price of his ex-girlfriend to marry.

And if the bride price is too high because the girl wants it, for example, many girls ask for a bride price of hundreds of thousands when they get married, and the boy finally regresses because he can't afford to pay the bride price, generally speaking, girls will not be able to marry when they reach the age of leftover women, because few people can take out the hundreds of thousands of bride price, and whether she is worth the hundreds of thousands of bride price is also worth thinking about many boys.

After all, there are really very few girls who really want hundreds of thousands of bride price in this era, so when he meets a girl with a bride price of tens of thousands, he will feel very happy, and feel that he is right to give up his ex, so he can meet such a sensible girl, so a girl with hundreds of thousands of bride price may not be able to marry, but he will definitely be able to marry.

The bride price is the most serious thing now, and every year there will be a large number of couples who finally part ways because the bride price of both parents has not been negotiated. This is not an uncommon thing, after all, marriage is not a matter of two people, and two families still need to be tempered to become a family. Couples who break up because of the bride price in the end will also have a different direction in their later marriages.

1. Later, the woman's marriage was very bitter

The general bride price in the woman's family collapses because there are too many bride prices, in other words, it is a disguised sale of daughters, even if there are men who can give high bride price in the end, but they are not really in love, the huge gap in family conditions is finally destined to women in the in-law's house can not raise their heads, which can do housework honestly, and there is no right to speak and decide on major events in the family.

Second, later men's marriages will be emotionally incompatible and quarrelsome

Men are serious about feelings, after all, every man lives with a first love in his heart, not to mention a girlfriend who is in love to talk about marriage, and finally broke up because of something outside the body such as a bride price. The two are often super because they have no emotional foundation, and the man will not think about making up for it, but will only think that if it wasn't for the bride price, it wouldn't be like this.

3. Listen honestly to the arrangement after eloping and suffering

Some people who love each other will choose to elope despite the opposition of their families, do not go home during the New Year's holidays, do not contact their families, rent a house and live together, and finally because of the pressure of work and life, they will still be crushed by reality, and finally go home and honestly obey the arrangements of their families. Each marries a stranger who has no emotional foundation but is close to the bride price.

A person who loves each other will not be defeated by a bride priceIf you really love each other, please don't think about getting married when you are at your poorest, make a career on your own first, and then talk about married life.

Now it may not be as happy as before, because the bride price has caused them to lose too much, and they are already unhappy.

Marriage is quite happy, although the bride price is a cruel problem, but there is no money in the marriage is unhappy.

I can only say that I can't find the person I liked so much, but the marriage in the back is still good.

It depends on what the situation is, it depends on whose fault the conversation collapsed, and the marriage of the person who made the mistake is not very good.

Love alone in marriage is far from enough, marriage needs more rational management. Only when both parties work together to manage the marriage with their hearts, can the marriage exude her true charm. Pay attention to the sense of ceremony.

A good business makes it like falling in love.

You who married love back then, and later divorced because of the oppression of life.

There are also those who were not old enough to fantasize about marrying love, and now they should also be sober.

Of course, there are still some people who never married to love back then and are still single.

You who married love back then, and then lived a very plain life. At that time, young people were relatively simple, and the feelings between men and women were very pure, and once a romantic relationship was established, they would accompany each other for life. Even if life gets better later, they will live each day with mutual tolerance.

Knowing a friend, according to her own words, should be the lucky one who married love. But after three years of marriage, the child is now two years old. Listening to her, life is simply a piece of chicken feathers, and just after three years of itching, the two of them have begun to get tired of each other.

In the past, she thought that as long as two people loved each other, even if there was no house and car. But after getting married, I gradually found that money is really a good thing. Especially when I see other people's children being dressed up cute and beautiful, my own children can only wear old clothes sent by relatives; I only bought two or three clothes for myself throughout the year, and I was disgusted by my in-laws and spent money indiscriminately; A family of several people is crammed into a rented house, and there is no sense of belonging ......

And she found that the gap between herself and her husband was too big. At the beginning, I was probably carried away by love, and I didn't think much about it at all. But now I feel how difficult it is to have three views that do not match.

She thought about divorce more than once, but she was worried that it would have a bad effect on her daughter. With such anxiety, she said that not all those who marry love can go well in the end, and she has no confidence to continue.

I've seen too many of these female friends who were once married in love, but ended up breaking up. From their experiences, it is not difficult to see that the relationship between the two people after marriage wants to get better and better, which is actually closely related to the improvement of economic conditions. Although it sounds realistic, I have to admit that married life is not good with love alone.

The person who is willing to give you love must also have the ability to give you bread. In this way, love will not be consumed in tea, rice, oil, salt and quarrels day and night.

Of course, if you choose to get married because of love, the probability of happiness will be higher. If the husband and wife can work together and support each other to improve their lives, and life gets better and better, then the marriage will be more stable and harmonious.

In addition to love, life is more about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in daily life, and love gradually transforms into family affection and friendship. There will be no sense of freshness and joy from time to time, but more of a trivial life, noisy and noisy life.

Love has always been a topic of praise from people to the present, from ancient times to the present, it has always been the case, great love may really exist, but now it is rare, and now marriage, which pair is not a good match, equal, the story of the prince and Cinderella only exists in the phone after all. Nowadays, many girls would rather marry a house and a car ticket than marry love, saying that cheesy is also cheesy, it all depends on personal thoughts, because everyone's way of living is different.

I haven't married yet, but in the face of material things and love, I chose love. Now the two of them are working hard, hoping to live the life they want one day, and someone should not let me down, come on together.

We who married love back then are now very happy. I think that when I meet the love in my heart, I should work hard to pursue it, so that I can have a happy and beautiful life. I won't regret it for the rest of my life.

When you married love, were you happy later? Many people were blessed later, because they were not married to money, but love, and the two of them have been together for a long time, have their own feelings, have their own marriage, and have a beautiful, family.

When you married love, some of you lived happily together, although it was plain, but it was safe and stable.

Some have separated, and love can also be consumed.

What happened to us who married love, I can repair it. It must have been a hard life. There are old and young, and it is very stressful.

People who marry love are happy later. Because they don't pay attention to things, they value things more. It's feelings.

And they are able to tolerate each other. Very respectful and understanding of each other. So the personalities are all compatible. Very harmonious and happy.

When I married someone who was in love, some of them mixed very well, some of them mixed very poorly, and some of them were divorced. Therefore, the fate of life is different.

Being able to marry someone you like is probably the happiest thing in the world. In fact, I didn't get married until I was thirty-five years old, and I was also urged to hesitate to find a good person at random, and I made do with it, but fortunately, when I was about to give up on myself, I waited for someone who made me willing to fight for the last time.

The happiness of staying with the person you like,It's really for no reason.,Even if you don't do anything.,I can't help but raise the corners of my mouth.,We've been married for a long time.,I'm still like a girl in love.。

I don't want to work overtime anymore, I want to go home early after finishing the work in hand very efficiently every day. Of course, there will be friction, because of small things, or some unhappy quarrels, but every time I think of his well-behaved face, all the anger disappears.

I'm not a one-sided nymphomaniac either, luckily, he takes good care of me, always surprises me unexpectedly, and will wait for me to come home no matter how late it is.

Many times, for a person you don't like, no matter how many things he does, you may be indifferent (even after marriage, he may not do much), but if it is someone you like, he has a small move, you can be happy for a long time, and it is several times magnified happiness.

And because they cherish each other, they will also carefully avoid disputes, even if they encounter some difficulties, they will overcome them together because of the belief of "I love them" instead of passively avoiding them.

So, never compromise on marriage for any reason, because when you meet that person, you will understand that the happiness of living with the most beloved person is worth all your patience and waiting.